Baby_Blue_Eyes

Thanks everyone for your supporting words.. it was all supper sweet and yall are right...

Well my boyfriend of a 3 yr relationship ended it lastnight with a text message. here is what it read. "11:55 well since your in your room this will be kinda easy im dating someone right now ok not forever just for a while im gone ok bye and not forever remember that come monday its me and my friends and you and your friends ok well bye" Im like so mad i burt like one of his pictures while teary eyed. now im trying to mend everything up. I have every class with him so that mean i have to see him every day until summer break comes.. I need help with things i should do to keep him off my mind. He took away the life i had i was outgoing and had many friends but when i dated him i changed all that for him. And now im trying to get my life back on track. What all should i do to do that? Thanks

Yeah i know its all BS .. but see what makes me feel bad about it is he brings my past relationships up things that happened in like freakin 6th grade.. and i do admitt i did break up with him and date someone and then run back but that was when we were in middleschool he still holds that against me & i dont know what to do about this i really do love him and i dont want to let him go. idk maybe I just need to be smacked and told to wake the f up.

Well my boyfriend says he needs time to find himself. He said that he doesnt want our relationship to get old because he says he knows that we were ment to be and that we will get married. But he says that he wants to maybe date around but without any physical relationship just like friends dating.. * * * is what im thinking and thinking (yeah finding himself in another girls bed) my bf has not been known as a cheater but if he dated another girl i would be heart broken. right now im trying to talk him out of this stage or w/e its called. Right now we havent told anyone that we are broke up. I dont know what the deal with this is I really dont know. I mean why is he doing this. I know he loves me more then anything and we act like where not broke up but he says we are. we still kiss and spend time together, have sex and ect. So what are yalls feelings on this.

Thank yall for your support and Im happy to annonce that I called him and set up a visit i went over his house and explained to him why I think we shouldnt be together after reading your post. He was very angry and said there was another guy I looked him dead in the eyes and told him I was done with this relationship and I feel much better. As a matter of fact Im going out with my friends tonight since I havent been able to because I was too busy trying to please that guy.. I was leaving the friends that really cared about me. But my life is all back on track and better then ever.

Okay I have a problem and I need some help on what to do.. My boyfriend is like the real jealous type. He always try's to keep a leash on me. I don't know why either. I cant talk to any of my guy friends without him getting mad let alone give them a friendly hug he gets mad if I even look at them. But he talks to his female friends all the time and gives them friendly hugs. I have no problem with that. He is I think bi-polar though he will be like happy one min and then depressed the next. He does throw childish fits. I had to quit cheerleading because he accused me of have sexual relationships with the football players. Every time I go on vacation over the summer he thinks that I cheat on him. I Have tried to talk to him about this I have tried calmly talking to him but he says that I don't give a F*ck about him and if I try screaming at him he just says that I am mean to him. He is so needy and clingy right now I don't know why. He acts as if I have to give ever bit of my attention to him. He gets mad if I don't look at him enough when we are in class and the thing that makes him so mad is in one of our classes that we have together I sit in a seat surrounded by guys. Yeah my luck there all my guy friends and have been some longer then others but I will talk to them and we joke around with one another. And my bf sits over on the other side of the room either with his head down pouting or giving me dirty looks then after class he blows me off or gets mad and blows up on me. Well my guy friends don't really like my Bf. they say that he is nothing but a big * * * * * baby. And so they try everyway in there power to get me to break up with him. But me and this guy have been together for a while and I really care about him. If he would just stop this bam behavior everything would be perfect. So I really don't know what to do. Please help.. I would be very thankful.

okay first off im on my cousins account .. Im 15 by the way.. Okay my mom wont let me go out on a date with a guy like to the movies or to the basketball games.. She said i can start havin guys over at age 16 and go on dates like when im 17.. i think thats so stupid like all my friends get to do what ever they want to. they get to go and dates and have been allowed to since 7th grade.. well what do u think about this.. please help

well i knew about the dating part but kissing and stuff i wasnt sure I live in Virginia and i think it says anyone older the 4 years of you.. but idk

I was just wondering is it Illegal for a 15 year old to date an 18 year old i think the law says you cant date anyone over 4 years if you are a under the age of 18 right i have no clue.. what do u all think about the whole 15 dating 18 i mean nothing serious just casual dating thats about it..

