Npgirl09 Posted April 15, 2019 Share Posted April 15, 2019 Question: To split a portion of rent/bills or not if your partner stays at your place a few times a week, but you never stay at their place. My bf and I have been together for 1 year.We are in our mid to late twenties, both have steady careers and make good money for our age. He lives at his mom’s house in order to save for a home and the fact that he will be starting grad schools soon and I have my own 1 bedroom apartment. Ever since I got my apartment last year he had been staying at my place a few times a week, and then it turned to some weeks at a time. The last few months, he has only been staying at my place 2-3 nights a week. Let me add in, I never stay at his house because his mom lives there so that would be strange. My question is, should I be asking him to help pay rent or some of the bills? I’m starting to feel like it’s unbalanced that he stays at my place and uses my toiletries, and has also not offered to help. If it were me, I would have offered to help months ago. I must also add in that when we got out to eat we tend to split the expenses as in he pays one time then I pay the next time. Thank you for your input in advance. Link to comment
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