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  1. Imaginary
    I would have said yes... if you're comfortable, then I see no problem.
  2. Imaginary
    Makes you realize how much a year can mean, doesn't it? Congratulations on coming to terms with yourself.
  3. Imaginary
    Have him over at your place, but don't hold your breath, he might just be overly friendly or something. (and totally clueless)
  4. Imaginary
    You can go to the movies!! is dark in there, and the movie is the main focus. Besides is not considered gay watching a movie together with another guy. (at least not in here) And talk about anything, whatever comes to your mind. That cool Seinfeld rerun you saw earlier that day, that interesting book you've been reading... really don't worry too much about that, IMO having a date where you've scripted what you'll say is kind of... dunno, boring? Good luck!
  5. Imaginary
    Well, if you want to take the first step go for it, but you'll have to stop worrying about his reaction, just assure yourself you are doing the right thing. Good luck. Also, remind him that you trust he won't tell anyone, that's important. Gotta go now, hope I helped.
  6. Imaginary
    Maybe, he might suspect it, since he asked, but there could be a lot behind it... you know? Like, you had trouble getting it out, so he could have thought that, but yeah, it's on his head.
  7. Imaginary
    Well, if you want to make it more personal (and etc...) you would want to do it face to face, I personally don't see anything wrong about texting or emailing things like that, but I can see why some people wouldn't want to. In the end it makes no difference, the information gets there, but even if I don't see anything wrong about going the electronical way I would prefer to do it in person.
  8. Imaginary
    It's like diving into a cooooooooool pool, just do it, if you go in step by step the cold will get to you and you will start getting out. So cut through the chase and get it out.
  9. Imaginary
    This thread is like a year and 8 months old, guys... I'm sure he's probably figured it out already.
  10. Imaginary
    Good for you, good luck with that. It's nice to have supportive friends.. and a good lead.
  11. Imaginary
    Eh, I'm bi, but I'm a righty.... however, my mom is a lefty, so, dunno.
  12. Imaginary
    I think you should tell him you had a boyfriend, but don't make a big deal out of it, just mention it in passing.
  13. Imaginary
    Well, just go and strike a conversation. Once it's out of the way, it's out of the way, and you can talk more and more often. You don't need someone to introduce you to actually meet someone. Just talk to him normally. (I do understand that if you are a bit shy this might take a while... but you can do it!)
  14. Imaginary
    Topic is close to two years old, guys... lol But yeah, you might be gay, who knows, you need to take time to explore yourself. (heh, maybe he already did...)
  15. Imaginary
    Give time time... specially at your age. Do you even know him? you say you are close, but are you really? if you are, you could come out to him, if you feel he won't tell anyone. (keeping in mind you might actually have the wrong idea and he might not have feelings for you or be gay... at all) and if you don't talk often, try to initiate conversations with him. Or if you don't think you can come out to him yet, test the waters... talk to him about gay marriages, about any organizations nearby... but keep it casual, and try to work them into a conversation without making a big deal out of them. And try to don't look uncomfortable or anxious around him if you do. [OT]Also, I just HAVE to ask about your avatar... what's it about?[/OT]
  16. Imaginary
    Some people will just go "Yeah, yeah, we're still friends" and quietly back away... just to get rid of them guilt feelings. Some even make very contradictory statements in the process (like your friend did) so they are easy to spot out.
  17. Imaginary
    There is a saying that goes... "If you can't fall in love with your best friend, who can you fall in love with?" But it really depends on the people involved... if you hold yourself, you can avoid falling in love, but sometimes you just fall so fast, you can't hold yourself fast enough. But if you don't reciprocate, people eventually fall out. Anyway, I haven't fallen for any of my male friends, however, I've had mild crushes on most of my female best friends, except the most recent ones...
  18. Imaginary
    Well, just hang around him, and when it comes up, just say, (with a light laugh) something like "Why do they call you that?" or "Why did you get that nickname?" and if the explanation is somewhat a joke or has nothing to do with his orientation, just say something along the lines of "AH, I see... but you are not gay, are you?" That would imply curiosity, not necessarily attraction.
  19. Imaginary
    Begin by asking him why did he get such a weird nickname. Then just get as close to him as you can.
  20. Imaginary
    Yeah, just forget him. Hopefully, that type of people will die out as the generations proggress (like racism). Anyway, you are better off that way, and you can be glad about it.
  21. Imaginary
    Wow. There really is nothing I can say, except be strong and keep yourself together, which is kinda generic. But I think you are doing well. I can understand you feeling depressed about your mother, but maybe someday she will finally put everything together and then you both can be happy. That's something to look forward to. Your brother sounds pretty confused, but I think he's reaction is possitive. He might have a conflict with his beliefs, but I bet he will come around eventually. If you want to cut your brother, it may be for the better, but family is hard to cut, remember that. Overall, just want you to remember that someday everything will come together, hopefully.
  22. Imaginary
    Just come out. Chances are, if he is, he will tell you as well. And he sounds trustworthy, from what you have said.
  23. Imaginary
    I draw and I write. That really helps me. But I don't consider myself alone, I have friends, but there are some things I should keep to myself, so I sometimes do feel alone, because I can't talk about them.
  24. Imaginary
    Well, if it's an ant, just step on him... Lame remark aside, dating a closeted person supposedly is hard (Well, so they say, but I have my suspisions is just a believe the out elitists try to impose) But if he is being outed... anyway, I'm going off topic... If he said he is nothing then trust him fully and don't worry, but if he does do something leave him right then and there and ignore every apology, and if you had sex get tested for STDs, that is the best advice I can possibly give.
  25. Imaginary
    You know, I fell head over feet for Sakura from Cardcaptor Sakura, then I fell for Tomoyo of the same show. In a way I understand how you feel, but then again, I was 10, and that was quite a while ago, so I might not relate as well. The point is, I don't consider you abnormal. But in the end, I would probably at least aknowledge that you do have homosexual/bisexual tendencies, of varying degrees at least, but I wouldn't know what to tell you.
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