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Hollyj last won the day on April 2

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  1. You have no one to blame but yourself if you know that he does not have romantic feelings for you. Stop playing his personal servant and cut off this "friendship." You cannot be friends with someone you have feelings for, and by playing his personal maid he is not going to change his feelings. I actually think that your behavior is manipulative as you are hoping he will change his feelings due to the fact you are "helping" him.
  2. How long did you date and how often did you see one another? The best medicine is complete no contact. This also means not following her on social media. I'm sorry, that you are dealing with this. Covid has had such a negative impact in every aspect of life. It has been six months, it is time to let go.
  3. When you can, I definitely think it would be a good idea to get to the bottom of your issues so that you can live a more fulfilling life.
  4. Have you considered talking to a therapist about your self esteem issues? Do you have a friend group? You sound very lonely.
  5. I agree. Kumar, I think you will end up playing detective.
  6. You are aware that one can be sick w/o symptoms, as many people do not have any for the full course. Waiting 5 days to see if she is symptomatic is silly, I suggest you educate yourself on the virus. Why doesn't she simply get tested in 3-5 days time? I do not think you are wrong, but calling her "reckless" was a bit much. I am also wondering why you are not meeting with friends outdoors and social distancing?
  7. Is there a reason that you have not had sex with someone who is not a sex worker?
  8. NEVER expect someone to change. Either you take them for who they are, or leave them. This is who he is.
  9. Why are you so desperate to hang on to this jerk! Expect more from a partner, and carefully address who you are choosing to date. This is not a nice guy.
  10. I don't understand why you want this guy. Clearly he does not value or respect you. You ex is emotionally abusive.
  11. This whole scenario makes me feel ill. What happened to Dog Lover?
  12. Nope. Don't put your life on hold for anyone, and certainly not after 4 dates. He is not over his ex, this is all you need to know. This dude is unavailable.
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