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Yeah, back in Miami, I used to live in an apartment. My family didn't really make friends either, but we would exchange some hellos once in a while. As long as there aren't any negative feelings, it's all good.

Hmm *takes notes down. I'll remember this , but as others have said as well, it doesn't really matter what is "the best". Its how you use the fragrance that matters. And on another note, as long as your clean (TAKE A SHOWER DAILY >_

As many others before me have already said, music is a huge influence on my emotional state as well as my overall way of life. For me, I both listen to and play my own music. When I'm happy, I'll put on some classic rock for the mood. When I'm sad, upset, or angry, I'll put something a little heavier (Lincon Park or Metalica). When I'm thinking about someone , I get Breaking Benjamin for some reason (the lyrics really get to me, especially in the song Away). And when I have an odd mix of emotions, I play my guitar or bass, depending on my mood (or if I can't play either one, I'll just make my own beats 8) )

LOL *starts counting how many times I do it per day

Well personally, my mom's filipino, and she expects me, or any other guy for that matter, to take care of everything the girl in the couple needs, in a date and more. She really emphesises it when the girl is asian as well. Good luck with it though, I'm not sure its the same for all asians, but apparently it is for the chinese and filipinos .

Cool 8) , keep up the good lyrics .

Well sounds like your a lucky guy , however, also be careful with your feelings towards her. Like you said, shes a senior. If she is just a natural flirt (which isn't too much of an off chance), then try not to get too close to her, cause it may only hurt you more once she leaves to college.

Good advice sfboi415, and I have tried that. (last sunday at church, she and I worked together to help make gifts and such for mother's day.) Although we did have some fun, it was in church (not the right place ), and thats sometimes the most out of a day we can have .

lol, I like the way you think goddess23 . And actually, we would randomly through flirty things at each other. (M(me): *pokes her H(her): Do that again, and Ill bite you M: Sounds kinky H: *bites my shoulder M: *tickles her and from there, were usually on top of each other for a few minutes doing these things.) And ya...I should probably do that, but I haven't yet .

Thanks for suggestions, and yes, we are allowed to go out, so it's all good if it came to that .

Something odd has happened to me recently. Ever since I was younger (about 5 years old), I knew this one girl (her mom was my mom's friend, and we would hang out sometimes). But back then, we suddenly stopped seeing each other for a long time. About 10 years later (recently), I see her again...in my church. Now when I first see her, I'm in a big shock: she "grew" over that time (note: I only saw her as a friend back then, and we are still good friends). But now that time has passed and we are both teenagers, things have changed just a little. I think I'm starting to have feelings for her, and she is also acting peculiar around me (playful, flirty, etc.). What should I do in this situation. Should I follow my feelings and see if I can bring our life long friendship to a higher level, or should I wait some more and "catch up" as a friend? (We both also go to different schools, so we barely see each other, usually only in church-based activities. However, we both have each others phone numbers, emails, and addresses.) P.S.- The song "Away" by Breaking Benjamin gets stuck in my head when I think about her, the chorus to the song is a good example of my situation. (I see you Cause you won't get of my way I hear you Cause you just keep screaming my name I feel you Cause you won't stop touching my skin I need you They're coming to take you away) I find myself singing/playing my guitar (or bass) to this song >_

Wow...woo, I mean, wow. I have taken some personal fitness/p.e. classes before, and we usually had an even balance in genders. Wow. Yeah...stay in that class. Thats a two win situation right there: beautiful women and a good workout, whats wrong with that (even if you are a little out of place , its ok, it's not like they will hate you or anything.)

Yeah, don't worry too much about it. That doesnt sound like your turning gay. (However, if you start thinking "other things" while doing this, then something might be happening )

Are you leaving me in this dark cold night? I stand beside you in the shroud of rain, As I wait for tomorrow's mourning light. The dark sky hangs above our endless plight. Below I stay, within I hold the pain. Are you leaving me in this dark cold night? I wait and wait for anything that's right. I stand beside your side, as if in vain, As I wait for tomorrow's mourning light. I pray to our God with all of my might: Will she come back to me? What can I gain? Are you leaving me in this dark cold night? I try my best; I stand with all my height. My back straight, my spine an old walking cane, As I wait for tomorrow's mourning light. In this casket you remain sleeping tight Inside you have stayed, cold, motionless; slain. Are you leaving me in this dark cold night? As I wait for tomorrow's mourning light.

Don't fly off into the blue horizon. The light remains upon this morning day, For that time we had is not to be done. Since the night I had the heart that I won, My life has turned around and changed it's way. Don't fly off into the blue horizon. I will never forget the times of fun, The times we walked upon that sand filled bay. For that time we had is not to be done. The hope you filled inside me weighs a ton, A ponderous hope that will not decay. Don't fly off into the blue horizon. Nothing would be feared, no more need to run. I would and will keep you out of harms way, For that time we had is not to be done. At your side I lay, in my right a gun. New comfort rising as i hope and pray: "Don't fly off into the blue horizon, For that time we had is not to be done"

Yeah, girls can be confusing alot of the time. Just today, this girl kept poking me playfully (she does that randomly alot) and then these girls behind her (I don't even know if they knew her) tapped my rear (kinda weird) and they didn't even know me, but I'm pretty sure they were just playing. And as for you, like everyone else said, you probably made her happy somehow, which is a good thing . Keep up the good work 8) .

Thanks guys, and just a few more general questions for anyone else still reading this post: what would the majority of women see in facial hair, do they mostly like or dislike it? And does shampoo really help?

Cool, thanks richgabe, I'll remember those tips. If there are any other tips or suggestions you guys have, go ahead and share them, they could help alot .

For most guys like myself, we come to a time where our faces start to grow hair, despite whether we like it or not. Since I'm one of those new guys to it, I just wanted to know the basic things I need to know, seeing as I am going through it now. When is a good time to use shaving cream (hair length effect its use?)? What kinds of razors should you use for what kinds of facial hair? What exactly is 5'o clock shadow? Is there anyway to stimulate hair growth? How many of the facial hair myths are true? Etc. etc., you get my point, so do try 2 answer these and any other questions that come to mind, thanks in advance.

lol, good advice (except the smoking thing...might not want to do that). But ya, just get over it. So shes the girl of your dreams, nothing to be nervious about. Be yourself around her like you would be around friends and family (except with a little more affection).

Ya, as most people have said, I don't think it's immoraly bad, but it could cause confusion, seeing as your dating more than one person at a time. But I also think people should date others one at a time, so they can get the feel of being in a relationship of some kind, and see if they can bring it to another level (if it is'nt already at another level), but then again, thats just my opinion.

Oh man, I know how you feel. All these thoughts (especially girls I have "feelings" for) always come up at the wrong time. What I usually try to do is do the things I would least likely expect to do with these thoughts (study hard, play alot of video games, etc.) all at once. But that might only work just for me, but then again, it wouldnt hurt...much . All in all, don't worry too much about it, when something this important comes up, I usually just stop thinking about everything else, exept for that thing when it happens.

Well this explains alot...for a while, I've been weightlifting, and somethimes, I gain weight (looking for that muscle gain ), but in other instances, I'll lose a good amount of weight (confused me a bit at first, but all good now ). Working out is GooD 8)

ilse has a good point. Try asking a girl out before you become too close as a friend. Some girls will then just see you as either a really good friend or a brotherly figure, and nothing more than that. If you ask them earlier however, you have a better chance of avoiding that. Nevertheless, I hope something good comes up for you soon .

Oh ya, I had that too (which was followed by a tonsillectemy, I dunno how to really spell that). It was well worth the pain when eating without my tonsils .