drahcir

Most people have romantic dreams at night (at least sometimes) but I have never had a romantic dream before. Why is this? I think about romance a lot (probably too much). Is there anything I can do to have romantic dreams. How often do you have romantic dreams?

"Yeah, pretty much everyone I know at uni thinks that and when I told someone that I couldn't drink alcohol because of my genes they said, "Oh, that's no fun at all, if I couldn't drink I would kill myself". Feel kind of sorry for them if they think that's the one and only way to have fun in the world." ---I agree....i don't drink and always have a ton of fun!!!!!!!

Maybe they like you, maybe not. YOur age probably doesn't make them like you any more or less.

"Hi there- I get enough compliments from random people on the streets and friends to know that I'm attractive" ---people who compliment you on the street (people who you don't know who compliment you) are probably perverted. Stay away from them. "..my friends think I'm a "catch" because I'm kind, creative, talented" ---- Your friends may know you are kind, creative, and talented, but guys who are not your friends don't know that. Try befriending more guys. Take the initiative to be thier friend by asking how they are and gettting to know them personally. Then they will see your true side. ."..yet no guy in my life has ever asked for my number." ---no girl has ever asked me for my number (I'm 31 and just got out of an 8 year relationship, so I have to admit I was out of the dating scene for a large chunk of my 20s). ----hmmmmmm I dress cute, wear make-up (not a lot), try to look approachable ---looking approachable is a good start. NOw start approaching guys ," but am not one of those loud, giggly women at bars." ----thats actually good you are not like that. In fact, I guess I'm more on the shy side--an introverted artist ---you just have to practice going up to guys and talking to them and getting to know them more (but I do like to have fun). --so does everyone What am I doing wrong? . ----nothing. Just start approaching guys and you will have success. Not the first time, or the time after that, but if you keep trying success will come to you Since the break-up (three months ago), I've been keeping busy, doing my own thing, hanging out with friends. And yet...I have friends--often tall and blonde--that meet people all of the time. ---i like shorter girls. MOst guys do. Height really doesn't matter Am I trying too hard? --focus more on approaching guys if they don't approach you Do I just not have the "look"? ---i am sure you are beautiful to someone (I'm part Asian, part white). ---that doesn't matter. Should I forget about trying to find someone and just concentrate on my own life...? ---no....unless you want to lonely for the rest of your life, you should go out and get some guys!!!!!! What makes guys want to approach women? 1. Smiling 2. Asking the guy how he is 3. Asking him about his interests, what is important to him 4. Being creative and romantic 5. Making eye contact....paying COMPLETE attention to him and no one else 6. Hugging him? Should I approach them? How?

HMmm....i don't think being bored makes one suicidal. Most people commit suicide because they have been hurt in relationships (or lack of relationships). Or they commit suicide because they feel they will disappoint people. But it is true that people commit suicide because they have too much time of their hands, because when they have nothing to do they spent lots of time feeling sorry for themselves.

I would never date anyone who has ever cheated before, or anyone with a criminal record.

Its best if you contact social or family services in your region to deal with the situation. YOu can probably find a contact number on the internet. Otherwise phone your phone company and they can help find a number for you.

So, if this guy were to rape a girl, you wouldn't leave his side? What if, 20 years down the road he were to sexually abuse your little girl (God forbid!)? Would you befriend him even then? --1. I doubt this guy will actually sleep with a girl who is 13 or 14 --2. He is not a pedophile (who likes children...he does NOT like children) He just likes young teenage girls ---3. I am not having children for around 10 years Drahcir, you have to draw the line somewhere. As long as you are befriending him, then you are giving signs of approval. ---thats not neccessarily true You are on a very slippery slope, and you might just get started sliding and not be able to stop. ---are you suggesting i will also become perverted? Did you ever think that someone standing up to him and saying, "What you are doing is wrong and our friendship cannot continue because of it" MIGHT actually make him take a step back and CHANGE his behavior? ----I am not going to reply to this post anymore!!!!!!

College is a place where you learn new things Esp. on how to find a new girlfriend Where you can have many flings Which will hurt you in the end The time of your life is a time asleep In class where you learn left wing propagnda There is little knowledge you will actually keep You will be as brainless as a sheep that says "baaaaa" Learning things you will never use Meeting people that you will eventually lose Giving all your money away Through high tutition you have to pay

I true friend is ALWAYS there. If you are only going to be someone's friend as long as they act normally, then that is not a true friendship. A true friend is always loyal, no matter what. I am never going to leave any of my friends no matter how perverse they may become. Thats what true friendship is.

