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K i'm a 15 year old sophomore girl. A lot of my friends are boys. I've always had a problem talking to girls, because they get so upset really easily and are too sensitive. i can't stand being around girls like that, that talk too much and are all prissy/girly/and bitchy. So i'm somewhat of a tomboy. But lately I've not been as popular at school as i have been in the past. I was just wondering how you get guys to think that you're cool and think of you as a friend. I used to do this way better at this, but now high school kind of changed all the guys. I used to be the most popular girl that all the guys thought was just so cool and funny. and also with the girls, they all have their own little groups. and there are a lot of groups that i definitely don't wanna be in. but there is at least one girl from each group that i consider my best friend. it's just that i don't get along with their other friends. how do i get girls to think that i'm cool. and actually want to sit by me before their other friends, and talk to me instead of their other friends?

Oh come on, everyone lies about who they are on the internet. she didn't know that it was going to turn into something with a real relationship involved. that's rare to form over the internet. but jgyrl, i don't mean to be harsh, i'm just trying to keep it real here, i think that he may have feelings for this other girl that he started to see. and if that is the case that is the reason why he all of the sudden brings up you lying to him. he's trying to make you think that because you lied to him, is the reason for him not wanting to be with you. sorry but it sounds like that's what he's doing.

I'm a 15 year old virgin. I think you definitely did the right thing. I would never have sex until i'm ready, but especially not with an ex. you want the person you first have sex with to be "the one" for sure. That's just my opinion. and i think i may have found "the one" but even if we broke up for some reason and he called me later on to have sex. i definitely wouldn't.

Yeah, take the advice from these too replies. That's good advice. Those signs are definitely what I do when I like a guy. So she's into you. Like the above one said, strike up a convo and suggest to do something with her sometime. You don't have to make it sound like a real "date" right away, but as things go on it might turn into one.

I just turned 15. And when I looked for guys that I just found attractive physically the relationships never worked out. So lately I've been getting to know them more on a personality basis. It seems to work out so much better. I love guys that are fun, and goofy sometimes, but can also have a serious, deep conversation once in a while. And one who is themself and never acts or treats people differently when others are around. They have to have a happy personality that attracts people to them in that way, but they can't always be hunky-dorry when it comes to optimism. If a guy acts like he's the happyest most satisfied person in the world, it gets kind of annoying and unrealistic after a while. He has to be able to tell me his problems and take my advice, but at the same time listen to my problems and be there for me. And just a bit of advice for you, it's ok to be friends with lost of girls, but if you like one in particular, don't be flirting with the rest of them too. Girls hate it when they have a thing with someone, and the guy flirts with all the other girls. Hope this helped!

I'm a 15 year old virgin and am currently dating my first love. It was actually just last night for the first time that he told me he loved me, and I was so happy that I felt the same way and was able to say it back. But like I said I am a virgin and he's a year older and isn't. He's pretty experienced, and I'm scared just like you. I know that for the time being I don't want to lose my virginity yet, but when I do I want it to be with him. And I know I can trust him and if he loves me like he says he does he'll wait til I'm ready. So the same goes for you, If he really cares for you, he'll stay with you til your ready, and then hopefully everything will work out. I just hope that my bf can guide me when the time comes cuz I don't wanna be a disappointment to him.

I'm only 14 so the most I've done with a guy is make-out so far. And last night I was making out with my boyfriend. But I've been thinking today about how I could please him sexually without actually losing my virginity already. I've heard of handjobs and stuff like that but i don't know the first step on how to do that. I need some details on how that stuff is done. Please help me out!

Well yes it is great when we find guys with those qualities and the looks. but that doesn't mean everything. I get asked out a lot by some really really hot guys at school, but right now I'm dating one that girls don't find too attractive at first. He doesn't seem like that kind of boy that would attract girls like he does. But believe me because of how outgoing and awsome and fun his personality is almost every girl in the school has a crush on him and would choose him over any good looking guy anyday. If you were just to see him, you would think he's a goofy looking loser, but the first time you meet him you already start to get attracted. So looks definitely doesn't mean everything to some teenage girls like myself. Not saying that there aren't any shallow ones out there that only care about looks, because there are. But there are some out there who find that personality makes a person far more attractive no matter what they look like.

