OmegaMan

I think what Skyfire is trying to say is that one must learn not be dependent to others, that we all have to learn to live alone because not relationship is ever guaranteed to last forever. (Also, not all sayings are true, in fact a lot of sayings are contradictory) Omega

From what I've read hair loss is strictly related to genes. I know some extremely laid back, relaxed people who are bald. Somehow I understand that it might be recomforting to look for something to act upon to prevent hair loss, but, as I said, until we can safely apply gene therapy, hair loss remedies seem like a money trap to me. Etienne

Just treat him the very same way you would like to be treated. Would you like to be lied to? No? Then be honest. Nothing like the truth. Talk to him, treat him like a human being, period. Etienne

Thank you for this. Members have been wanting a message like this one. I'm glad this topic has finally been stickied. For suicide is certainly the most tragic and most destructive thing that can ever happen. I too have been there. It seems like nothing was ever going to change, that my life would be a never-ending re-enacment of the same pattern. I would've rather not have gone through this. However, I must admit one thing, which might shock some people. It was when I was at the very bottom that I found some ground to start to climb again. What I'm trying to say is, you don't feel that way for no reason. Once you've identified what's wrong and tried acting about it, things will get better. I know, I know, this is so hard to believe, just soooo awful hard to believe. Some of you might wonder can he expect us to have some faith when we've lost all hope.¨ Well here's a little something that helps me. I picture in my mind what I actually want. Trust me it doesn help, gives you something to aim for. And this in return helps to build up hope, to start believing once again that things can't get worse, that things will get better. Hang on there people, we are not alone. Etienne P.S.: I've just noticed this is not stickied. Common sense would certainly direct this topic to be sticked, at least for a little while, considering the amount of people touched by this and the risk of it.

This come as a revelation to me. Just a glimpse of the feminin side of things. A wonderful world indeed. E.

This really made me think. I don't think you get any closer to the truth than this. Etienne

Suppose someone would drop a vial of acid on their face, turning their appearance in a mess of molten flesh. Still, suppose the eyes were spare, and the person in question had beautiful eyes, would the rest really matters? There answer is: yes it would. Eyes aren't everything. If they were, everyone wouldn't be obsessed about their weigth, their penis size, the size of their breast, behind and gyms wouldn't be full of people working out. We've all been there at some point or the other in our life. I now that I am not attracted to women with the wide behind syndromes. I have some friends with a rather broad derrière, they're awesome people, but I'm just not attracted to them. Does this make me a monster? No. Does it make me a young man who has been strongly influenced by publicity as to what men and women are supposed to look like: most probably yes. Omega Man.

Oh come on, let's show a little honesty here. Let's be down-to-earth honest. Guys are picky as well, if not more so than women. How many times have you decided someone wouldn't interest you because they've got a behind the size of a small planet? I've heard this before and I've been influenced in that way myself. I know, it's not morally right, but by god, it's the truth. Etienne

I think you've made the right decision. I wish you the best and hope that the help you will receive will make a difference. Etienne=OmegaMan

Oh right. Well that's a good thing. Thanks for asking the moderators on this one! Etienne

Hmm... I don't think it works that way, are you sure it remains at the top of the list when you post something? Etienne

I've read it's more 5 1/2 inches. Omega Man

Good idea, ask the moderators to make it a "sticky". Keep us informed. I would be surprised if they disagreed. Etienne

I think it's true for a minority. From what I've heard from the girls, a minimum size is required and does make a difference. Obviously it's not eveything but it does matter. I've never met anyone who mentionned to me that it didn't matter at all. Omega.

I believe everyone has had, at least once some suicidal thoughts. I actually realised something about having suicidal thoughts. I know I use them in order to be able expel suffering, as I get so sad when I think about it that I instantly feel better afterwards, otherwise, it just builds up. This being said, someone once told me, a wise man indeed, that suicide was a way for humans not to stop living per se, but rather to stop suffering. I thought this a rather fine distinction, but an interesting one none the less. Etienne

Schatziek I understand your point of view and what is your point. However, you are mixing things up, I think. What I am trying to say by that, is that heigth is not perceived the same way for men and women. I've asked this question numerous time and I've more often than not got answered: "I prefer going out with someone taller than I am". I think it's just a culture thing. In other words, being shorter for women doesn't make as much a difference as being shorter as I man. Just my opinion. Etienne

Complaining is sometimes an unconscious way of wanting someone else to solve our problems for us. In other words, my hypothesis is, she had so much on her hands, she would like someone to take some of her load off. Did you ask her why don't she reduce the amount of things she does? Etienne

hehehe! Right on! What you actually need is a summon Giant Rod. That beats everything, fire staff included! Etienne

Iceman Yeah, but a long staff does help. Etienne

Can you actually gain height by taking pills? It sounds so... improbable. You might want to double-check this one before taking any kind of medication. Certainly sounds like a commercial scam to me. Etienne

Sounds like Schizophrenia. Consult a doctor. As for your parents beating you up, that's illegal. You should call the cops. Your parents need help and so do you. Do something before it gets worse. Etienne

You've got plenty of time to grow taller. Be patient and it will come. Etienne

Woah... you are putting too much trust in vitamin or the wound you got is worse than that redness you described before. Just wait, it will go away. You got in a fight, you got your face damaged. That's called facing the consequences of your actions. Next time you want to get in a fight, take some time to realise that your face might get punched or wear a mask just like Vega does in that game, Street Fighter. Etienne

If I were to ask you, what would you do if you had to do it, right now. How would you do it? You have to have an idea? Why don't you share it right here. Then, we can all share some pointers. Etienne

Weird as in what? I can't understand the sense you are giving this concept. Too few information, please provide more information, as all this is very vague, very vague indeed. Etienne