Shes too young!!! Here is a rule of thumb: Divide her age by 2 Add seven To see if she is right for you so your relationship can be heaven!!!!

Well its probably going to be a very long time (5-10 years) before I have kids, so I don't have to worry about that now. But its cruel to desert someone, even if they are being perverted. This guy doesn't have too many other friends...if all all of us (in our group of friends) deserted him, I fear he might actually go off the rails and actually sleep with one of the younger girls. Cutting of the friendship might actually trigger harm, rather than prevent it. I don't think he actually would become a pedophile, but even so, his comments bother me. But i think that cutting off the relationship will be worse than maintaining it.

"I'm wondering because my close guy friend has come and told me he's in love with me as well as his ex. WHAT! I don't know if to believe him even if I wanted to pursue things.I didn't think it was logically possible... because I'm a true romantic." ----thats a really really weird thing for him to say!!!!

I have NEVER had a crush on a cartoon character, and I have never found a cartoon character to be cute. They are just not human...how is it possible to love something that is not human (excluding animals because there are some animals I love). But a cartoon creation.....i could never fall in love with one.

I have never been dumped because I have never had a girlfriend before. I truly believe that if you plan your relationship right and if you wait for the right person to come along, then there is no reason to dump or be dumped. It IS possible to avoid the pain....as long as you do your planning.

I am not concerned about him sleeping with any of these younger girls, but I just find it really inappropriate that he is flirting with them. It also worries me because he hasn't always been like this. A couple of years ago he was actually going to a Bible college and wanted to be a pastor, but something happened and ever since he has been going in the other direction. HE started by reading all these weird sex books, and now he has some really strange ideas. Then he started working in this clothing store that mostly targets younger teenagers....and I think its there that his new interest in younger teenage girls began. Ever since he started working there, he has become more and more perverted. Recently he quit that job, so hopefully he will have less contact with the young ones, and his perverse mind will be changed back to normal. Hopefully......

Well not everyone was staring at him, but some people were beginning to notice. And my friend was telling him off...he was pissed because when that guy was in the bathroom, my perverted friend gave a 16 year old girl his phone number and told her to phone him. SHe and her other friends (and moms) left before he got out of the bathroom. When he came back and was told that his phone number was given to this 16 year old he was quite mad at my perverted friend. Ya....i will keep my future kids away.....

"Point out rationally that if he chats up a girl that young she could easily tell her parents " ---actually when we were in that restaurant, the girls mom was hanging around and she didn't like the fact that he was checking her out. Also he asked for for a slice of her ice cream cake (it was her birthday), and he got some from her. Even the servers were noticing. Thats why it was so embarressing.

I have never kissed a girl before, but I want to make out in the ocean. When we are really deep in the water, under a moon lit night. That is the best place to kiss.

I think it goes more one way....guys probably prefer shy girls more than shy girls prefer shy guys. This is because many people (not everyone) still believe that the guy should be the leader, and the girl should be the more passive one. This is a stereotype that is hard to change.

We are friends because we have fun together, can talk to each other, and know each other for a long time. I don't want to lose him as a friend. I am just concerned about his perverse ways.

I have a friend who is 22, and he is into girls who are as young as 14. He doesn't have sex with them or even date them, but whenever he sees girls around that age he checks them out. And he starts conversation with them as starts talking about Hillary Duff and stuff like that. One time we were in a restaurant with him and he starts talking to these younger girls...and its really embarressing because we would never talk to girls that young, and he made us all loook like a bunch of perverts. Legally he has done nothing wrong, but morally he is on the wrong track. Also, he is so lazy. He doesn't work or go to school. He just stays at home and watches tv and wastes his life. And checks out girls who are only 14 or so...that is sick.

Yup, i think your concerns are reasonable. Divorce and remarriage can be very very messy, and its good that you are aware of some of the special circumstances. You alone will have to decide if your concerns are more important than the person you love.........

For me, I don't drink either. I don't have any moral objections to drinking, as long as that drinking is responsible. But I just don't see the fun in drinking.

Just talk openly with them. Explain to them why you want to go to Vegas, how important it is to you...ect. Your parents might be more understanding than you think. Also, there are lots of things in Vegas other than drinking, gambling, and strip shows. There are water parks, theme parks...dones of stuff.