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Everything posted by Hollyj

  1. If you have “compassion and empathy” for your child, then why are you still with him?
  2. I think her focus should be on the recovery and kids.
  3. Doesn't she have to attend weekly counseling to get her kids back?
  4. Kick him out. He should have been gone long ago. Do what is best for your kid.
  5. Exposing your child to horrific environment makes both parents abusive. She should not be in such a toxic household. You made the decision to return to this guy, again and again.
  6. Why doesn't she ride up with her family? No reason for her to stay a week.
  7. I think that anyone would concur that your situation is abusive. You know this. You need to put your child first. I suggest you contact an abuse hotline and ask them.
  8. You knew that he was a cheat and a liar early on, yet you continued. You have to know that this guy is a creep. Up your self worth and get rid of this guy.
  9. People do walk on the grass. I hate people people that do not clean up after their animals. He is lazy, inconsiderate and a slob. Why have you continued to date him? I would have dumped him after seeing his home. How often does he wash his bedsheets? You know that this is not okay.
  10. How can you tolerate this. It's cringeworthy. How often does he bathe and brush his teeth?
  11. Yes. It would bother me. I think that either you accept his piggy ways or find a more suitable bf. None of his behavior would work for me. Gross.
  12. She should not offer her phone. She should also not have to reassure him that she did not cheat, or will not cheat. She should be done with him.
  13. You jumped from one abuser, to another. Please seek some counseling for your abusive relationships. Get away from this guy.
  14. You are an adult, why should she get involved? Throw him out! If he is abusing you, why would he be allowed to stay? Stop making excuses and contact a hotline and ask about a path to getting him out.
  15. Why are you doing this to your child?! Get away from this guy as he is very abusive. Kick him out! A "decent father" does not treat the mother in this manner. I feel for your child.
  16. But, this is who he is now. That should be enough. People change. You spoke to him, he does not want to change. Fine. You have no reason to complain if you choose to continue to hang around with this jerk.
  17. I would wonder why you even hang out with this fool. You did not communicate for many years, I do not understand why you feel you need to be his keeper. There is a reason that he doesn't have friends, as he sounds like a creep. It seems like his "health problems" have not had any affect on his social life.
  18. Leave him alone. Why did you fall out?
  19. How much free time does she get to relax? She is more "productive" because she has to be. Time to do more of your share.
  20. A big part of the weight loss should be your bf. He is horrible for your mental and physical health. After you do leave this jerk, be single for a long time. A lot of healing and self reflection needs to be done, due to your choices in men. Of course you would survive. You also need to realize that all of this has a horrible effect on your kids. Very toxic environment. Get them out of there!
  21. Why are you with this guy if he is making comments about your appearance. That's horrible. Have you tried to make some personal change for you? A healthier lifestyle will make you feel better and improve your self esteem. It sounds like you have miserable for some while Ditch this guy as he also contributes to your lack of self worth.
  22. That's a part of life. If you want to remain alone and a virgin for your remaining years, then stay on this track. Time to join some in person, co-ed groups.
  23. I think that if you had some female friends that things would be much differently for you, as you don't seem comfortable interacting with women. You see women as more of a conquest, and I think women are picking up on your attitude. A real turn off. I strongly suggest that you make some female friends, not online, in person.
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