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The whole topic about my ex gf's mom has made me no longer want to be with her, last night and tonight her mom will not take her home so she can go out, bascialy doing everything possible to keep her from being with me.. ive had enuf, and my ex wasnt contacting me enuf about whats going on that night threw the day and i just really gave up... so im single and its time to move on, i feel it was the right decision and it was needed to be done.. i just wanted my stuff back but i guess that wont be happening
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Her mom doesnt want her to be with me nemore
p0w3RFuL replied to p0w3RFuL's topic in Relationship Advice
Hey. I know it would not be possible for her to move in with me or anywhere else. Her dad lives in puerto rico and he checks up every now n then.. he sends child support but my gf says her mom just uses it for gambling.. My gf and i read this last night after she begged her mom to see me for an hour or so, and we went to my topic and read.. she said everything on it was true.. I know parents can be controling.. my mom used to do it when she lived with me, but she would never do it to this extent.. My gf feels that she cant do anythign about it, and i asked her last night if we would see each other tomorrow, she replies ''Maybe i dont want to promise anything that wont happen" i hate that, i wish there could be a definate on when i can see her. Me and my gf dont go out to parties, all we do it go to movies, or play pool or bowling, or chil at my house or go out to dinner or other stuff.. No drugs, nothing bad. I feel as well that there is nothing my gf can do about this.. I just find it amazing on how controling her mom is, and how acceptive of it she is (she says she has to do it) Last night we told each other we love e.o and want to fight threw this hard point.. I was at her house around 9 and i had to leave by 10. at ten her mom kept saying 'its 10 oclock in spanish' and my gf said ok i know hes leaving, her mom would repeat it a lil after that. i left at 10:05 She has to even ask to walk my to my car, and when she did her mom said 'come here' so i had to wait.. basicaly i walked my self to the car and my gf came out and said bye and we talked on the phone at night quietly. We do things against her moms will, like go to my house or go to my families house with out her mom knowing or we basicaly just say we going to the moveis when we will actualy go do something else because her mom might not let her do it I think that the way i was raised is totaly differnt form my gf's.. As were when i was 5 i was able to ride the school bus to school in kindergarden, basicaly i was raised to have manners, respect, and to have responsibilities at a young age. I grew up with my mom like my gf is doing with hers.. I had to play the 'man' role of the house at a youung age about 10 or so, so i was always having to have the responsibility of staying home alone when she was at work and feeding my self (it was no prob) -
Her mom doesnt want her to be with me nemore
p0w3RFuL replied to p0w3RFuL's topic in Relationship Advice
Well i got caught by my step dad sleeping over her house when i wasnt suppost to, but her mom only knows that my step dad came to the house looking for me because i was late for school *i didnt wake up on time to go to school ontime* So thats what did it for the most part, but she has been trying to get my gf to break up with me for months, even during the summer.. she would say that school is about to start and its time u end this relationship... I just went on 4 day vacation with her mom and her and her aunt (her moms sister) and things were great i had so much fun with my gf... I do love my gf very much, but if she does not feel the same way to me then i will not fight for this to work.. because i feel like im the lone wolf trying to see her.. i know she tries hard but like tonight she is just like u should just go home and didnt explain why just that she will be busy so i had to call her back asking what happened. -
Her mom doesnt want her to be with me nemore
p0w3RFuL replied to p0w3RFuL's topic in Relationship Advice
Im 17 she is 16 I love her, but alot of things need to change.. She cant even talk on the phone past her 'bedtime' its like what ever her mom tells her to do SHE MUST DO.. Her mom is soo annoying, when we eat out to dinner together she will tell my gf that the way she is eating is rude (twirling her alfredo with a fork the way ur supposta do right??) Neways she tells her to do it this way, and she cannot eat unless she does that..im just looking at my self while i eat saying wow is it really rude? do people really look and care?? who cares? When she is with her mom things are so diff while on the phone she will hang up and explain later that her mom walked in and had to talk to her or she had to go watch tv with her.. Is it me, or is this alot to deal with?? All i want to do is spend time with my gf when i want to, of course not everyday but every other day and the week end..weve been dating for 7 months now and i used to spend alot of time with her mom and her mom used to say good things about me..now things have gone down Do you guys think im having to deal with alot?? if my gf is going to keep her rude ness when i want to talk to her about this im going to leave the relationship, and i swear to this alot of stuff has happened the past week and i know its getting bad, shes made sum pretty dumb mistakes on her vacation and was horribly rude to me.. -
