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Wiseman2

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  1. Please set yourselves free. You broke up, were hurt, feel betrayed and have lost all respect for her. There's no point hanging on to this. You know exactly how you feel about it and her. You mentioned several times it makes you sick. The relationship is toxic. It probably always was to some extent because of trauma bonding. For example your mother and this GF going at each other like honey badgers. You realize that's not normal, right? Hopefully you recognize you have a lot of damage from your mother, even regurgitating her excessive morality stance. Your mother abuses religion because she's a fantatic and very broken person. Unfortunately you're going to have to do that work of cutting these poisonous apron strings. Hopefully you'll look into therapy while at university.
  2. That's a great idea. Work things out with your mother and when you have a definitive date, give your roommates) landlord adequate notice. As far as her BF and pregnancy, that's really her business and issue to figure out.
  3. Sorry this is happening. Hopefully she will move out soon. Have you started to look for a replacement roommate? Unfortunately you two don't seem to get along at all. Hopefully you can find a better fit as far as responsibility and compatible personalities.
  4. Did Everyone Lie Awake Yesterday?๐Ÿ›๏ธ GROWL ๐Ÿฆ
  5. My Ape Jumps Over Rainbows๐Ÿ’ DRUMS ๐Ÿฅ
  6. Not sure what forums you are reading (especially about US misinformation), or where you get your ideas from (other than family pressure for you to marry), But here are some interesting statistics published by the US government.: " 46.4% of U.S. adults are single according to the U.S. Census Bureau. That's 117.6 million unmarried Americans โ€“ nearly every other adult aged 18 and over. This includes those who are divorced or widowed as well as those who have never married"
  7. No. But there is such a thing as obsessions and extreme preoccupation. Even your writing style goes on and on in convoluted, contradictory tangents that almost borders on word salad. So this isn't really about the frequency of sex at all. This is about obviously untreated obsessions, whether it's trying to control his sexuality or your own.
  8. Sorry this is happening. Unfortunately you seem to have extremely strict oppressive parents. There's a few things going on here. One is she is away at university and enjoying her freedom and youth and campus life, as she should. A lot of highschool romances drift apart because of that phenomenon. The other is that she represents the rebellion you are terrified of. You are so utterly afraid of and controlled by your mother, that being with her was a sort of passive aggressive way to combat that. Please get the best grades you can and talk to highschool mentors, teachers and guidance counselors about scholarships, financial aid and going to university as far away as possible from your parents. Please also talk to other adults about your parents behavior. Perhaps you could use some deprogramming from years of this toxic umbilical cord. As far as this highschool GF, leave her alone. Set each other free to grow and live life.
  9. That's ok. This is exactly the type of situation you can simply put on the back burner. You don't really have to "do" anything. For example you can simply carry on enjoying your life and if you hear from him, great, if not, great.
  10. Every Day I Complete Tasks โœ”๏ธ GAMER ๐ŸŽฎ
  11. Nasty Animals Can Have Odors ๐Ÿท HAVEN โ›ต
  12. I Read Kitsch Every Day ๐Ÿ“ฒ WENCH ๐Ÿ’ƒ
  13. According to Yankovic, when he presented his lyrics to Jackson for review, he did not know how Jackson would react. Jackson allegedly thought it was amusing and agreed to allow the parody
  14. Food Left On Plates Sucks ๐Ÿฝ๏ธ CHICK ๐Ÿฃ
  15. If it weren't working, guys wouldn't do it, as welcome or repellent as it may be. Enjoy casual dating, why not? Not everyone has puritanical views on things. Just be yourself.
  16. Sorry this is happening. Unfortunately confronting him after one date about initiating seems a bit too forward. That's why he gave you the "need space" excuse It's good you are stepping back. Trust your friends and family. . Even if you are chatting a while an a date goes well, try to pace yourself.
  17. One Person Is Usually Mental ๐Ÿ™ƒ FROST โ„๏ธ
  18. Indeed you definitely like to argue . It's in direct reference to your disappointing night out and being upset that your friends are having a good time and your envy and jealousy and resentment of them.
  19. In your other thread your excuse for his verbal abuse was depression. Please understand depression, nor ASD make people abusive. Being a verbally abusive jerk is a choice, not a diagnosis. Please talk to trusted friends and family. Please research verbal abuse and if necessary see a licensed qualified therapist for ongoing support and a better understanding of abusive relationships and self esteem.
  20. Why allow this? Talking at him won't help. Simply get up and leave if he wants to indulge his gaming addiction. Actions speak louder than words. There's no reason to put up with this.
  21. Why haven't you sent them? What's up with that? Even after she went through the trouble of sending you a lovely birthday gift? She seems like much bigger person. No it's not Joe's fault. You're just throwing him under the bus to avoid responsibility.
  22. What do you mean by when you initiate she accepts it? Going on dates or things like holding hands or something indicating she's interested in more than just friends or a shoulder to cry on about her ex? Is this the same woman?:
  23. He seems to respond to tactile stimulation better than talk.Men have refractory periods Please try to be more confident and enjoy each other. Is this the same man?
  24. What exactly did she mean by this? Let's slow down because you lunged for a kiss? In house dates are ok but maybe you came across as a bit over eager? Asking her to meet in a few hours later the same day after a 2am evening was a bad idea. She seems crowded and smothered. Please pace yourself and don't make the same mistakes as the last relationship with smothering. Be confident and give people their space.
  25. Has a BF. Sorry that's bad news. But she's kind of dense to think that flirting with you in particular is a prelude to setting you up with her friends. Perhaps next time you mingle with women at parties on campus etc., try to get the BF issue out of the way through appropriate small talk. For example if it's going well, it would probably be alright to ask if they're seeing someone.
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