About a week ago the girl ive been going out with for about 5 years decided we she go on a temporary break. The reasons: Well i guess she had issues with the way I interacted with other females, the way they interacted with me and that i know a lot of them. At the beginning of the relationship my girl got very close very fast. I was a bit hesitant and just got out of a 4 year relationship - but i needed a place to live temporarily and despite the fact that i just met this new girl - she offered me stay at her apt and i took advantage of the opportunity - i found her attractive and it just seemed ok. But i didnt meet up to her standards. Im a social butterfly and it was hard for her to handle. She accused me of flirting and lying constantly - and at times would even threaten to committ suicide because of the "heart ache" i caused her. There were things about her that were hard for me to handle as well - the fact that she's very attractive and attracts a lot of guys - and the fact that she was doing these soft core films. But i tolerated it - but eventually she just couldnt handle me and now decides we should have a temp break up. At first i was like cool - well atleast we'll be like friends, but she doesnt even call me and acts sort of standoffish in public - unless she sees me talking to women - then its the past all over again. She says she's still in ove with me and that the break is only temp but it doesnt seem like it. Everytime she talks to me she starts yelling at me about all the "flirting" and all the women i know and how its hard for her - but she feels the "temporary" space will help her to trust me better. She's an actress and she also claims she needs space from me to work on her career and is even considering living in cali for awhile (she wants me to wait for her for a year while shes away in california). I think its just her way of easing away from the relationship and even though she swears nothing is going on with anybody else - i have reason to suspect otherwise. Early in the relationship i was the one who wanted some distance or a temp break - and now im sort of depressed about this request of her's. Its been 5 years and she was even pregnant with my child once - she miscarried - so ive developed a real attachment to her. I wonder if i should believe her when she says its a temp break up, should i just break it off for good and tell her about it (or not) - should i start dating one of the many local women that want to date me (the prob is im more attracted to my temp exgril). I thought id be able to handle this better but its a bit hard...