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  1. Klingsor
    Since it is up to the two of you to decide what is okay and what is not before/after/instead of marriage, the two of you will have to decide what you'll do (now/later/never). If you've already had oral sex, there's no reason to stop. Hell, why not let the rule be something like: no anal sex before marriage; or no threesomes before marriage; or whatever. Then you can fukk all you want, and you'll still be "saving" something.
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    Show up at his house with a 6 pack and a joint - that'll get his attention!
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    Confused

    Klingsor replied to bee's topic in Abuse and Violence

    A good thing to keep in mind, in any relationship, is that you can't bank on it changing, at least not for the better. That's not to say it won't, they quite often do, but don't bet on it. If you're not happy now, and he doesn't care enough about that now to do something about it, then your decision's made. The only tough call you'll have to make is whether to leave him now, or wait until his legal services are no longer needed.
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    Go to link removed and sign up for the e-newsletter. Then buy the book. I'm not affilliated with this guy in any way, I just know his info will help you out.
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    From here, it doesn't look too good, but if it's really important to you give it one more shot. Maybe wait another ten days or so, then ask to meet for coffee. Tell her you need the two of you to be together or separate, but not somewhere in between. Don't phrase it like an ultimatum, but think of it as one.
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    While it doesn't sound like the reasons he gave were totally made up or invalid, they are not the thing to focus on. He could have worked through those reasons if he wanted to. The main point is that he doesn't want to be with you any more. The two of you could work through any number of reasons or problems, successfully, if you both wanted to, but he doesn't. Though he is a bit confused right now, and he may change his mind next week, I wouldn't expect it to last.
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    You're old enough by now to know when and how to hide things from your parents. You failed to do so and now you're dealing with the consequences of that failure. This will teach you an important lesson and be an aid to memory if nothing else. When I was 14 my parents decided they didn't know what to do with me so they sent me to a psychologist. I psychoanalyzed him (he had some problems with his relationship with his mother, and was currently replaying those in his relationship with his daughter). I told him exactly what I had to tell him, and he told my parents that there was nothing wrong with me, I was a normal, healthy kid, and they shouldn't worry anymore. They kinda eased up on me after that, even though my cutting was blatantly obvious and I had gotten arrested, kicked out of school, etc. If it's any consolation, many people go through hard times in their teen years, but after that everything gets a bit easier (and harder). A good rule of thumb is to not do anything you can't take back or fix later, if you know what I mean, everything else is small enough you should feel free to go a little crazy if you want to.
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    Damn computer glitch.
  9. Klingsor
    Double-tap.
  10. Klingsor
    Nicole, I can't tell you what your guy is thinking or feeling, but I can tell you, for what it's worth, that I wouldn't be able to enter into a serious relationship with someone whose writing skills are as poor as yours are.
  11. Klingsor
    Dude, if you trust your girl, you should get off her back and let her do whatever she wants, with whomever she wants, and no harm will come of it, because she's a trustworthy girl. If you don't trust her, you should get rid of her now, whether she's sleeping with this particular guy (yet) or not. Why would you want to be in a relationship with someone you don't trust anyway? And I couldn't tell for sure from your post, but if she's gone away to college and you're living in another city, it might be best to just let her go, as this is a very hard time to do a distance thing. Magpie - The best thing that as$hole could have done for you is leave you. It might have hurt for a week or two, but if he'd stayed, it would hurt for a whole lot longer.
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    He's an as$hole and the longer you stay the worse it will get. Don't walk - RUN away before he gets violent (this is how they start).
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    She's a b!tch and a psycho; she's jerking you around, and she'll continue to do so for as long as you allow her to. Remember, this woman holds over you exactly as much power as you give her. Go on with your life and don't look back, or stick with it and deal with the madness indefinitely.
  14. Klingsor
    He's an asshole and the longer you stay the worse it will get. Don't walk - RUN away before he gets violent (this is how they start).
  15. Klingsor
    I can't tell you what's up with this chick, but I do see that you could think about the situation differently in a manner that would make things more understandable and manageable for you. I highly recommend you go to link removed and sign up for the e-newsletter. Then buy the book. I'm not affiliated with this guy in any way, I just think he could teach you a thing or two.
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