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haha dan, well maybe some hit later lol. Thanx martial, i wish you best of luck my friend.

thanx again Dan. I agree with you, I probably would have got her back sooner, she even told me that she thought I was mad at her and was scared to contact me at first. Oh well, lesson learned. Bubbles - Ya im with you on that.........its those 18 19 that tend to snap ata one point and hit the bars. Thanx btw.

finalcloude13 - Ya It wasnt really getting anywhere when we talked and stuff. I contacted her lots of times, it was hard not to. I realised finally that it was pointless and stoped doing everything the weeks before getting back together. I did ignore her msg but than she called once from a dif number so i picked up......and there you have it. Good luck man! Hailtothevictors - Hey there, she hit her party stage i guess, no real reason for breaking up but she just thought there was better out there but realised the grass wasnt greener on the other side and came crawling back harsh way to put it but very true. Im sure if you treated your girl right she will concider seeing you again if its the same case as my story. Perhaps NC would help you out to make her realise what shes losing. Good Luck!! stlyooper - Thank you very much Im looking forward to hearing from you. Goingforit_77 - thank you. No i was breaking NC left right and center, but closer to the end I was doing nc and she did attempt to contact me many times without me responding. That I think actually make her realise that I was starting to not care anymore. I agree on everything you said! great advice for myself and everyone else. Thanks again.

thank you wishiknew, nice to see locals on here finalcloude13 - I broke NC many times, than i just stoped caring and started to go my own way...a month later after no contact i started getting msn msg's from her, then text msg on my phone, then finally phone calls. So we met up and pretty much started dating again the next day. Ya she went out with other, as did I. Its only normal to have rebound relationships. I just kinda had too many lol. I think the longer you are with a person the more you will become closer to then and being apart will see so much more dif. So in a way ya, i think so. I mean if you have a pet lets say for a week and it dies you would really morne its loss for years , but if that pet has been with you for 12 years and it dies than yes, you feel the pain way more. Bad example but you get my point. Best of luck to you friend.

Yup Its me again checking in! For those that dont know my story here is a little recap. went out for 3 years broke up she came back after 5 or so months been together again for 8 moths now So ya, Things are going great! Its even better than it was before all this happen. Im planning on proposing to her later on this year, summer time probably. how does that saying go, if you love something let it go and if it comes back it was truly yours....or something like that....well im a believer of that now. Best of luck to all of you and thank you to those that helped me out at my worse. Take care people!! once again if anyone needs any advise please msg me, I would be glad to offer advise.

thank you very much!! *crosses fingers* ya hopefully this was the last one.

well I gues thats your choice then, I would rather know.....just me i guess.

* * * * man, honestly get rid of her, even if you do get back together it wont last, you will be way to pissed off about what she did to you . Just end it man

Hey guys, This site helped me so much i feel obligated to come back once in a while and check in. I went through a break up last christmas and found it hard to get over. This site kept me sane and helped me along. I been back together with the lady for about 4 months now and things are great. There have been little fights here and there over things we found out about while we wernt together but other then that all is good. Shes finally moving in with me and we are planning a future together. One thing I would like to suggest before you get back with your ex is to get the truth out about what happened when you were apart. Who u slept with and did what with and such. She got pissed right off when I told her how many girls I slept with. So make sure thats over with before you begin anything. Other than that good luck guys and hope all is well for you. Thank you again those who helped me through it. If anyone has any questions please pm me. Thank again guys!!!! Karl.

I have been successful. Still going strong.

As most know I have recently got back together with my ex. We had a couple fights since then, one was when I found out she cheated on me and two was that she found out I cheated on her. Both were forgivable. We decided to forget the bast and work on the future. It might be hard at first but I know she truly loves me and I love her. We decided to look for a place together, but have yet to find the right one ( I need a triple garage and she need a walk in closet exc...haha ) All Is doing well so far, we planned a trip to mexico for my birthday in november and have visited each others family many times. I think getting back together was for the best for both of us. Just wanted to update you all on my situation and reinforce that getting back together and being happy is possible with a little bit of work. I hope you all are doing as good as I am. Take care friends.

I dont know what your idea of love is mang but I think "dating" people on the internet without even getting to know them face to face is rather strange and risky. I mean how do you spend time with them? on a chat room?? I just dont think its possible to be truly in love over the net.

Ya this has to be one of the most * * * *ed up threads I have ever read. Some peoples kids................

Dont mean to be mean or anything but thats * * * *ed up. Didint any of you think about the kids before you screwed the neighbor? thats just wrong, and sick. Shows where your values are. Good luck.

I heart cars! ya I dunno man , i was lucky my parents bought me a car at 16 (mmmm good ol rx7), but then again I needed one cause we live far away from anything. Dont really know what to tell you mang. good luck. oh yes, getting a job is something you need to do! insurance and gas are not cheap for a 18 year old.