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Well to start off i know nothing about them, just what she tells me.. thats a big thing i dont like.. she doesnt even know all who is going, just 1 guy named who ever and she said she went with him last year, and that he has a g/f.. the thing is he is supposibly bringing other people with him..Who? i have no clue.. she doesnt either.. Also when i say i dont trust other people i mean that.. guys are the agressors, girls are the ones who get hit on..meaning a guy hits on a girl, even if she has a boyfriend, besides how would the guy know she isnt single when she is alone...

The thing is the people shes going to the concert with, arnt her friends. She barely knows them, and its going to be a few guys, and supposibly their gf's. Its not that i dont trust her, i dont trust other people. This hasnt occurred ever in the 5 months weve been together, so i dont know how to handle it. Ya i dont want her to go to a place with big crouds without me, is that bad? Also last year she went she said she went with her b/f which makes it a lil awkward for me i guess. I just dont want to go to the concert but i thought about it alot and im asking a friend to come with me. Shes not just going with her girlfriends, its actualy none of her friends at all thats the biggest thing about this

Thanks. She stated she was going to go with some people, who i am not sure. Im going to her homecoming with her, ive decided that. I just feel if its not one thing its another, and even though im going to go with her to her homecoming, shes going to want me to go to the concert and still her go without me. At first when the whole homecoming ordeal came up, we were going to a nice dinner just the 2 of us, but things happened and she wanted to go real bad, i understand her wanting to go, so im going to go with her and try to have alot of fun with her. I also hate when she says im to controling, i cant stand it. In my opinion im not controling, but like everyother guy out there, they will not want their girlfriends going out to places with guys..Who in the hell would actualy allow that? that problem hasnt come up though.. But just because i dont trust other guys in big crouds like a concert, is the main reason i wouldnt like her to go alone. I can see if she was going to the mall with her female friends, thats totaly fine, but when she goes places where there will be a guy involved i tend to want to be there with her. Shes going to read this post when im with her most likely to my demand, and i want her to read other peoples opinions.. Just because i dont want her to go to a concert doesnt mean im too controling, its jsut something i dont find fun because il be with her and not with friends of my own.. I think there are other things we could do like go to the beach, dinner , bowling, i have no clue just alot more things than that.. Who would allow their g/f's to go alone? or for the girls opinion: Would you like to go on your own? or only go with your bf. She said she is going with guys and like their g/f or sumthing like that, i really dislike that alot.I was actualy really thinking about going to the concert as well but she came up with that statement saying if u dont go its cool il just have fun on my own thing which makes me upset, if she could just say she will go if i go, then il understand and il go and see how it is just for her.

My girlfriend really wants to go to her homecoming, which i didnt want to in the beginning, but i eventualy after argueing about it agreed to go.. the thing is i dont really know anyone at her school so its weird, also she said she would go even if i didnt go which is a lil messed up to me. Now she wants to go to some concert, 'Next big thing 5' and she said she had so much fun last year with all these people. I really dont want to go, i think the big reason is that its awkward going to big events with her, its not like im with my friends, its with her. She said she will go no matter what, even if i dont go.. she has also stated shes going with a group of people.. I just want to know if anyone thinks i should go.. or is she pushing to much, is it wrong to go without me?? I said to her i will think about it alot, and most likely bring a friend if i happen to go.. She said i was being dull, and boring... She doesnt understand that i dont really want to go to a 'concert' even tho ive never been to one.. I just dont want her to be by her self in such a big event like that.. I need inputs on whether her plans are right? should i go and just have fun? Is she being pushy about going no matter what? am i being to controling about saying 'i would like you not to go' am i to boring? Edit: i would also like to add that i dont think im boring..i have friends, and i drink and go to parties..Its just the big thing that bothers me is her consistantcy of going to these places even if im not present. I didnt want to go to her homecoming cuz i dont go to her school and i know noone there, and the concert thing is just a big croud and i think thats something to go with your friends with, not just you and your g/f. I DEFINTALY dont watn her to go to that concert or homecoming alone though... Weve argued abotu this problem alot and its actualy caused alot of big problems of her saying im to controling just because i didnt want to go and i woudl like her to do something differnt with me... Am i to controlling? or is she being to pushy? And is it wrong for her to say she is going whether i go or not? weve been dating for 5 months

