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  1. fluffie
    I CAN go if I like but I have noticed he says I will go 1st then you can come after I want some man time and admits to saying ill suss it out first for you..??? Im suss on this..... how do I catch him, if there is something there.. Can you advise me futher
  2. fluffie
    You can still delete incoming calls.. Im like you too. That would really tick me off. What would happened if we raised it a bar to their level, how would they feel? Are we supose to deal with this stuff for them and ask these girls for permission to go out with these guys? So old fashion but may be the way?
  3. fluffie
    I wouldnt put a total BAN on it but.... I wouldnt see him evey night otherwise he know hes tooo important and can get it when ever he wants. Another thing you could do is to slow it down... go out for dinner so you guys have to talk for a few hours first. I think you have to establish a realationship 1st or it could fizz. Telephone chats are good to on night if you dont see him.. Keep up the communication then give him a treat!! LOL!!
  4. fluffie
    Yeah I agree with Esie, I dont really understand what you want and what the point is. Why not have some fun with a new guy? The possibilities are endless and the amout of fun, you wont have to worry about all this sort of thing. I guess if you want to be friends you should support each other and not plan games if you are. I would be very upset about what happened at the party. I think you guys should clarify if he was at fault, and move on together or appart.
  5. fluffie
    Unfortunatley shes not available for anyone with that problem. If she got straight it would take mabey a year or so for her to have the room in her life to take on a serious relationship. I think shes lucky to have someone in her troubled time who cares about her BUT I think I would back off, its a terrible situation and you dont want to hang out with that sort of croud. Get a nice girlfriend who can support you too. Good luck
  6. fluffie
    I think enough is enough. Your already on the back foot as you took him back in the 1st place. How can you ever sincerely trust him again? You will have to live your life alway worring about this. He should have more respect, he know you will alway come round now. Good luck sweetie, just my thoughts
  7. fluffie
    I think lieing is a bit slack. The best thing to do is avoid answering the topic so you dont have to lie and the person knows where they stand. I think it does matter! Its childish and irresponsible. There is not point to mess around and it comes out in the wash. Even if it is small who cares! Just get introuble for something small instead or the other person can get on with it if something needs to be done. Good luck
  8. fluffie
    I dont think there is much of a problem with snooping, we have to find out things, and they usually gave us a reason to snoop. The thing what sux is that we dont know everything behind what we found out and cant talk to them about it so its a lost world. If its serious who cares I would just admit it and confront him. I think they bring it on themselves with their behavior in the 1st place. Its good to know who you are dealing with as much as possible. Its a part of your life too.
  9. fluffie
    I could, but I havent been invited on that night yet, he knows I would hate it. He has taken me before and we sat talking to her mother and her sister for ages talking. I wanted to be very rude to them but I didnt at all. I just got a yuckie feeling from it all. I couldnt imagine him in the same situation...
  10. fluffie
    My boyfriend of 2 years hangs with his ex girlfriends family, they own the local pub. He says that family night is on wednesdays and he never goes on that day. I dont know if she goes but he said sometime she does. For the last month he has been going every wednesday. I cant tollerate it that well and it gets me angry inside cas he doesnt understand my feelings. He said he loves me and I have nothing to worry about. His mother died 5 years ago and they were very supportive at the time. Thats NICE of them but still I feel VERY VERY uncomfotable and its gives a BAD feeling. Please help XXX Its not just the ex its the whole family they are all very close to him...
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