Okay first off Im using my friends account until I get one but I really needed to post this I need advise bad.. Okay so i have a friend he is a senior getting ready to graduate and we have been talking ever since school started.. I am only a freshman.. We arent dating were just friends.. But the thing is he asked me if I would go to the Winter Formal with him.. Only Jr and Seniors can go but since I am his date i can go.. but the thing is asking my mom if i can go.. He dosent have his licens only his learners so that means that his mom/dad/or friends will be taking him.. Now my mom is real strict on me going out.. She said once i turn 16 i can have guys over to the house.. i dont know if that means go over to theres or what.. I am not allowed to go out on dates or even out with friends until im 17 But i dont know what my mom will say.. I mean the whole getting me there to the formal and back is no big deal if his parents drive and come pick me up that will be fine i think with her.. but if it was his friends then no way.. or she could just like take me and come get me.. either way.. but will she feel okay with him being a couple years older..! god i dont know if i should ask or not maybe i should just tell him i cant go.. but i dont want him to be date less

OKay im doing a poll to see what ages people lost there Virginity just to see..lol I lost mine just when i was 14 and 3 months and me and the guy i done it with which was and still is my boyfriend are getting married next year..!.. so What about u all? what age was you?

lol everyone seems to like that avatar..lol for some reason or another.. alot dont know that thats me..hehe shoo dont tell anyone.. anyway.. well i have one more year of highschool then i go to collage for about 4 i have already been set for collage and i have money set back so i can move out of this hell house so does my boyfriend when we turn 18 we are moving in together he has a part time job and i push papers at my aunts office.. but it seems one year is such a long way away..

Ok here i am with the worst problem ever.. just some back ground info.. My Mom: she is currently in a down spiral with drugs living with my father who i dislike because of his violent behavior in the past Yes that means i am living with my grandmother and uncle at this time and have for about 4 years.. tonight me and my grandmother had a huge fight over an F i made on my reportcard.. this is the first F i have made and she is making a big deal out of it saying that i need to think about collage and my grades and stop thinking about the fact my mom left me so did my dad and that she emotional hurt me.. My grandmother has no idea how bad i feel once i actually thought about suicide but I could never leave my boyfriend.. he is the only one i love... and too i went to church and found some help in god but that was about 1 year ago.. she has also been fighting over the fact me and my boyfriend had sex about 10 months ago and she wont let me see him she now recently found out so did his parents.. so there it puts me and my boyfriend in a bind.. we love one another and try to sneak and see one another.. but my grandmother is over reacting about all this stupid stuff.. I need help on this one guys please and thank you..

pev... you are so right about the strict home thing... now i can understand his parents being mad if we had had sex multiple times in there house or something.... or if he had had sex with like 5 girls.. first off i respected his parents until they called me a little whore.. now i have lost all respect for them.. they called me a whore and i was a virgin i had never been with anyone else but there son.. he was my first real long term relationship... and they have no rigth calling me something like that.. until they respect me i will not respect them.. but then again im going to act like the bigger person .. what they want me to do is forget about there son and not love him but im going to hold in there stong and not give up i will show them this girl is not weak..

