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RedDress

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  1. I agree. In reading your post, it’s very clear that this is something that bothers you a lot. I don’t think any amount of other people telling you it’s ok would change that for you... and really, as others have pointed out, there are plenty of guys that don’t do this. I think you are simply incompatible. Personally, though - just my own pet peeve - I really hate it when people break up without an explanation (ie: “we just aren’t compatible”). It’s not helpful? I’m not saying that he should change his behavior for you - but if the next 3,4 or 5 women break up with him for the same reason - maybe it’s something he’ll want to self-reflect about, yanno? That he’s attracted to a certain type of woman with strong boundaries but is doing something to put them off? Maybe it won’t be a problem for him again - but maybe it will. You are depriving him of this information, IMO. I would go with option «C» (your two options were to either break up without explanation or tell him why you are upset and give him a chance). I would simply say that you’ve thought a lot about his insta followings and it’s really something that bothers you to the core. It’s not something that you want to think about or deal with - and there are probably plenty of people that would be ok with that - so you are just going to call it «incompatible» and move on. He may try to argue the point - but just stick to your guns, be true to yourself and move on. ... but I’d tell him, personally... but only because there’s nothing I hate more than forever wondering...
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