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HEy guys, thanks for the replies... One last thing> Do u think i should try to make things work out again? if so, what should i do?
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Me and this girl were hanging out alot on the weekends and we have a class together in school, we went to dinner last weekend and hung out all of the weekend.. THen wednesday we went to a movie and i made the move and we kissed several times, we still talked after-wards and the weekend after we hung out saturday and sunday and then on the weekdays we didnt hang out.. THis friday we watched a movie at my house for about 3-4 hours and we kissed and held hands *we would always hold hands certain places* but saturday she went to the club and i was cool with it i just was kinda upset we didnt see each other the whole day and i kinda let her know that all she said was she was busy with her friends.. sunday we didnt see each other either neither did we talk on the phone, she also ignored my texts.. so sunday i call her and finally get in touch with her and i ask her where we stand and she says she didnt know.. blah blah and shes not ready for a relationship cuz she doesnt have time for one, and she said "i kinda dont want one either" i asked her if she liked me and she said yes, though she said she doesnt have time for a relationship.. i dont know what to do as of now im not calling her or talking to her much il just say hey to her at school or w/e but thats it..... My question is why did she make that decision, i didnt expect that at all, i think i was a little too demanding in time i wanted to spend with her and mayb i was too aggressive?? anways replies would be nice !! thx
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Clear signs guys give to show they are just not that into you
p0w3RFuL replied to ladeedah's topic in Dating Advice
Avoiding the girl to the fullist, and if conversation strikes i keep it small and end it quick -
I BROKE UP WITH MY GF! did i do the right thing?
p0w3RFuL replied to italianstalian's topic in Relationship Advice
Well i just dont get why u would at first break up with her and then chase after her so fast to try and work things out.. Thats not to mature of a thing to do.. But other than that it seems like u did the right thing to do -
Just because a guy is too polite u think hes not interested?? Im polite to everyone who talks to me.. i say thank you, your welcome, and i open doors for girls always i apologize for things i didnt have cause on.. Thats just the way i am.. If anything being over polite would sudgest hes into u.. because im not TOO polite to girls im unattracted too
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I know were ur coming from.. a lil thing like that used to make me never trust my gf.. You honestly need to just tell her that you TRUST her and to not break that TRUST.. And as long as nothing suspecious goes on again, you really have nothing to worry about.. thats not all that big and it happened along time ago.
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Well when we went on a date she had broken up with him.. and she told me that.. thats the only reason i asked her out.. The guy kissed another girl, thats why they broke up.. And thats the only reason i asked her out that night because 1. she had told me she was single and she knewi was too.. and 2. to get over my ex (helped alot) I really dont think she hangs out with her bf that much because she hangs out with her friends alot too.. I mean i dont really think i would be being 'used' and i know its wrong to pursue a girl who is taken.. but the only reason is because we went out while she was single and i enjoyed the night.. oh well i asked her to chill this weekend on saturday afternoon she said she doesnt know sunday might be better and to just keep in touch.. so il see what happens.. Thanks for input!
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She makes me laugh, really good looking.. i see her alot in my day.. we have alot of things in common like sports and spanish heritage ...
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So i guess dont make another move until she does?? But what about her whole asking me to try her shake or w/e and the flirting? are those signs of her persueing??
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Help me out on this, if i could get a reply by the end of the night that would be great!