Is this like your first time getting your period in ur life? Of course its ur period... your paranoia is actualy starting to annoy me.. bleeding=period.. why are u still worrying

i cant believe this, she calls me during her lunch to tell me sorry for the way she was acting today, and she admited she was really mean. she said she wants me out of her life but then again she doesnt. She also said we can be friends and all this stuff, we talked until she had to go, then at the end i say, can i see u today after i get off( dumb i know) she said no shes getting signed out early to go shopping with friends for her homecoming dress... so im like oh bye, but then she shouts at the end ''wait'' want to go with me to shop for homecoming dresses? i was like uhm..... i guess? i dont know why i said yes thats gotta be the most retarded thing to do but w/e why is she f***ing with me like this?? i dont get it..WTF IS SHE F***ing WITH ME!!??

Thanks, i have made the plans to spend the night at my cousins house tonight, im going to let her know im over her, not call her..nothing i just honestly cant be alone right now, i need to be with people i cant be at my house alone.. i used to spend every single weekend with this girl, and i cant just be alone this weekend, im going to try to make every day of my weekend fun and enjoying and i know its not going to go that way, but i will still try. tonight 8)

Hey guys, i really appreciate all ur replies it really helps.. Im so heartbroken i dont know what to do with my self, i feel so weak inside.. i didnt go to school.. im devastated so many memories to get rid of.. the pictures..the wallpaper on my phone.. the movie she baught for me, her pajamas.. it hurts so so so so much...its almost an unbearable pain, but i found that getting out of the house helps.. I was supposta go to her school for lunch, but i called the school and they said no visitors allowed. so i texted her and told her that. i told her i wanted to talk to her about other things too like my mom n stuff, but really i just want to be with her again.. it hurts...so bad.. the cd she burned for me with the writing 'from your baby amanda i love u' oh my i hate this so bad im crying again lol. im basicaly giving up now. she called me when i was driving and asked what happened when i called the school, and i said im not gona be able to go over there, she said she still wanted to talk to me about things (like my mom she said) i said cryingly im just going to try to get over you and we said bye... damn this hurts i dont want to go to work lol im such a panzy but w/e cant control it damn i remember her last night saying if its meant to be then its meant to be and we will end up with each other again.. i hate when girls confuse guys.. lol sorry had to edit im gona continue crying

Well me and my ex broke up last night, and im basicaly heartbroken... I told her i feel horrible inside and i need to see her and shes the only one i can lean on right now cuz i have problems with my mom as well, but mostly im hurt cuz of her... she said the only time i can see her is during her school lunch, which isnt too long and is really far away but im gona go anyways.. What should i say to her?? ive apologized, ive done everything she just says she wants it over and she keeps going over things i did wrong, to controling and i over reacted alot... Is it over, or is there sumthing i can say that will change her mind, ive pretty much said everything...

Its not me doing this silent stuff. I agree it is childish and it really irritates the hell out of me. I was the one calling her yesterday and texting her asking if i could go over there.And she simply never called me back, and she never texted me back during school which she knows i hate, i even said in one of my texts am i not good enuf for a reply now? still nothing.. i texted her at work finally around 6 and said can i come over after i get off, she said exactly '' no, im not home, and wont be for awhile'' like i said i even called her, and she still pulls this silent bull**** on me and it makes me so furious i want to end the relationship, but i know i have feelings for her still. Do you guys sudgest i try calling her again today and see whats up? ask if i could go over? or just talk things out on the phone? Thanks for replies

So you guys think NC is not needed in this situation?

we have been going out for 5 months now.. i would do that but im soo pissed this is ridiculous why is she like that. 2 days ago befor i went tobed, i texted her saying '' i think this is the best way to tell u this. im slowly losing feelings for u, and im not having fun anymore..but i stated i still want to be with her. then yesterday i texted her 3 times during school and she didnt text me oonce. one of them saying no matter how mad i am atyou, i stil love you and w/e. also befor i got off work i texted her and asked if i couldhead over after work, she replied and said she isnt home and wont be for awhile. aand then i called her then she said she is eating and i asked where and she said ''im eating il call u later'' i ask where are you ''Does it matter'' in a weird tone,and i said no and hung up.