MY gf's mom is very shady and mean.. She will make fun of her own children(20 years+) because they are over weight... She also down talks me when im not around to my gf.. saying how im raised by white trash, and i have problems that i will never fix... Currently i go to highschool and work everyday, i paid for my own car, and i pay my own bills. I work from 3:00-6:30 which doesnt leave much time for spending with my gf on the weekdays so i like to see her as much as possible.. This has come to the point where her mom is giving my girlfriend a prob when she wants to go out now, her mom will say she just wants to sleep and go to bed, but the same day she can take her to her dance lessons out of nowere at 7:00.... She also made my gf go to dance class's just because she says she revolves her life around me.. My gf's mom goes to the casino ALL THE TIME and never has food in the frige mayb sum slices of ham and milk.. they must go out to eat if thye are real hungry.. My gf's mom is calling me alot of names recently behind my back... she also is not letting my gf go out that much or gives her a huge argument if she does.. One time it got so bad with her gambling that i had to drive all the way out to the casino just to give her money to get out of ballet (8 dollars) She tries to prusuade my gf into not dating me nemore telling her that all i want is sex (which me and my gf laugh at) Basicaly her mom is making up nonsense just so she can get rid of me... my gf's mom is single and loney i dont know what the hell to do im so fed up with all this, i want to date a girl i can see more often not just a few hours after work mayb... HER MOM IS A PAIN IN THE A**!!!!!!!!! I STRONGLY DISLIKE HER I USED TO DO EVERYTHING FOR HER AND NOW SHE TALKS SO MUCH STUFF ABOUT ME ITS INSANE
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do guys hate it when girls hang up on them?
p0w3RFuL replied to SeaBisquit's topic in Relationship Advice
Theres nothing more to get me mad than my gf hanging up on me when were argueing over the phone..Recently i tried to talk things out with her because she got irrational over sumthing i dont know of, i think it was due to her mom and we hadnt seen each other in awhile.. Reguardless my gf hung up on me several times and turned off her phone, thats got to be the biggest anger point i can get to her sometimes i scream foul languages because im trying to get my feelings out and tell her how i feel and she hangs up on me saying rude things and turning off her phone so i cannot contact her until SHE is willing to turn her phone on. Summing it up: Hanging up is VERY immature, not a good way to fix problems, it just creates more anger and things get more hostil ex: You have some nerve hanging up on me. Simply fix the problems on the phone or see e.o in person.. or say you will talk to the person when you are calm. -
Heres an update: yesterday i hadnt talked to her since it occurred in the morning, no text, no phone call or nething.. i had texted her once after the morning and after i got off work i texted her and called her but no answer... Finally i call her at 11:00 right befor i go to bed ( i figured i would give it 1 last try) and she calls back finally and tells me that her aunt and her talked and her aunt isnt going to tell her mom which is good.. So we talk for about 10-15 mins and she is telling me her mom wants her to go to bed and get off the phone (isnt rare) so she says she has to go.. I say wait im so happy to hear that ur not in trouble and im so happy to hear from u and i was worried all day.. she says she was worried too. But she said she would text me or sumthing befor she went to bed, i texted her saying i love her and good night.. she never texted me.. Nothing..and its 12pm almost and i havnt got a text from her.. I really dont know whats happening.. She said she could of texted me at 4pm yesterday but fell asleep and left the phone in the car until her mom got back home at 10:30.. she had to of seen my missed calls.. but she told me she wouldnt of called that night for sum odd reason.. I dont know why she wouldnt text me or call me.. im going to try to go to my friends house for the night if my dad will let me so i can get things off my mind
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Ok if i need to, i will talk to her mom.. I will try my hardest to earn her trust back... Her mom has the slightest clue of what we do.. We have sex and she doesnt know, shes just the type of mom who would totaly freak if she found out my gf says.. I dont know, i just cant wait to talk to my gf to find out whats happening.. Im preying it wont be as bad as im thinking.
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I know, im 17, and when i talked to my step dad the day of the incident (today) i really convinced him i have learned my lesson (which i did) and it really did teach me a lesson. It was bad to do on a school night thats for sure.. Im going to talk to him more when i get home from work tonight, and we will come to agreement on what my punishment should be.. Im just afriad and constantly worrying about whats going to happen w/ me and my gf. I dont care about being grounded, i just want us to be able to see each other again..