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Hey, me and this girl saw each other satuday for a brief minute to meet up so she could give me her bracelet thing to get in the carnaval or w/e.. and monday i asked her to go to steak n shake with me for a shake and she went and during then we talked for about 15-20 mins and ate our shake, she asked me if i wanted to try her shake and i just said no.. tuesday my teacher assistant period i was in her class like usual and her friends blurted out something like anthony is a better ta than chris so fire chris(the other ta) and then they blurted out that anthony is krystles man and she shook her head and then they talked and her friends kept staring at me it was rreal awkward. today i asked her to go to steak n shake again but this time she should pay in a text kidding around at first she said Im full! how bout il pick up your tab tomorrow, cuz its my last day of working for the week(shes off friday and i have to work the whole day) but only tomorrow, this offer doesnt come around often lol so take it or leave it. i replied no and i wanted a shake today (kidding aorund) and i said what if for some odd reasoni wasnt in the mood for a shake 2morrow n some other stuff kiding around she said in a reply Anthony stop ur * * * * *ing i took a nap. but tomorrow will make my last day faster! then i didnt reply for a period and she sent a text saying 'So tomorrow right' and i reply Tomorrow ur going to have a shake by ur self? sounds like it! then she replied you jerk fine il see you there today. Gosh! ! i just replied '' All those texts included more information i just put in the more important stuff to make it short.. we went to steak n shake again today and once again she asked if i wanted to try her shake so i said yes this time so i got my spoon and got some of her shake.. she also said that she forgot about her boyfriend today and she didnt text him at all.. n we just laughed n talked for 20 mins I dunno we also flirted at the end of work a lil too.. things were just differnt but she has a boyfriend she got back with last week becuz he kissed a girl at a party but i think there is still tension there.. I dont know what to do?? ask her to steak n shake tomorrow again? or ask if she wants to do something on the weekend? i dont want to make it to awkward I need sudgestions lol she also paid for our shakes today lol
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Until she starts hitting u during sex.. i had to deal with that, howly shiat she was a freak! i loved it tho, so did she
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Well, i know who ur talking about.. I can do it for you if you want.. He called me too several times on the weekend when i was like real busy, im kind of seeking the same advice Basicaly when he called me.. im just like ya im really busy can i call u back, and i never do.. then he calls back.. i brought up the fact that he asked u out to the dance.. I said '' So i heard you asked amanda out to the dance or w/e'' he sounded shocked to hear it but i was so annoyed by his calls that i just wanted to mess with him I was like "So what did she say??" He said "She said she doesnt know yet" I thought you told him u had a guy tho?? Dont send mixed signals, cuz thats just wrong and misleading... If u said you dont know and havnt made your mind then your keeping him on his toes wondering if your going to go with him.. You need to be blunt. Your friendly neighbor Anthony
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Well i said that there are other pretty girls to let her know that im not picking her because of her looks.. because she can make me laugh and i have fun w/ her. I said i think u look good, but then again there are other girls that look good and not just you, so it doesnt mean much to me.. I said she can make me laugh to let her know there are other things to her that makes me like her.. Im just really confused that when i asked her when were going to hang out again she said she might get back together with her bf.. and shes really confused on what to do.. Then when i said she looked good and can make me laugh and i have a good time hanging out with her, she said you too, and she had alot of fun on our date.. she also said we see each other everyday that she feels weve gotten closer and she is glad to be able to chill and be friends.. I know the girl is interested in me physicaly, its common sense.. im not dumb.. when we talk we look deep into each others eyes the whole conversation and in class she wil do certain things just to look at me or my way or she will eves drop into my conversation or just say she hates me because i get to go to out of school for a teacher to get mcdonalds.. and she will joke about me makin smart remarks, even in class the teacher will tell us to stop flirting unconditionaly or w/e and il just say she started it or joke around.. just alot of stuff..
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Hey this is a lil text convo between me and this girl i work with and goes to my school... she broke up with her boyfriend a week ago and told me and i basicaly started talkin to her on the phone and asked her on a date the day after (tuesday) and we did go on that date and had a good time, but since that week i asked her out the night after that date and she said she was busy and then the sunday i asked her and she said her parents wernt going to let her out cuz she was caught drinking Anyways ive been meaning to talk to her in person just really havnt had the time.. were either in class or at work and were occupied with the kids at our job ANyways i text her after we both left work and said: I noticed u left work pretty fast i was just wondering if everythign was alrite.. oh and when are we going to chill again?!? her: (2 hours later) Lol i was in the gym with harrison(teacher from school ms.harrison) buti noticed i was like hauling * * * too lol i was just ready to lget out of there. I dont know what to do me and eric might get back together so my head is all over the place again me i was goin to talk to u after work but u went dukes of hazard on me and left when i turned my head. but yo its cool dont let it bother u just make ur mind up over time its not like theres a rush and bro if anything we could just chill as friends i think u look good but there is alot of girls like that, doesnt really mean much, u know what i mean? i think ur cool to chill with and unlike most girls u have a sense of humor and can make me laugh. her same for you i had alot of fun that one night. i guess cuz im sstuck with ur * * * everyday ive felt like weve gotten closer. im glad we can chill and be friends. I texted her back sumtthing i jsut dont remember waht wasnt to important.. I dont know what to do.. i know she flirts with me in class.. everyone says we flirt alot in class.. its just i guess shes gotten back with ehr boyfriend.. Anys sudgestions?