I think today im going to start some sort of no contact with my girlfriend, is there a positive outcome of this? how long should it last?? what if she doesnt give in? We havnt seen each other in 3 days, and last i talkedto her she was eating and i asked where,she says ''Does it matter?'' seriously,do any of you think its right to say that to your bf/gf and then i try to call her threw out the night and i cant get threw.. and finally at 9 ish i called her house phone and her mom said she has been sleeping for an hour and a half... i am so upset i cant believe this, im so soso mad.soim not gona callher or text her at all until she gives in or w/e. she is on her period i think or should be.. i still have strong feelings for her, im just so mad i dont know what to do, so im just notgona callher. also befor iwent to bed i texted her saying dont even bother calling me or texting me. have a good week, and some other stuff

Can i have some input on what to do for fun.. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated

Ive researched, and precum only contains sperm if youve ejactulated hours previously without urinating.. Now if youve been shot with seman into your vagina, then ya u have a reason to be scared... its kind of upsetting me that your so worried over something so dumb.. honestly you need to relax,

Hello, ive been dating my gf for about 5 months now. I have a job, and i go to school, but i still have time to see her everyday, if her mom permits me to come over or take her somewere. I am 16, she is 15. My question is, after dating for months, there tends to be less and less things to do. I have my weekends off, and the weekdays free after 6:30. It seems like there is nothing more to do, weve done alot together.. Also are there any sudgestions on communicatons within relationships, we often have disagreements, and i want to know how we should settle between them. Weve had our bad arguments like all couples, but my theory is open communication is best, so we can talk our problems out, does anyone agree? Are arguments normal in a relationship? What should we do to spend our time together, usually i go to her house and watch a movie, or ill drive her to my house or what not, or we go to movies.. Please leave your ideas/comments

After doing much research, ive come to the conclusion that many doctors have said precum ONLY contains sperm if u cum 5 hours prior.. If you pee, then the sperm living in the uretha is killed, thereforeee meaning precum will NOT contain sperm.

Wrong and wrong. You are under their roof, their finances, and their protection hence they do have a right to tell you when you need to be home, where you can go, and who you can hang out with. The teenage myth of self-determination is funny to me because most can't see beyond their own nose, i.e. their world. I've been there and I know how it is, but learning discipline, character, and right-and-wrong issues is part of life that your parents will teach you. If they were ones that didn't care then I'm sure she'd be in more trouble than she is now. There have been social studies on this so check them out. I will look into finding them and post any that I can get my hands on. Yes you might be under their finances, their protection, and ''roof'' but as a child you cannot chose this, your born with the parents u have. Your stating that since the child is under the parents 'goods' then the child must follow their directions (even if they are wrong) there are long term side effects that could happen to such treatment. If the child is not allowed to eat when she wants, then the child is being starved..hince abuse?...if the child is unable to go out with friends..then there is lonely-ness..hince a bad life.. There are somethings in life your meant to enjoy, and some of that is experimenting and making your own mistakes, not your parents controling you until your an adult and you dislike them the whole period of your life. IT IS WRONG. over controling= negative results in future life.

Well weve made up, and were back together. She swore to me that nothing like that would happen again, and abunch of other stuff. The only problem i see here is that, when a problem occurs, how should i deal with it? Thats our biggest problem, when she is mad at sumthing, she finds it nearly impossible to express to me. She stated she just needs time alone when she is upset and she will either forget about what happened, or tell me. I need some sort of input on how couples deal with their problems, do they talk things out, should i hold my emotions in? Things are alot better, yesterday we spent the day together playing pool at bowling ally, and i took her home at 9:45 shes stated to me alot of things that she doesnt want us to fall apart, and she swears it wont happen again, im just afriad it will, and im wondering if there is a way to prevent this? This being her getting mad and not telling me what shes mad about and it building up, or her just doing waht she did and saying she wants us to be over.

