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dont ever let your life revolve around a girl you will always get dumped.girls need a challenge they need to feel theyve got a catch.If your needy and clingy forget about it women dont respect that i highly recomend buying a book or two on the subject.If i knew what i know now i wulda saved myself alot of heartache.

Dont sweat it.I fell in love with a very good friend of mine.It took me about 2yrs to finally become more than friends.We dated for a year and eventualy lived together for over a year.We did breakup not long ago and i havent talked to her in months.Yet i wouldnt trade all the years we spent together for a billion dollars.Just be cool and if shes into you shell come around.

greg you obviously need to change somthings.Get up get out of the house go directly to the mall buy some NICE clothes and start talking to girls.Make your self look good and youll feel good.You obviously have some confidence issues we all do.But talk to girls learn to laugh in the face of rejection and for gods sake dont come off as wussy or not confident.You have got to change yourself Greg.Nobodys gonna throw the girl of your dreams in your arms.If you keep doing the same thing, witch sounds like nothing, you can certainly expect the same results.Theres a million books written on this subject: invest the money.If you dont know how to do somthing you have to learn theres no shame in that.Best of luck to you.

about 3yrs ago i quit a very well paying job,bailed out of my apartment,cashed out my savings(about$4000)and moved to Colorado for the summer.I wasnt happy at my job and there were a few personal issues i was somewhat depressed about.I felt i needed time to myself to figure out where my life was headed and what my purpose was.Well after 4 crazy months i returned home dead broke.I had no job,no money and was forced to move back in with my parents.But i felt great, i felt for the first time in my life i knew what i wanted.I decided that i wanted a steady job that i liked, i wanted to marry the love of my life and have a family in the suburbs, amongst other things.which was along way from were i was at.Well 4 months ago the love of my life left me i was and still am crushed.I since quit my job and am starting all over again.Yet what i concluded out in Colorado still is what i want in life. i just guess itll be wit a different woman.anyhow, 3yrs ago i did in fact find myself and my purpose. its not going exactly according to plan but what does?I know what im gonna do with my life and in alot of ways i guess you never really stop finding yourself.

dude i did the same thing last week.This girl was hot to.But when i feel asleep my ex was the last thing i thought of and when i woke up with this girl next to me,i couldnt wait for her to get out.That day i was more deppresed than id been i a long time.However at least were not at home moping and we can get laid if need be.Thats gotta make me feel a little better.by the way its been 3 months of nc for me and i still compare everyone to my ex.That sux more than anything.In fact id give my right arm to fall outta love with her

is there anyone out there that has dumped someone after a long relationship?If so,how come?How did you feel after you did it?The dumper usualy seems not to even care.What kind of feelings are there?There has to be some.And lastly ive read a few posts on here were the people said how hard it was to dump him or her.What the hell is that supposed to mean?

I was dumped by my gf of 2and1/2 yrs about 4 months ago and i havent talked to her in 3months.I was in love with this girl for about 2yrs before we even got together.ive been in 2 other long term relationships and never new what love really was till i fell for my current ex.i still think about her all day long and i cant help but think she was the one and i blew it.worse yet is i know i will never love like that again.I dont think i believe in true love anymore.I was so sure she was the one.I felt it in the deepest depths of my soul.And evidentaly i was wrong the whole time.how can i trust my self again?let alone women?any advice?

im 25 and i was alot like you.while i never killed any pets i was pretty violent.i got in alot of fights and alot of trouble.i often almost felt guilty that i didnt feel guilty about stuff.i think you know what i mean.i started to mellow out around 18 as well.today im cool as a fan.i have a friend that was like you as well and he was into killing pets and stuff like that hes mellow and average today as well.However let me tell you i finally started to develop a consious around 21 and im now very guilt ridden about stuff i did when i was a teenager.somethings i hadnt thought much about now haunt me everyday.

The idea of a soulmate is just a bunch of romantic crap that kills more relationships than it helps.The divorce rate as everybody knows is about %50 and it is estimated that of the %50 that stay married %50 of those marriges are unhappy, and those couples only stay together because they are dependent on each other.Dependency is often mistaken for love.The i cant live without him or her is a common saying.Your better off to be dependent on heroin.Heroin will never let you down.Anyway, way to often people give up on a relationship because difficulties arise that they are not willing to work through.They figure if this is such a problem there must be someone better.Its is a search that some people spend there whole lives on.Theyll never find it.Anything worth having takes work.And true love is sepratness if you need someone to be happy youre more likely to be dependent than in love.So of the %50 that do get a divorce its estimated that %25 of the couples would have lived happily together, if they would of tried counseling or somthin.IInstead they decided to find the mythical "one".That they will never fight with and just get along with perfectly.Society tells us thats how its supposed to be.Its simply not true.Well its maybe true for %25 of marriges.But those are not very good odds.

Does anyone out there have dejavue alot.Ive been having things happen to me on a regular basis latley that ive sworn ive seen before.This has been happing to me my whole life but it seems to be happening more and more.I dont think im psycic or anything, and im pretty sure im not crazy.i was just wondering if anybody else out there knows what im talking about.

no dont bring it up. she has to be the one to do that, if shes really into you shell bring it up.you need to be alof and be a challenge any pysch major will tell you that

fantastic job you handled that perfectly

your nuts!do you really think your just gonna have sex and the fellings arent gonna come up.its impossible didnt you ever see that seinfeld when jerry and elain try that?

when the ex says i dont love you anymore and/or i never loved you.thats usualy bogus.there just trying to get rid of you because you wont let them go.sometimes people just need time,however if hes really intersted in you hed be a man about it and talk to you for real.otherwise hes just being a jerk.