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Hollyj

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  1. When do you tell Simon and when do you start the new job??
  2. Hmmm. I live in the Tri-state area and date beyond my immediate area. I have read on this site many cases of people not dating within their immediate area-yes, 10 miles and beyond. I think you are misstating facts.
  3. I am going from what you wrote. And I believe that this is the title of YOUR thread: "About to end my 90 day fiancee adventure." I am a tad confused by your response. You seem to have all the answers, as you are not listening to those who you know or the posters on this site. I am a bit confused as to why you created the thread?
  4. If you were selective you would not be choosing her. So many issues staring you in the face, yet you want to forge ahead. That’s nuts! I don’t expect the marriage to last long. Enjoy supporting her !
  5. This has disaster written all over it. So many red flags! What is the age difference?
  6. OMG! Just catching up on all of this. I am so sorry you are having to deal with all of this garbage. Terrible. You are going to find something soon. Keep us posted!!!
  7. If he does not shower or brush his teeth, then no sex. He is an adult, the behavior cannot be excused due to his childhood. What is he "struggling" with?
  8. I don't think you are asking for much. I would expect the same. Not brushing teeth for two days. beyond disgusting. What are his teeth like? Does he see a dentist?
  9. This is who he is. If you go back the same problems exist. He will NOT change. Block and delete him. Have you considered therapy for low self esteem?
  10. I would. NOT be giving “high fives” to a man in his 40’s who wants to date a teenager! I don’t think that anyone else here would either.
  11. What can you possibly have in common other than sex? How foolish do you think you would look to your family, friends, and employer?
  12. Do any of you date people who are single, or only pursue those who are married. One thing you can count on, much more cheating. This is a mess!
  13. That sounds wonderful. I think you will be surprised at how busy you will be. I am self-employed, so I am able to wing it. Have an amazing birthday! 🥳
  14. Congrats to you! I am partially retired. Time is still full with errands, volunteering and travel -Covid has made that a bit of an issue-friends, and mom. What are your interests? A dear friend had taken up art classes, and she's very good. I think that you will soon find your time to be full, as you reconnect with folks and discover new passions.
  15. Why are these people you "friends?" It sounds like your picker is really off and you make very poor choices. I am 57 and am still making new friends-well, pre pandemic. I met many new people through volunteering and mutual friends. . You can also meet others through Meetups, class, clubs (hiking, walking etc..) There are a lot of great people out there, you just have to be more selective. Tolerating lying and other shady behavior should be a deal breaker. This is why you have bad experiences as you allow crappy people into your life. Another red flag should be someone that does not have any friends. Just like your ex. There is a reason why he doesn't have friends.
  16. Why do you engage with someone you can't trust?! Is he your only friend? You should have cut him off after he cheated on you. This guy lacks character and is not your friend .
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