I think it depends on the circumstance. Some boys just like having girls as friends, cuz maybe they're easier to talk to. But sometimes what starts out as being a friendship turns out the being the best gf/bf relationships. With my last 2 bf's, we had just started out being friends, then we both decided we liked each other more. and now the guy I like is my bestfriend, and I'm falling in love with him. So I'm gonna go for it. And if you think you really like him I suggest the same for you. The risk tho, is ruining the friendship. But if your willing to take it, then do.

LOL, yes the last post was right. But the way your friends are using it, is they're saying how ugly the other girls are. The more douchbags, the uglier. We use this expression at school constantly.

Believe me, I've waited long enough. We've been best friends for a year now, and finally my chance has come, so I think I should take it and go with it. & you have no idea how picky i am. I've waited this long. And he's the only guy that's won my heart with his personality and humor, instead of looks. That's why I think he's the one. And about the ditching family comment.........I go to that reunion every single year, I think they could live if I didn't go one time in my life.

He knows that I like him. He admitted to me that he likes me too. The only problem was, he didn't wanna go out with someone as young as me. I used to be 14 and him 17. But I finally turned 15, and he said that he would dump his current gf for me when i got older. So the other day he called me and was like, "Yeah I think I'm going to dump her now. She has become a real B*. So I was like ok, now's my chance. So Saturday I'm supposed to go with my family to a family reunion. And since my parents would never let him over when they were there, I was thinking I should play sick. Then they'll be gone the whole day, and it would just be me and him hanging out. So should i take the chance and ask him tomorrow, and see if he wants to do something sat. , or should I wait to make sure he wants the same thing I do?

Oh man, there's a guy that i thought just wanted to be friends with me. but just the other day i found out that he likes me. I definitely have no more feelings for him other than a friend. but if he got po'd and didn't want to be friends with me just because I don't like him in that way, I WOULD BE SO PO'd. Definitely stay friends. Who knows maybe you'll see after all that you just want to be friends also.

OMG, I know EXACTLY what you're talking about. I'm a girl, and my best friend is a boy. Well he started going out with this *beeb*y girl. He thought that she was really nice and all, but I kept trying to tell him that she wasn't to anyone else. I just couldn't seem to get it accross to him. Then after a while she started making fun of me, and chewing him out for going to eat with me. All of our friends were getting annoyed and ticked that she just wouldn't get off my back. Finally after 3 months of this *beeb* I just called my best friend today, and he promised me that he was going to break up with her tonight. You have no idea how relieved I am because of this. Because of my situation, I think that you really need to take into consideration what your best friend is feeling right now. You gf probably isn't going to change if you try to tell her to knock it off, it will just make her more angry and jealous. So break it off, and get it over with til you find a girl that can accept ALL your friends no matter what the gender.

LOL omg, if you think that this is hard to deal with, just wait until high school. my goodness people. this sort of stuff goes on ALL THE TIME all through middle school and high. just do what your heart tells you. besides when we're all this young it doesn't matter if we don't get the guys we want. it's not like we're gonna be with the. in the future.

My cousin Bay, was my absolute best friend ever. But recently he moved to another state with his older brother. His brother, Ryan, got married, and I couldn't even make it to the wedding because of school. But Bay met Ryan's wife's sister, bb, at the wedding. Bb is 26 and Bay is 18, but recently they started going out. I was so shocked to hear that my cousin was going out with a woman 8 year older than him! And by the way ever since they started going out Bay hasn't called me one time. But last weekend Bay came down to visit us. He's giong to be staying for the rest of June. The problem is, he hasn't talked to me or hung out the same as we had in the past. It really p's me off. Because we used to be best friends. Now all he can talk about is bb. and when he isn't talking about her to me, he's talking to her on the phone. It's not that I'm not happy for Bay. I'm VERY happy to know that he found someone he loves. But I mean come on. He doesn't talk about anything else. He doesn't care about anything else anymore. Even his brothers totally admit, that he really needs to at least act like he still cares about us a little. I don't really know what to do. At least when the rest of us fall in love we don't forget about the others we love.

