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Sorry this is happening. How long have you been dating? How old is he? How is your relationship otherwise. It's good you're getting help with your mental health, however you may be in the wrong relationship if it makes your mental health worse.

Try not to expect so much accommodations from your friends and try to respect their lives instead of expecting special treatment. Especially try to understand that they have their own lives and you've grown apart, so staying stuck in the past while they evolved is your issue not theirs. Perhaps a referral to a physician for the severe anxiety and other issues would help with more complete treatment because talk therapy alone doesn't seem to alleviate your discomfort.

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Sorry this is happening. Do you live together? How old is he? If he's on dating apps it sounds like he's cheating. Either way talking at him hasn't helped. Porn is the least of your problems if he's checked out and on dating apps. He's interested in sex, but with others. Please get tested for STDs. Why tolerate his dating apps?

Is she clear that it's just friends?

Sorry this is happening. Unfortunately running from something instead of to something can lead to disappointment when you get there. Perhaps figure out the job, housing, family and BF situation to decide where you would rather be?

Sorry this is happening. Unfortunately this nebulous exclusive but dating others arrangement is a recipe for headaches, headaches and confusion. For example now you're both busy with "friends" and the interest level is tapering off. Either she found someone else and is giving up on this bizarre arrangement or she is simply checking out altogether. If you want to continue to date try to clarify what's going on and suggest actual exclusive dating or just set each other free.

That's great. Make a nice date of it.

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Great you're going on a date. She's in the kid in a candy store phase of divorce. Avoid anyone not yet finished with their old business. They're just looking for attention and validation at your expense.

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Try to believe her that she's stressed and busy with her school. You didn't mess up. Just stay on the radar and offer to visit, see each other, take her out whatever, but don't suffocate or second guess.

That's the best approach. Document everything, put things in writing and try to keep it uncomplicated and make a clean break. Yeah court is ridiculous and drags things out.

Sorry this happened. At least she was upfront. If she's in the throes of divorce,it seems more like you dodged a bullet. Please don't be her shoulder to cry on. Let her pay her therapist and attorney for that.

So you want to try to work things out? It's much better to work things out with ower if you get your refund. You can't just drag people to court when there's no dispute.

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That's the best course of action. No it's not a sign.

Try to focus solely on co-parenting. Enjoy the pics of the children but try to interpret her level of happiness.

Sorry this is happening. It's a difficult decision. However between the cultural, financial and other incompatibilities, you may want to consider setting each other free. Add to this the long distance and the relationship may fall apart naturally. Please don't try to be friends. When are you moving out of state? Perhaps that would be a good time to cut your losses?

Unfortunately it seems like an abrupt breakup. Definitely sort out the details of collecting your things at a mutually convenient agreed upon time. It's your responsibility to collect them from her place. Please do so neutrally, maybe bring a friend. Get the details of your deposit and in writing to get your refund. Do everything in writing and as politely as possible to just get it over with effectively.

What was the breakup about? Is there any reason to stay in touch or follow each other's social media? Agree that the depressed reasoning was just an exit ramp. It seems like she moved on but long before the actual breakup. Is this the same woman?

Sorry this is happening. She seems torn and trying to tiptoe out of the relationship. Please reflect if you want to be in the crossfire of her on/off relationship and a backup plan.

Sorry this is happening. Are you watching a lot of violent porn? Please see a physician for an evaluation of your physical and mental health. Get some tests done. Ask for a referral to a neurologist for help with the ASD. Also ask for a referral to a licensed qualified therapist for ongoing support. With some guidance and professional support you could improve social skills and any disturbing obsessions.

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Please try to step back and give your friend some space. School isn't the place for foot massages. There are spas for pedicures. Is this more than a friend if you've been intimate before?