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  1. Kevin T
    You can't "make" another person feel a certain way about you. All you can is be yourself and see if he takes to you. And even if you could somehow make someone fall for you, would that really make you happy? I think it's best when others accept us for who we are freely, rather than by manipulation or otherwise.
  2. Kevin T
    Length is a huge factor. When my hair was long, I had to use a little gel to keep it under control, and out of my eyes. lol But now that it's short, I barely need any. Just a tiny, little drop works wonders.
  3. Kevin T
    The last two posts depress me. Are you two really so down on yourselves? Do you honestly think there is NO HOPE for either of you? I don't believe anyone is hopeless. I used to think I was. But then I stopped thinking that way, took a few risks... and I no longer think that way anymore. So, if there is hope for Kevin T, then there is honestly hope for anyone else in that situation.
  4. Kevin T
    Well, he can't respect you less, if you hold out on the "friends with benefits" thing. And if, somehow, he did manage to think less of you, he is definitely not worth your time. I imagine most men who don't want a relationship feel that way because they either fear commitment or don't want commitment, or maybe they like being able to be "friends" (with benefits) to many different girls at once. Some guys can be real pigs, unfortunately.
  5. Kevin T
    I'd like to see the source of that information. In fact, almost the opposite is true. (Intelligence isn't related to being outgoing OR shy, actually.) But, extroverts are generally seen as more popular, successful and better adjusted than people who are overtly shy. Shyness, at least as far as psychology is concerned, is very stigmatized. It's almost like a modern day leprosy of social psychology, especially for men.
  6. Kevin T
    Too full of yourself, I would assume.
  7. Kevin T
    I agree completely.
  8. Kevin T
    Okay, thanks. That's honestly what I was thinking, but it's nice to have some confirmation.
  9. Kevin T
    Hugely in the minority. Mostly very assertive women like shy men, but not always, of course. But if the women is shy too, then nothing will ever happen. Someone needs to make a move, otherwise you'll just timidly glance at each other, look away, then rinse, wash and repeat, until you both decide "s/he doesn't like me." lol
  10. Kevin T
    Wasn't planning on it. It's to be understood. I don't waste my time (I'm very busy - despite how often you see me here! lol), so if I'm taking time of out my schedule to get together with someone, even just for coffee, it's something.
  11. Kevin T
    Okay. I got it. Let me ask then: When DOES the weekend date come into play?
  12. Kevin T
    Now I have something to think about. I am well aware of what is old fashioned... and I'm not averse to being archaic, but let's be real here. Is it really a good idea to do this on a first date? I don't know. I'm not convinced yet. It would be as bad as me showing up to pick her up with a red rose in my hand. (Which, before, I would've totally advocated! Thank God I learned.)
  13. Kevin T
    Oh, I see. I agree with you about the internet part. I strongly discourage net dating, but that's me, so for all of you who want to do it, have fun! lol I have no problem dating someone from class, but I don't waste time trying to charm girls in class, to work up to asking them out. Either I express interest (new for me!) and it goes somewhere, or they are uninterested, and I move on right away. Nothing lost, really.
  14. Kevin T
    I have a couple papers that are due next week! And guess who forgot about them? (You see, this is why going to school AND dating are not good ideas! lol) I know I need to write the papers, but I also wanted to go out this weekend! Urrgh...
  15. Kevin T
    I plan on it. lol I'll letcha know how it goes!
  16. Kevin T
    I'm agreeing with what you're saying, Luke. I like it. I was thinking the same thing. I'm not cheap, but... I don't know. Buying someone coffee, even, on the first date could be seen as trying to buy her off. I'd like her to know I'm not in the business of buying women off to get them to appreciate me.
  17. Kevin T
    Stop that. It's disrespectful. Even if you don't believe in God, gods, a deity or Santa Claus, it's still rude and very irreverent.
  18. Kevin T
    Need... more... date... ideas...
  19. Kevin T
    I don't think lying to him about having a boyfriend is a good idea.
  20. Kevin T
    Maybe some parts of ON. Not where I am, though.
  21. Kevin T
    Yeah, but I just met these people. It wasn't like it was some magical event for either of us. It was just a couple conversations, is all. No big deal. (Can't believe I'M saying that! ) lol
  22. Kevin T
    Canada isn't all glaciers and polar bears you know.
  23. Kevin T
    I'm not much of a "phone" person. I hate it, to be honest... and I sound like crap on the phone. Don't rush me, I'm thinking of which girl to call first, okay? lol Nothing more. (Yeah, right...)
  24. Kevin T
    The snowfall here hasn't been the best, so that may not work.
  25. Kevin T
    Carnelian is right.
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