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Hey, the inevidable occurred.. I was caught by my step dad sleeping at my girlfriends house (secretely) Unfortunately my step dad is a cop, so he knocked on the door hard, and came in asking for me..at that point i ran out the window to my car, but my dad already saw my car which was hiddin around the block... My step dad is grounding me, my gf's aunt was the one who answered the door and she now knows that i snuck in the house.. She will probably tell her mom, which im afraid will result in me not being able to see my girlfriend... I prey to god this does not occur, i love my gf very much and i want us to be able to spend time together. My gf's mom will most likely freak if she finds out because we cant even lay on the couch together when shes around..so the thought of sneaking in her bedroom is just ..bad.. Im feeling really empty.. I dont know what to do, i cant get in contact with my gf she doesnt have her cellphone with her its in her moms car..I have no clue of whats going to happen now... Its up to god.. Any tips? i know there isnt much to give a tip on..but any type of reasurance of to whats going to happen would be good.....
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Well.. When her mom is at the casino we spend all the time together of course.. We actualy spend alot of time together recently, its just that her mom is ALWAYS bugging her... I feel sometimes as if its not even worth her asking her mom since its an every day struggle just to go out.. My gf usualy will clean the whole house, then ask.... Or spend some time with her mom with a puzzle or watch some shows... and then ask if she can go out.. *note i have a car and i drive us everywere, but she helps me pay for alot.. But god forbid her mom having to take her places... Id never see her.. I think that Some parents are way over controlling.. Ive known some to let their daughter out when ever, just as long as there back at a certain time.. I mean u cant expect them to stay inside, that gets boring as hell Tell your gf to suck up to her mom for a while befor she asks if she can do something with u, or tell her to tell her mom she is going with friends if it gets real bad.
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Going threw something similar to ur problem too.. My gf only lives with her mom.. And i try very heard to earn her mothers trust, i do everything..Mow their yard, fix things in the house, move things around, help with the house all the time.. (sometimes i work really hard) I spend a large ammount of time with her mom sometimes.. My gfs mom is starting to tell her that she is too attached, she see's me to much.. she says she doesnt know what love is, and that she acts like she is in love.. My gf's mom is very shady.. She will down talk people behind their backs, and when we go out to eat she tells my gf that every single way she eats is rude, and you have to always have the most proper manners everywere. (all she was doing was eating alfredo with a fork..liek your suppost to do..right? But i guess u must always use a spoon and fork or its rude) My gf's mother will not let her out if she goes out 2 days previously.. Or she gives her a hard time and makes her stay in the house and clean.. But when she is at the casino she could care less about what her daughter does.. Me and my gf have come to the conclusion that her mom is just kind of loney and wants her attention.. But her mom gets to the point where she is say her daughter has no life and shes always with me.. Why does it matter? if their kid is having fun, and staying out of trouble and getting back home on time.. Then why should they be limited to the ammount of days they go out ina week.. Man its a pain in the *** at times i got to admit.
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Thank you for all your input, i really appreciate it alot, and so does my gf (she reads up on puccie08 )
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Hi, just wondering, my gf is 15 im 16 and she is late on her period for 3 weeks. I know we should go to doctors, but were gona wait for the next month to come to see if it just skipped, if not, then we start to find a doctor. My question is, does anyone know if the hpt works with everyone, even young ages. ive heard about the hcg not being picked up in young girls.. How late is normal for a period.. Ive read the signs of pregnancy, and she has had none.. its just late.. If she could just get her period we would be so much better, and we wouldnt worry so much.
