ghost72

Small update on this. I went to another work event today. I was sitting outside with some guys, just got there like 10 min ago. And the chick came outside and mentioned how I didn’t even say hi to her (I didn’t even enter the building yet). But then there’s no flirting by her the rest of the night. so I don’t know what’s up. I’ll admit I don’t really try to show much interest in her. But it’s cause the mixed signals. unless she gives me a clear sign that she’s interested I feel like it’s better not to pursue or try anything. Was that the sign? I don’t know.

He is twice our age but he might I can’t rule that out.

Yes and it just happened today again too.

No one is dragging the office into it. You really think I’m going around work talking to people about this? News flash, I’m not. Like I stated 3 times in this thread already.

>Stop talking to work colleagues about this. For the third time now, this never happened. JFC.

If she wanted to set me up with her friend I would assume she has no romantic interest in me. But she never told me about this friend herself.

I want to find out about this friend. Considering I do not work with this friend it's the best scenario to avoid any awkwardness. I just wish I was told about this person personally. I'm not sure why she told my coworker instead of me.

They do not target me. Just cause I'm introverted doesn't mean I can't function socially with others. People have always said they like my sense of humor once they get to know me. Work is probably the only place where I've made genuine friends. I still talk to people I met in 2018 at work. I've been over to one of the coworkers you think was making fun of me's home and they have invited me to social events. I understand what you are saying but that is not the case here. I feel like I have good social awareness even though I'm not a social person by choice.

So it's an elaborate plot to humiliate me for what? A lot of players in it I guess. Just a far fetched theory that I know isn't accurate but you will probably think it is for whatever reason. This girl at the least likes me as a friend, or else she wouldn't want to hang outside of work. What your saying is school bully movie plot.

No and I don't assume the worst of people. Why did you come to that conclusion?

Dude. I do keep it professional this girl has asked me 1. if I’m dating anyone 2. What I do outside of work 3. if I had instagram 4. said she’s missed me when I haven’t spoken to her in awhile. 5. Made this hand holding comment. 6. I get trolled at work because of her behavior towards me. It’s not because ANYTHING I do. are these professional actions? I’m not uptight and don’t hold it against her wanting to know more about me even though I don’t like sharing.

I was thinking about asking her about her friend? But like I don’t understand how I can. She suggested we hang out outside of work one day with another girl who works here.

Honestly can’t tell if you’re trolling or the reading comprehension just isn’t there for you. Your replies have been completely ignoring every point I’ve said.

no one was offended by it. they just thought she was flirting. it really awkward and I got caught off guard, so I just said no with a smile and wanted to leave it as that.

Other people witnessed it and thought it was weird by her. So yeah. It's not only me.