well he talked to me today that girl is no longer in the picture just me and him and his parents.. see we only had sex once.. he was the one who came over my house and thats when it happened.. and someone said something about a baby.. trust me we both were well educated about that and sexual transmitted things... I was on birth control and we used a latex condom ..we were extra safe.. his sister somehow found out and told his mom and dad that was around 9 months ago.. they think that im the worst person ever.. and they jumped all over him... but yet his sister who is only 17 has had sex before ...but there parents dont know.. she told on him.. and he didnt say anything about her having sex... it just makes me so mad that doing something like that one time they dont trust him and that was 9 months ago if we were gonna do it again we would have by now we both agreed that we wouldnt do it again until we were married... we were both Virgins when this happened and he was the one who made me promise First person is the last person.. so there for his parents shouldnt worry.. and just think 90% of teens have had sex and there parents have no idea in the back of there head they know it happened but the wont confess.. and his mom and dad had sex when they were 13 thats WAY younger then me and him .. and they had his sister and him when they were 25 and 26... so they have no room to talk about we messed up.

u dont understand we have been together for 3 years..... and then we had sex our 3 year anniversery it was him who asked if i wanted to we both loved one another... very much and we still do... this is more then puppy love i hate when older people say your too young to understand love well tell you this i grew up way to fast

well im writing to tell you about my ex-boyfriends parents.. ok here is how it goes.. He was torn between me and this other girl Korey was her name.. she went to the same like church as he did and they hung out at the movies and stuff as friends but then he claimed he liked her.. i was so upset when i found this out it broke my heart into pieces i cried for 5 days on and off i wouldnt eat hardly anything maybe a little soup was it.. i was so depressed i stayed sick.. today is the first day i have been back on my feet i talked to him and we set on the steps at school for a long time talking and he held me as i spilled my heart out to him.. he kissed me and i kissed him we continued on this for a while then at the end of the day I asked him how much more time he needed before we got back together.. he looked at me all sad and said but i cant.. i tried not to cry and asked well why.. he said because his parents didnt like me because they found out about us having sex for the first time about 8 months ago... first off i was so mad at his parents because they have never met me or talked to me they think the worst about me.. we had sex because we loved one another i trusted him we used protection... we are old enough to make this decision.. he will be 16 and im 15 now... we are plenty old enough to decide who we want to love and date... i dont know what to do or what to say to him.. if he leaves i wont be able to do anything i will be sad all the time.. i just love him so much i cant let him go and i wont give up till were back together..

NO back hair or chest hair.. the deal braker for me is the arm pit hair that grosses me out.. But i prefur a guy that trims at least

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Well I have this real hard problem see I am well a real flirty person and I can sometimes get myself in trouble with that I am single and I have the choice between 3 amazing guys the only problem is picking ONE and only one..to be my prince Charming..lol Well there all in the same grade as me and they all go to the same school as me so as you can see I have been working over time for the past 3 weeks keeping each guy a secret to one another.. Yeah i know its wrong THATS WHY im fixing it ASAP.. but i cant decide Who to pick its so hard.. Thats why I have came here to ask for yalls Help!! so please please please Help me.. Ok here are the guys.. Guy # 1J POSITIVES He is a real sweet guy.. he is shy around me when we are alone he plays around with me when we are around his friends.. He cares about the way I feel and he has a beautiful smile and pretty eyes..his shyness is what makes him so adorable.. NEGATIVES He has a lot of female frineds and I tend to be the jelous type He can sometimes be a little wild and go out and party he also can get in trouble easily too Guy # 2N POSITIVES We have dated before last year for about 2 months so we know one another real well..his mom is supper nice and his dad is funny his uncle is also my Geometry teacher which is a pluse he can cut me a bit of slack..lol Yeah he is so nice too.. This guy is a real sweet heart he loves buying things and spoiling me which is a pluse.. NEGATIVES Around his friends he somewhat treats me like a prize somthing he has that the other boys cant have.. he also has a lot of female friends that he likes to hug there the jelouse thing goes again Guy # 3C POSITIVES This guy knows me the best he is the one that i have dated for 6 months 2 years ago he was the first and last guy I had and sexual relationship with.. he was the one who snuck up my house in the winter time walking just to see me and give me one kiss before he left for vacation.. He claims he loves me more then anyone in the world and that im his only one. NEGATIVES he gets supper supper jelouse if i even look at another guy let alone talk to him he has been know to have a high temper and in the past he grabbed me once when he was mad.. he is real sensitive and gets emotional he is real soft hearted.. its kinda all about him Guy # 4D POSITIVES God where to start this guy is like so wonderful all over he is sweet and just great he was my first ever love he cared about me so greatly we went to Jr Formal together in Middle school he was so great he is caring and would do anything for me and vise versa NEGATIVES He is real real real shy i mean real shy he acts like he dont really need a girlfriend or that he is afraid to have one i dont know which we had a good relationship before with no strings attached but now he seems like he dont want one.. but he is so great PLEASE TELL ME WHICH GUY YOU WOULD PICK IT IS SO HARD TO PICK I DONT KNOW WHICH ONE,...