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Ya i understand.. i just dont want to wait to long and her hook back up with her boyfriend.. but im gona kind of wait till tomorrow or late tonight to see if she calls.. Im definatly giving her room, shes constantly laughing while we talk and always smiles and we joke alot about work and other things.... I just thought that when i texted her saying give me a call if ur not doing anything this weekend and her replying 'k you too' was like her saying she doesnt want to make a move and want me to call?? or is that just a polite way of saying it.. Im trying to date to get my mind off my ex too btw i left a long term relationship 3-4 weeks ago and now im dating and it feels good to get my mind off things.. a new 'excitement' and this girl looks really good... and we have things in common. at work i also asked her whats up with her and her ex .. she said '' he thinks were better than what we really are'' meaning like he thinks that they are together again and thats really not whats happened.. or alteast thats what she told me.
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well i forgot to mention she was really really sick and that was teh reason she didnt go to work.. today her brother took her car and didnt return in time and i asked if she needed a ride and she called and he said hes down the road so she said no he better be here n stuff so i asked if she wanted me to stay and wait and shes like no its ok u can leave so i just left cuz i didnt want to say NO im waiting for ur ride lol.. neways i called her sayin i felt guilty and she said no its fine dont worry n all that.. then i texted her asking if she got picked up yet.. she said ya and thanks for the offer she appreciates it. then i sent her a reply saying no prob i just felt a lil guilty leavin ya, give me a call if ur not doing anything on teh weekend.. then she replied saying K you too. LOL * * * confusing what do u guys think?
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Hey a girl at my work broke up with her boyfriend sunday and didnt go to work monday, so i asked her on a date tuesday and we basicaly went, she at first said she didnt knwo if her mom would let her but she was able to go anyways, she said that she went out without tellingher mom and just her dad. The thing is the date was for about 2 hours and we went to dinner and then walk around the mall til 9 and then her mom called her and said to come home so we walked back to our car and left. the thing is i asked her out again the next day and she said she is busy and had * * * * to do that night and thanks for asking .. so basicaly she said no. so yesterday 2 days after our 'date' i didnt ask her out ebcause at the end of work she was saying how she doesnt think she will go to the gym because her back was hruting and she had to do some report for a class, so i got the hint she wasnt going to be able to go out that night... Im not sure if she got back with her ex or not.. Should i ask her out tonight it wil be friday.
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Is it time to be a lil more aggressive? or wait back? wut shoudl i say lol
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Hey, i go to work with this girl and i see her at school evryday 5 days aweek... I broke up with my gf 2 weeks ago,and it was pretty ruff at first.. but then this girl at my job told me she broke up wit her bf cuz he kissed a girl at aparty or w/e.. so i end up texting her and telling her to call me, so monday we talk on the phone for over an hour and she was real sick so she went to bed after an hour of talking.. i text her that night asking to go to dinner with me and she basicaly says yes if her mom lets her or w/e.. we end up going to dinner and the mall to walk around for a lil.. things went good and we talked about alot of stuff, joked about alot of stuff and what not.. today i messed up, i texted my cuzin sayin '' should i ask that girl out again tonight'' .. but on ACCIDENT i sent it to her.. I FELT SOO SOO STUPID AND embarrassED LMAO but w/e i ended up playing it off as a joke and told her it was an accident.. i said a lil later in a text '' SoOoOo what are you doing tonight?? im so not smooth lmao oh well'' and she said in a text reply ''oh boy, lol thanks for asking but i cant tonnight i got * * * * to do. il text you later though good luck at work'' cuz she knew it was hell that day she also texted me sayin '' Just dont be mean to little girls you big bullie'' cuz i said i hated kids this past week and nd she wanted me to talk to the managers for her to tell them she is hella sick (which i did) but its 9:50 and i havnt gotten a text lol i see her so much in a day but i dont want to be the idiot who doesnt receive the 'signal' that she doesnt want to date me or w/e.. I do know she broke up with her boyfriend sunday .... she said last night at dinner table that she doesnt know if she should get back with him because there would be no point she would not be able to trust him.. w/e SO CONFUSING LOL
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Hey, my ex and I were going out for 7 months until i got a lil upset at how her mom wasnt letting her go out as much and she wasnt so excited about trying to go out nemore so i basicaly ended the relationship knwoing i would want to get back i just needed my space.. well the next 3 days was friday and her mom called me asking me why i was in her daughters room the other week (i got caught by my step dad and her mom eventualy found out) now her mom wont let her talk to me, or see me.. or anything.. I know i broke up with her 2 days prior but i just wanted a break and i said sorry for giving up when times got bad.. now things have turned out as me not seeing her for over a week now.. and last i saw her i got my stuff back and she said she wasnt able to see me anymore because of her mom and we said we love each other and we kissed.. last i talked to her on the phone was monday and she said she was giving up on our relationship saying its impossible to see each other and that she just wants it to be over because its to much to deal with and theres no chance in seeing each other again.. well basicaly ive been texting her a few days after that saying i love her, and need her, and im wondering why she is ignoring me. and she hasnt texted me back or called me or even talk to me online... its like shes forcing it to be over.. i know she loves me, and i love her very much.. but why is she giving up?? my old friend goes to her school and said he was talking with her and her friend and her friend was saying I (myself) dont understand that she doesnt want to go out with anyone right now. and my ex was agreeing with her as if she is right.. Why did my ex lie to me about it.. i know her mom isnt letting her see me or talk to me.. but why is she saying sumthing completely differnt to her friends and not talking to me under no terms at all just plain out ignorinig me.. IM SO SO SO Sick of it all, ive given up as well, because im not going to just want to stay with her when all she does is ignore me. im wanting to move on and forget her... i said i would never move on but shes sure as hell doing that.. ignoring me is enuf.. i wont take nemore of this and im seriously wanting to force my self to date someone.. am i wrong? should i not do that?
