i just turned 14 years old and ive never had a girlfriend (is this normal)?...only reason im posting is cause ive been on holiday with my friend (not on our own, with a load of adults aswell) who i really like and got back home today...i promissed myself i'd ask her out but didnt have the guts, so im bored and a little upset...anyway im a boy shes a girl...and i like her...i got a fairly good feeling she likes me aswell but i dont wanna ask her out cause last time i asked someone out which was also the first time i coward out of it cause i was very nervous. only prob is that she has a little brother who tells everyone everything he hears or sees. but i only want her to know i like her unless we decide to tell family and friends...but yet again, theres another problem, i dont wanna ask her out, well i do, but everytime i see her i think just ask her out, whats the worst that can happen? but my mouth just goes dry and i dont say nothing. so heres a little things id like help on please...
1. how do i hint to her i like her in that way?
2. how do i ask any girl out? cause saying will you go out with me sounds like a really bad joke, but something that your able to say with no words like love in.
3. as far as i know shes never been out with anyone, so i dont know if she likes boys, but i need to find out that much atleast before making a move of any kind.
4. i dont know if my mum or dad knows i like girls (they dont think im gay either though) so i need to let them know in a way that doesnt sound strange. dunno if its any help for you to give an answer but my bro knows i like girls
5.im worried about what my mum or dad or her mum and dad (and her brother, cause he makes everyone feel bad) might do, they might stop liking me or something different if she says she wont go out with me
any help would be great thx
P.S: shes at the age when the mood swings start, so sometimes she might not take me seriously