yeah the only thing is the only time i see him is at church he dosent go to the same school as me and it is hard to talk to him at church because well most of the time he sits 2 seats behind where i sit...

Well i started back to church sunday and I saw a very nice looking guy come to find out he use to go to my school for like 5 years until he moved like 20 min away and he goes to a different school but the same church as I.. He is real real adorable he is one year older then I and I really like him I have always had a cruch on him.. he seems to be well behaved and his mom is so sweet but he dosent know me we have never talked i have just admired him from afar.. How do i start a friendship that might turn to something more

Ok first off this is my sisters account and I really need help so she said to post it on here an maybe I can find the answers im looking for.. I am now in high school and there is older guys around me all the time and I think Im falling for a real nice Varsity football player. He is 17 turning 18 in December.. the only problem is im only 14 I will be 15 in November he is a Jr and Im a freshman..! that is the problem pluse my mom would flip if she knew that I was dating an 18 year old guy even though he would only be 2 years apart from me.. He is real nice and respectful.. What should I do.. I mean he has been flirting with me non stop.. we have 1 class together an he is all the time touching me like my hand or hugging me and he would do anything for me..he throw paper away for me and all that little stuff.. So the only thing that is getting in the way is the age difference.. What do you all think I should do.. And how do I show him that Im feeling him as much as he is me see Im somewhat shy because were he is older i dont know many of his friends and when he is around them with me I kinda sit there and dont say much I dont want him to think that I dont like him because I do.. Thanks for all the ppl that respond to this.!

well here i am back again asking for yalls help I am in a situation where i dont know what to do.. ok here is the whole story.. I was 15 at the time i started dating this one guy and we had been dating for almost a whole year.. We would go out on dates and then hold hands make out you know the innocent harmless things..until one night he snuck in my house to see me. we layed on the bed an started making out then that led to clothes coming off an we ended up having sex we were both virgins so we kinda just went with the flow of things.. after that night he changed completely he called all the time wantin to have phone sex and we would be at school he would rub all over me and that was something i wasnt use to I talked to him about what he was doing and he got mad.. He kept asking to come up so we could have sex.. honsetly i wasnt ready that first night i kinda done it out of a last min. thing... I told him no i didnt want to and he would get mad at me.. I finally broke up with him and now it is 1 year later and he is still trying to get back with me and always bringing up the sex.. i know that im the only person he slept with and for some reason he wants just me.. he said that he promised he wasnt having sex with any one else except me and he kept to his word but i dont love him anymore i cant have sex with him if i dont love him if i could redo things i would have never had sex with him to start with.. so now evertime i look at him i think back on that time an it makes me sick i dont know why.. i told him i want to find someone i really love commit to them and be with them for like 2 years before i think about sex.. What is his problem what is he going threw PLEASE HELP

well this is a fought about issue an me an my friends have been discussing it I need your alls opinion on this as well.. girls that pose for playboy would you consider them to be slu**y or just a work of art..? personally I think one that is in porn movies should be considered a slu* because I mean come on she sleeps with people.. now playboy is no different then the old 24 century art. Right oh well what do u all think?