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update: we talked secretly last night.. and basicaly shes said that she cant take anymore, and shes gtiving up.. so i will accept that as an end.. but im just wondering if it was to much on her and she actualy couldnt take nemore stress or was it just not love to begin with.
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I wish honestly that i could have 1 more chance, and prove to her i would never mess it up for anything.. If i had 1 more chance, i would let her know how much she meant to me, how much i enjoyed her being next to me.. Today> monday.. I start to work in the yard, hoping to relieve my mind of the pain and sorrow. I and sweating in the yard raking leafs and my hand full of calaces. Im tired of waking up at 3 am thinking she is next to me, wishing i could turn my head and just feel her next to me once more.. If she would read this, i would want her to know that i will NEVER move on, i know there is to much love.. and for it to be broken apart by her mom, i will not accept that.. I will stay a loving boyfriend till the end.. and like we swore to each other, we will get married and have our child and live a happy happy life and move from the pain.. AMANDA I LOVE U, more than words can express. and if i had one more chance with u, i would never trade it for anything. I would remain with you, even if i wasnt satisfied with the times i got to see u, even if i got to see u once a month. YOU WOULD BE MINE, and i would wait until next year when i am in the service and we could live with each other and love each other once again.
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Thank you.. Im preying to god that within a week or two her mom will relax a bit, and mayb my gf can talk to her about going back out with me.. but that...im really unsure of, just a hope.
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I broke up with my girlfriend when times got bad.. I couldnt take all of it... her mom wasnt letting her go out, and i took the assumption that she didnt want to go out with me either because she seemed to just go with the flow.. I shouldnt of broke up with her when times got bad, i should of stayed strong, i was just upset i couldnt see the girl i love when i wanted.. i was used to seeing her every other day, and her mom wasnt letting her out for nothing... Anyways, times got really bad friday.. HER mom found out what really happened about me sneaking in her bedroom and she called me friday around 8 or so asking why i was in her daughters bedroom that day my step dad came looking for me, basicaly i told her a story of what sorta happened, and she said i was disrespecting her and the house and a whole bunch of stuff... she never said anything about me not being able to speak to or see my gf tho... but i guess she forgot to tell me i kept texting my gf threw the weekend and i got absolutely no reply at all, and i got worried and basicaly she texted me 1 night when i was outside her window saying she will never be able to see me or talk to me again.. so sunday i went to church and then got a card saying i miss her and want to be with her and im sorry for giving up.. i also wrote a message to her mom saying im sorry and i wanted her to call me.. sunday i droped it off and then when my gf read my text her mom wanted her to tell me to leave her alone and we will never be able to see each other again, and my gf gave me back my stuff.. Guys im SOO scared i love her TO DEATH, and now i will never be able to see her or talk to her again. Sunday when we talked we cried to each other saying we love each other so much, and how her mom was going threw really bad money problems and having to almost sell the house.... im so scared.. she wont even reply my text anymore and she said sunday she didnt want to because she didnt want to get her hopes up again and she cried when she said that... I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO.. im waking up in the middle of the night just thinking about her and the love we had and the many many many happy memories we had to gether... We wnet threw our problems, but every couple does.. now its just her mom making her not talk to me or see me ever again