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thats her btw.. look doesnt it show??? saying im pathetic for apologizing..LOL. and leaving me clueless to what i did wrong.. Greeeatt i went to church and i dont feel like dealing with this stuff today, or at all//
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ya man, i cant believe it. shes totaly flipping out for no f'ing reason at all.. i really dont know what to do at this point, i dont think i want to do anything to be honest with u
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Guys this is what happened and when i tell u this, im telling u everything that happens not just my side of the story.. today i call her at 11 am and we make plans to go see harry potter..we go and things are going good even tho im watching the most boring movie in my life, she was so entertained which made me happy.. i was also sick. after harry potter we go to my house to lay down and rest because i didnt feel good, it ended up in us having sex.. after that we joke and mess around wrestle or w/e and then go online to look up stuff on the internet.. we come to a disagreement on somthing sosooooo small and i end up laughing because i relized how dumb it was..well she does this laughing thing to me last night and she does it alot she will just laugh at me to piss me off saying how dumb i am and al this stuff and i just ignore her.. well when i laughed at her today she got realll upset she said dont touch me, and im like u want to hit me dont u/ she said yes/ so i let her punch me in the arm twice .. then i hold her and try to kiss her to say sorry but she kicks me in the face like 3 time and keeps kicking me in the arms and everything she knew i would get mad over that.. neways i get reallly pissed so im like lets go im taking u home.. we had plans to go to shells that night for dinner, but i was so mad she kicked me so much that i just wanted to take her home.. so we walk to my car and then she spits on my back window ...YES MY GIRLFRIEND SPIT ON MY CAR because she is so pissed.. so i take her home and i try to talk to her befor we are at her house and she just keeps quiet.. i drop her off and 3 hours later i text her saying we should try to fix our problems instead of going off on bad terms..well we talk and it just ends up with me apologizing for laughing at her and her saying i talk to much basicaly and hanging up on me 4 times and saying she is disgusted with me and she will not tell me why.. basicaly she wont talk her problems out for nothing..the funny thing is she did the most harm by being physicaly abusive and spitting on my car. i tried so much to apologize guys i swear, and i wanted to spend the night to talk to her but she just said no over and over again saying she doesnt want to talk to me anymore and she is disgusted with me and says i talk way to much and she trys laughing at me to piss me off and hang up on me over and over.. IM SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO SICK OF THIS!!!! IM SO TIRED OF HER I REALLY AM..ALL I DO IS TRY TO FIX THINGS AND IT ENDS UP BY HER PISSING ME OFF
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ya we used a condom this time... as for a doctor visit.. we dont know what to do .. where to go. i drive but i dont know where to go..
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Hey me and my girlfriend had sex and then we were joking around wrestling and then we felt her vagina area and relized it was thumping as if it was her heart or something.. like the ovaries were thumping is this normal? she hasnt had her period for some time now..2 weeks i believe and the preg tests keep coming up negative both sides of her vagina were thumping near the ovary area i believe
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Long Term Relationship and My Damn Curiousity
p0w3RFuL replied to BlueBaron's topic in Relationship Advice
Without reading other replies, my opinon is: If your enjoying yourself then stay with her. There is no reason to leave somthing so great just because your curiouse.. curiosity killed the cat, in this case kill the relationship. If your happy with your relationship, stay. If you feel something is missing then talk it out, if there is still something missing and your really unhappy then end it. -
I know she reads the directions, on both tests.. I assume she is doing it right.. she didnt mention that she was sick the same week she was suppost to get her period. To me she is showing no signs of prenancy, then again im not a doctor i just go on what i read. I know of girls being as late as 2 months totaly skipping periods...
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I FULLY AGREE!!! P.S dont worry im sure that significant other will support you no matter what happens, thick or thin.. and note you were sick around the time u got your period which could affect it
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Is this a good reason to lose trust?
p0w3RFuL replied to p0w3RFuL's topic in Trust and Relationships
She really hasnt done nething bad other than that that i can think about..Hmm.. She hasnt really done anything to gain my trust either.. I dont go to her school i dont know if she is flirty with guys, she swears she isnt..but how do i know. all she says is she is openly nice with everyone. We are kinda okay now but i see that affecting alot of stuff, like her wanting to go to a concert without me and her homecoming without me.. but she wants me to go to both but i ddint want to..i wanted to do sumthin diff.. Ive compromised to go to the homecoming this saturday but i dont know about the concert yet. -
Ive been reading just now, and i just come to realize ive lost ALL trust for my gf. The only thing i can really remember bothering me when i did trust her was with my friends. My friends had invited me to go chill with them, and i was with my gf at the mall. I said sure, and i wanted my gf to meet my friends and vice versa. We got in the car with my friends and everythign was good, we were laughing and everything and having a good time, we went to go get boiled peanuts and went back to my house and it was raining hard. So they pull next to my house and im like wow lets hurry and run to my door step, and my friend said jokingly watch her stay in the car without him, and i said to my self na she wouldnt do that.. And i then said outloud i trust her i know she wont do that, so i got out of the car and ran to my doorstep adn i noticed she didnt follow me..and i walk inside my house wondering like wtf.. what is she doing.. then i saw they drove off and i was really really upset, they came back 5 minutes later and she came in the house and she was laughing as if nothing happened. We got into a big argument that night andi think i broke up with her that night as well.. She said she didnt see anything wrong in it.. but i took it as her humilating me infront of my friends, her losing my trust and all these things.. Is that a good reason to lose trust for one other? Is it messed up what she did? it was a long time ago like 3-4 months.. i totaly got over it a few days after it happened too, i just now realized that thats why i dont trust her anymore.