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  1. Nathalie1970
    It's definitely normal. You can and will go through up and downs, on the bright side, the downs will come fewer and farther apart. Good luck and keep your chin up
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    Dave, You're so right. The only person that has to be happy with you is you. If your ex gf wanted to be with you, she would be, no matter what. She would accept you for who you are and try to work out your problems in the relationship together. Good job on your breakthrough. Keep up the positive thoughts
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    Diggity, There is a song by Garth Brooks "Unanswered Prayers"....It is exactly what your father told you. "Sometimes god's greatest gifts are unanswered prayers" Stay strong, you are doing the right thing and everything will be alright in the end. Everything happens for a reason
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    Calgary, I thought when you went out with her after work a couple of weeks ago that you didn't know if you wanted to get back together with her then. What has changed your mind?? Is it the fact that she is not contacting you?? I think you should remain in NC and let her come to you. (If that is what you really want). Trust me, I am not one to talk since I can't seem to ignore my ex bf's calls or emails. You need to sit back and ask yourself, what do I want?? If you still want to be with her, then I think you should talk to her. No more game playing, let her know how you feel and if she still doesn't want to be with you then walk away. Do absolute NC, no replying to in any form of contact she might initiate. Good Luck and hope some of this helps
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    Pikey, I would talk to your ex and say that unless he is willing to try again that you cannot go out as friends right now. Tell him that you are getting mixed messages and that you just want to lay your cards on the table, no game playing. It sounds confusing to me and I am not even in the relationship. He obviously still cares for you and wants to see you (even if just as friends) but he needs to let you be for awhile. If he is dating and you are ready to date then keeping in contact is not fair for the people that you guys are going to go out with. Go on your date and have a good time, try not to think about the ex and what his asking you out might mean. Good Luck
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    KD, You are a bigger person than me to be in a situation (camping trip) and keeping your cool. I applaud how you have handled everything. It sounds like when things are not working out for him and his new gf that he misses you. You were right in telling him, to make himself happy first. If he does break up with the new gf, then tries to get back with you, I would say to him take time to be by himself and see if you are really who he wants to be with. If he sends you another "I miss you, I miss us" email, ignore it. He wants a response from you, don't give it to him. If you see him around, then keep up what you have been doing, be nice but not available. (easier said than done, I know) Good luck and stay strong
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    Grateful, I have to agree with every single thing said by everybody on this thread. She does not want to be alone, and now that the guy she was seeing is bailing because she is pregnant, she is running to you. Would she be asking for you back if he wanted the baby?? My guess is no. I would tell her that you will always care for her, but you cannot be her friend right now, she has hurt you too much for that to be possible. I would explain to her that you wish her well and hope all goes well with the procedure this weekend, but you do not want to hear from her and if the day comes that you feel that you can be friends, you will call her. I'm sorry that you are feeling the way you do right now, but know this, you have heard the worst, it can only get better. Good luck and keep us posted
  8. Nathalie1970
    You told her this when you were "dating", you don't have to go through with it anymore. She broke her promise to stay with you. Just my point of view. Good luck with everything
  9. Nathalie1970
    Not to sound harsh, but it sounds like you were addicted to the drama. You have been on an emotional rollercoaster, been very happy and very sad, but now you have been pushed off (or jumped, which ever way you want to look at it). Heck, we all know that it hurts, pick yourself up, brush yourself off and find a ride that you want to be on, that won't scar you, and you can be happy on. Stay strong, maintain NC and never look back.
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    Bye Sukerbut, I wish you well in everything you do. Definitely keep us posted about the good things that happen to you.
  11. Nathalie1970
    grateful, Love the song....as we all know.... Do not txt her, it will not help you in the long run. Stick with what you have been doing. Stay strong and good luck
  12. Nathalie1970
    Good for you, cherry83. Stay strong....
  13. Nathalie1970
    Do not think about it!!!!!!!!!! Remember, we all know the current bf is a jerk, from what I have read, he probably won't do anything for her at all and if you ask me (which you haven't) she deserves the grief she is going to get from dating him. So, again, forget her (easier said than done) and live your life for you, do what's going to make you happy.
  14. Nathalie1970
    You can't control what she does or doesn't do, just work on being happy without her. Don't think about what she is doing. Stay strong and good luck
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