lazy_day_blues

From wut u say the odds are that he is. Just make SURE that your SURE! Trust yourself, or you'll live with regret.

Im having the exact same problem if u heard...I'd get to know him more and build the trust like the last post just said; thats what im doing right now. I dont think that the guy your talking about will answer truthfully about his sexuality around others, so just build up your trust with the guy; become friends. Basically get to know him before you stumble into an unwanted trap. Im 14, so i guess we have a lot in common.

Im having the same problem with a guy at my school; like the exact same problem. If he is as close a friend to you as you say, and if he does accept homosexuality like you say, then you should ask him. In private.

I really like this guy, and I came close to asking him if he was gay. But I just couldn't. I told him that I knew something about him, so he could get interested in what I had to say. We are close friends and all, its just this question is not an easy one to ask. I can tell he's gay, even some of my friends who are in some of his classes said he's gay. He rides my bus, and he's really nice to me, I wanna know if he feels the same way I do. How is the best way to ask him; I'm not out yet and don't intend to be either...that's the frustrating part. He is somewhat of a jock, and I dont think he'll want to be out either. All I'm asking is how can I ask him and get an honost answer? Please, help me...

thanx..i hope i can find the right words...i still dont kno when i can find the right time to ask?! I'll find a way...

The dance was horrible...seeing him there with her...he didnt even dance with her he was trying to avoid her. His face was red the entire time i talked to him and I couldnt help but think they both were staring at me(him and his date) They could be like me and my best friend; kno each others secrets and all. And she's just pretending to be his date and all. Anyways she has a boyfriend from some other school. He must be pretending. I'll take Sylph's advice and ask him like that...in a secluded place when it is just the two of us... I hope I'll be able to work up the courage...If anyone has any more help I'd apprecaite it once again...it really does help me.

Thanks for all u guys support. I think I'll just take my time with him. He really is in denial..its kind of sad. I do live in a "somewhat" rural area, and open gays arnt like common; im not that open about it but a lot of my friends kno. I'll just wait till I can be 100% sure that he is gay, or I'll wait for him to come to me...I'll continue to do the things I've been doing to kinda hint that Im into him...I just dont know how i'll ever be able to tell him, or ask him...If you would like I'd love the support and the help if you'd like;I'd really appreciate it...

There is this guy I really like, but I dont kno if he's gay or not. We're pretty close, and the signs are all there...I just don't know how i can tell him! He pretends to like this one chick, but i kno what pretending looks like (i did it for a couple years) and that's exactly wut he's doing. Pretending. Im not out..but i still want to kno if he feels the same way i do? We pass each other in the halls at school and try not to smile at each other, he bumbs into me on purpouse a lot, and he does stare at me on the bus when we talk to each other. I just dont kno when is a good time to ask him...and how? Cant someone help me?