ppp86 Posted June 10, 2019 Share Posted June 10, 2019 Hi I am looking for some advice possibly from someone who is in or has been in a similar situation to me in the past. I have been with my partner for 3 years and our life is almost perfect apart from one niggling matter that comes up alot when we have a drink.. mostly on my part. a year ago i found out he had been messaging a girl from his past behind my back, telling her she looked amazing etc. i believe thats all it was as he has promised me this. and to most people i guess this is nothing to worry about. but i do. all the time. before i met my oh i was in a relationship for 10 years with somone who treated me very badly. he was controlling and abusive and he cheated on me multiple times. i have been to cbt counselling because of this but i am not sure if it has worked for me. i just cant get this betrayal of trust out of my head. i know to most it will seem very petty on my part. any advice on how i get past this will be grratly appreciated... be as brutal as u like ... tia xxx Link to comment
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