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Hey bro i know how your feeling there have been alot of times when ive felt like giving up i used to have alot of girl problems. And believe it or not most of it just comes from confidence and don't stop being nice. For me the thing was all i had to do was stop trying so hard and all of a sudden i was magically meeting new girls left and right and people finally saw the "glow"(my ever posotive attitude). What ever you do bro just dont give up do what i did each day find a way to better yourself. And dont become complacent. And about your job start looking for a job in that field. Take absolute charge of your life no matter what the conditions you are under. Good Luck Bro -Paul

I've been hanging out with this girl for awhile. Talk on the phone everynight and never fails to bring a smile to my face and make my day by the end of the day. And today were going out to a book store (barnes n nobles) and im thinking about asking her out. I have no idea how im going to ask but i'm afraid im going to chicken out because i fear rejection alot... Is there any easy way to overcome that fear? Or should i just go for it ? Thanks, ~Paul

lol ummm thanks for the "advice" i was just wondering if u guys thought she meant yes but yes that sounds like a good idea lol

ok well this is pretty much how it is i just met a girl around here about 1 month ago and we just talked you know just like aquaintences. And the more we talked the more we realized how many common intrestests we had. It eventually turned into to her wanting me to call her all the time and just talking all the time. And today i really felt like telling her how i felt.Because we just wlaked along the river and i had like the best time ive had in a long long time and i actually smiled for once. And i did but i asked her if it changed anything and she said it could but prbly in a good way and i ask her if she lfelt the same and this is how it went.. deLvEwiThiN: Anyway deLvEwiThiN: I had fun today deLvEwiThiN: A lot of fun. deLvEwiThiN: I haven't in awhile. I'm really glad you were able to come over deLvEwiThiN: And I really anticipate the next time we get to do it again s133pw4lker: oh that kind of awnsers my question s133pw4lker: lol deLvEwiThiN: Sarcasm? s133pw4lker: no s133pw4lker: thats kind of inbeetween a yes and a no s133pw4lker: thats all lol deLvEwiThiN: Hahaha deLvEwiThiN: Sowwie deLvEwiThiN: Sometimes I talk in riddles and the only reason why i think she responded in a riddle is because shes embarrassed easily im just really confused. and i tend to not believe things to be true because im always afraid of dissapoointment maybe a little to much please leave what you think so i have some idea thanks for helping out

What are the chances of anal sex getting someone pregnant. I came inside of her. And yes it was unprotected but is it possible for her to get pregnant if so how much possible ?

shes not concerned at all its just me i always worry that she is and well the last 2 tiems i worried she never was..... its prbly just me worrying again i just watned to konw if this was an early sign

it has just changed to summer and im not sure if that has anythign to do wiht it but my g/f is peeing alot latley and i was wondering if that was a sign of pregnancy she is on teh patch. And i only didnt wear a condom once but still pulled out. Thanks Paul,

hey man not having a g/f until your 14 is fine honestly i dont think anythign before that can be all that seriouis ill be turning 16 in about a month and when i turned 15 i actualy started learning things about relationships i mean in the past year ive had a few g/fs but eventually i found one that fit me right and ive been wiht her for 5 and a hafl months just remember u might have to go through some heart ache and yes its completley normal trust me it is

Heres all you need to do. Sit down and think to yourself is this the man i want to be with for the rest of my life and love and care for forever ? if the awnser to that question is yes for sure then do whats in your heart and get him back. And theres no reason to be lonley. Try to go outside or excercise or run somethign to get rid of the stress. Someone once said "your always alone you just have to love the person your alone with (yourself)". Just remember you cant give away what you dont have without love for yourself you cant give away love to anyone else.

Im pretty sure your a nice girl. So i doubt its that he thinks your uncool or anything. I can tell you this girl in my school likes me im friends wiht her though and she acts really wiered around me like says stupid things that make no sense someitmes but i know why cause she told me over the phone and such. Im not wiht her because i have a g/f (the love of my life). But just give him your phone number and ask him if he wants to seea movie or something. And like i said before dont hold back at all you only live once you dont want to miss out on anything.

You dont need to forgive anyone or forget anything. Letting burdens or past memories bother or own you is a choice. Remember that feelings arent emotions that happen to you. Feeling are reactions you choose to have. Here are the words from Dr. Wayne W. Dyer. "No one can depress you. No One can make you anxious. No one can hurt your feelings. No one can make you anything other than what you allow inside." Just remember you choose your burdens you choose to *have* to forgive. If you like reading i suggest you look into Dr. Wayne W. Dyers books.

I understand how you feel this is exactly how i used to feel. But as life moved on things all of a sudden got better one day by luck or chance. (long story) lol. But i suggest you just give this book a chance its improved my life even more. Its called "The Power of Intention" by Dr. Wayne W. Dyer. If you ever wanna talk to someone you can IM me on AIM or email me my s/n is Int3nti0n.

your still young and for me 13-14 were hard ages i mean really hard i know how you feel just make it to high school and things should get better and if i were you i would take that hate and start excercising like lifting. As soon as i started lifting it started out as a way to get rid of stress now i use it for that and i look so much better than what i used to be. You wouldnt think it gets rid of alot of stress but it does.

You just need new friends try and go out and do something you like or take up a new hobby or excercise to get rid of stress and all that. I know it helped me.

i got to the point of that once but the thing was in the end it was really just me getting rid of the problem

I dont think its to big of an age gap me and my g/f are 1 year and 4 months apart and 2 years isnt bad at all and if your only asking because you care what other ppl think. Dont care what othe rppl think because its what you think that counts in the end.

*lower back hurts *stomach is hurts (its like she cant suck in her stomach) feels like cramps but worse *out of breat *tired kind of *period is late by 3 days 3 weeks since sex are there signs of pregnency ? any advice woudl be greatly appreciated Thank you

Ive already learned from this quite a bit im glad i have this forum to help me though im pretty sure she isnt pregnant cause we tell each other everything but i know there is still a chance that she is and ive already been given condoms by many of my friends who are helping me out and we havnet done it more than that 1 time. Im giong to be extra careful next time and i will for sure consider waht you said after u saying am i old enough to be having sex i am already considering talking about it with my g/f to see what she thinks i just want to thank everyone so far for helping me out with this

yeah im 15 and when i was 14 i was headed no where had nothing to live for at all adn now im happier than i have ever been theres always goign to be a few bumps in the road though and suicide is not an option ever just make the best out of your life

ya i know im way to young to be worrying about this but its an issue now so i cant ignore it

yes but then it fell off but we didnt stop so i pulled out obviously

she didnt miss her period yet thanks

Me and My Girl Friend had sex for the first time on December 26th 2004. She took a pregnancy test on January 2nd 2004 it came out negative. Is that to early to take a pregnency test and exactly how accurate is it? Im sort of scared but not as scared asi thought i woudl be any advice i would be greatful for. Thanks

very true thanks for the advice

Your case reminds me of somethign that happened to me sort of .... but if i were you i would just wait a few days and if nothing happens call so you dont have to get all stressed about it dont get stressed over things ull hate yourself for it later believe me. but good luck with that. Paul,