For Proper Context:
I've been having rape fantasies about various women I'd consider attractive since I was thirteen. Don't really know why. I don't have some deep hatred for women like I'm forced to assume many actual rapists have, but my fantasies of violating them still persist. I'm currently nineteen, turning twenty this September, and have failed every effort I've made to repress them without therapy. In other news, I've also never had a girlfriend since my social skills are awful and, speaking bluntly, I'm kind of a pansy regarding girls I'm into. I'm too worried about making myself appear idiotic to take a chance with flirting. But I'm also forced to wonder if my rape fantasy issues are a sign that I shouldn't pursue dating/sex at all. I'm not tempted to actually rape anyone, but I still think their overall presence makes some unsavory implications about my mental state. Especially since I come from a family where most of the women have been sexually abused during their youth. I've seen the long-term impact that kinda thing can have. It's not pretty. And if(by some miracle)I ever did find a girlfriend, I think I'd feel obligated to tell her about this if we got serious. Can't imagine many girls wanting to stay with me after that. I'm already a socially inept Autist who's best chance at dating is likely finding a partner with low self-esteem. This feels like it'd most likely create a wider array of issues, frankly.
That might be some of the worst advice I've ever heard.