Me and my gf have been going out for 4 months and weve broken up 2 times becuz of me early in the relationship. 2 nights ago i told her somethign she didnt like and she told me she didnt want to talk to me for the night. I said ok and didnt call. The next day i didnt text her or call her at all, i wanted her to call me and show that she cared about us, but she didnt. So i call her yesterday after school and ask her if were still together, she says "you tell me" twice, i kept asking then she said " let me think about it " twice, then she said no.. I really wasnt to sad about it because i thot it wasnt true, But i over reacted and i called her back asking why, all she said was alot of things that were built up. I asked her if she loved me she said no, and she wanted us to be over. I kept calling her and we eventualy talked out our problems and everything was going fine, but then things got bad again and she said never talk to me again, and i want us to be over. things got bad and i kept calling her, and she kept saying stop bothering her and she wants us to be over, so i got drunk that night and called her up after i got drunk and tried to go to bed, but i couldnt sleep and i eventualy got a hold of her and we talked our problems out, and we told each other about all the good things that happened in our relationship and she cried and told me to stop, but then we talked our problems out i told her i dont wnat to lose her, and she said lets go to sleep together on the phone and eventualy she said she wants to see me the next day, and befor we hung up she said she loved me. I dont know whats going on, is she playing a game with me to see how i feel about her? does she really want things to end, or does she want it to work out, has she lost interest in me im so confused, I really want to work things out with her, and get us on good terms, but we need to talk about alot of things like why she said she didnt love me, and all the things she said to me yesterday after school. Yea things got better befor i went to bed, but it took alot of begging and saying sorry. SHould i stil get with her even tho she said all this to me yesterday for no real reason. How should couples resolve their issues, she says that when she gets mad she just wants to be alone and she will eventualy tell me the problem or get over it after she has been left alot, i tell her to just tell me right away so we can work things out. Sorry if this is hard to read.

Ya we got back together last night, it was close. but i kept talking to her and she said she wanted to stay together and we are..thanks for all the input.. my conclusion was that im not going to break up with her when ever she gets me real mad, ill just talk over her with it.

ya we have actualy, the past 5-6 days weve spent time together, accept for yesterday and today,

Hey, thanks for the replies.. this is the first time she has been like this..i do think shes using it as an excuse.. i just dont understand why she wouldnt tell me whats wrong..thats the thing that makes me the most mad.. I dont know if i should apologize tonight..wait for her to call after work..i dont know.. Im just going to see if she calls after i get off work at 9, and if not ill give her a call..tell her how i feel. and see what happens.. It hurts thinking about moving on..but i can do it.

Also, Could the girls state if they are like this on their ''menstural cycle' or is every girl differnt.. she also said that when shes on her period she just dont want to be touched.. Are there any girls like this?

I never thought i would be posting in this part of the forum..neways.. Here it goes: Me and my ex have been dating for 4 months, and we just recently started having alot of arguments for like a month.. I just recently got my licence so i can now go where ever i want.. tuesday she was acting like totaly careless, i would do everything from kiss her to hugging her, and she would just act like she didnt care. Let me note that she is on her period. throughout the night i kept telling her lets just have a good day please, and i was doing everything possible to do so.. But she was in this consistant careless attitude, she wouldnt give me attention at all.. she just kept watching the movie(at my house that i rented for us) she said was so boring, and was acting like it was so entertaining to the point she would forget i was next to her i would always have to make the move to kiss her that day.. Eventualy she stated she was mad the next day, and i said it was bull**** the way she was acting, and she said she was mad over a number of things i did that just kept building up, she never stated these thingss even tho i asked her over and over. yesterday i texted her and said im tired of the way she was acting and it was bs and all this stuff, and still in the text all she said was ya i was mad, i had to keep texting for her to say mad about things i did... i said that she should just consider her self single and here i am today, i dont knwo if shes just like this cuz she is on her period or what.. Last night i called her and i said whats our situation she said ''you tell me, you made the decision'' and still on the phone had this careless bull****attitude, as if she had nothing to say even tho alot of ****went down.. im soo confused do girls just get like this when they are on their period? should i wait for her to call me? should i move on? should i call her?? i dont know!! i didnt evne do nething bad.. accept break up with her i guess