Man you guys, you really need to understand what she's going through to give her advice. I'm 15 and last year I changed my whole life too. I did all the things that you did. Except I didn't get pregnant. I don't agree with your mother not letting you see the boy. I think it's great that he wants to be a father, and is wonderful enough to be wanting to accept that resposability. I think you need to sit down and have a talk with your mom about this. DON"T TURN TO ABORTION!!! You should've read the advice wanted ads on girls who have gone through abortion. It is just plain wrong, no matter how old you are! the bible condemns it! Have the baby, and make sure your baby has a father to be there for it!

If she called you, that means she likes you. so she probably isn't going to not like you anymore if you've been stummbling over words. she will understand i'm sure. but yeah, try complementing her, and flirting a little. girls love the attention. and before you talk to her, try the day before thinking of subjects you could bring up, and go from there. i was always shy when it came to talking to boys, but i would think of subjects beforehand, and it was a lot easier.

I'm not sure if he would want to be just friends with you, or maybe he changed his mind about you. I think you should go out with him again, and then maybe you will be able to tell. give him another chance

Hey, definitely don't try to tell her that she's annoying. No matter how much that is true. But a way to get her to lay off, is you tell her that you like her friend. make sure she promises not to tell if you don't want anyone to know. But if she knows that, it might P her off a little, but she can't tell you that. So just try it and see if she leaves you alone alittle more.

there's nothing wrong with him. it's just, I think of him as like my brother. it would be so weird to go out with him. it just took me totally by surprise, and like i said earlier i love someone else right now and he knows it too. so i don't understand.

Listen up here. Everyone who is against you going out with a 14 year old is totally wrong. Because I am a 14 year old girl. If she likes you, you should go out with her. I used to like this 18 year old boy, and he wouldn't go out with me because of the age difference. It really, really hurt me. I thought that was the stupidest reason ever. If she is mature enough and you two really like each other, you should ask her out. Even if it doesn't work out, you two can make each other happy right now. I know from experience because I just started going out with a different 18 year old last month, and we are as happy as could be. I could've never taken another hit, like the first one.

I have been friends with this boy for a while now. I always thought he just liked me as like a little sister type. But he started hitting on me really bad. At first I thought he was just kidding me. But I called my best friend Josh the other day, to ask him about it, and he was like, "Oh yeah ****** has liked you for quite a while now." I was really mad Josh hadn't told me about it, but he didn't know I cared. But see I makes me mad that ****** hadn't told me earlier. I don't want to go out with him. I'm in love with someone else. But I don't know how to explain it. I don't know what to tell him. I'm thinking to not hang out with him for the summer and hope that he finds someone else. But that might not work. What should I do without hurting his heart, or our friendship?

Sure, I've had my crushes here and there, but when I finally find the perfect guy there's always tons of problems and reasons of why I can't be with them. It has nothing to do with the way I look, or my personality, but other things. And now, especially this time, I really need advice. See, I really like this 18 year old boy, and he likes me too. But he has a girlfriend right now . We had even liked each other before he started going out with her. But he didn't want to go farther then flirting and being friends with me, because I was only 14 and he said that was too young right now. So he started going out with her, and told me as soon as I was older he would dump her for me. Well I turned 15, but it's summer time now. I never get to see him. I only talk to him on the phone every week. But they're still going steady. And I know I'm in love with him. He's perfect. But there are other problems too. My parents won't let me date yet. I live the most sheltered life when it comes to boys. I have even had to sneak out to be with him at night before. I don't think he wants to put up with that either. What am I supposed to do about his girlfriend and my parents? I don't even get along with his girlfriend and he knows it. He just doesn't understand why. I've never really came out and told him that I like him more than a friend. Shoud I? I need advice quick![/code]