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  1. I'm going to work 2 years then go to KU Med or Univ. of Iowa to become a Nurse Anesthetist. Also I do alot of worrying more out of "I think everyone else is going" and sometimes feel like the only one staying at home. I am also not a big "club" person, so I worry that I will never meet anyone, lol..I think I may have OCD :S.
  2. I am male btw lol. I can't group study, honestly nothing ever gets done and I don't learn much. I'm feeling better, but I have to be at the hospital from 7 am - 7 pm so fun fun..lol
  3. I do usually go out on weekends, but during weekdays I'm a hermit. I have 2 tests coming up next week, and with 12 hour clinicals and 9 hr class days there isnt' much study time, so I have to give about all of my free time this week. I just kept feeling like I was never going to be able to do anything and all I was going to do was study. But I think the biggest thing is that I am single. I know I am 21 and still young, but I do desire a relationship, it's just human nature. I do feel better talking to someone about it, though, so thanks.
  4. Well I'm going to state the real reason I came to the site. I am a 21 year nursing student and have a lot of homework and have to spend many a nights locked up in my room. I have some great friends who go out alot (Easier majors), I on the other hand wish to get into Graduate school, and to do that I need to get All A's. I am fine with this, I don't mind sacrafice and hard work at all, BUT when I am in my room studying I get an alone feeling some nights. A pit of my stomach feeling, I am single by the way, never had a relationship. When my friends all go out and I am forced to stay and I do get alone sometimes, feel like I'm missing out on alot (I'm usually not), but I feel that way. Any other bookworms have the same problem, would be nice to know I'm not alone. Thanks.
  5. Well I'm going to state the real reason I came to the site. I am a 21 year nursing student and have a lot of homework and have to speed many a nights locked up in my room. I have some great friends who go out alot (Easier majors), I on the other hand wish to get into Graduate school, and to do that I need to get All A's. I am fine with this, I don't mind sacrafice and hard work at all, BUT when I am in my room studying I get an alone feeling some nights. A pit of my stomach feeling, I am single by the way, never had a relationship. When my friends all go out and I am forced to stay and I do get alone sometimes, feel like I'm missing out on alot (I'm usually not), but I feel that way. Any other bookworms have the same problem, would be nice to know I'm not alone. Thanks.
  6. It wasn't the alcohol, I've drank many times (I wasn't even drunk) and have never had this problem. I am just ashamed at myself for letting my morals go, I feel like dirt. I guess all there is to do is to not let it happen again. I lost my virginity last year and am forever ashamed of myself because I wished I would have saved it for the girl I fall in love with, but there is no use crying over spilt milk I guess.
  7. I'm not ashamed of being horny/wanting someone. But I personally do not wish to have any sexual physical contact with someone I'm not in a serious relationship with. Call it corny and old-fashioned, but that is just the way I am.
  8. Dear posters, I wish to tell a story and hear some feedback. I went to a bar with some friends last night and met a girl I knew from school. I went to her house after the bar and we made out for a while and I stopped and went out to the couch and slept. Let me tell a backstory so you can know my whole tale. Last year I had sex with a girl I had been dating for a week or so, and I hated myself for it. I wasn't in love with her and just did it I think out of, well I'm not sure why, and I feel the same way about what I did last night. I promised myself I wouldn't ever do that again last year, and last night I did that, and I feel just terrible and very shamed. Am I a bad person or does anyone have any advice to help out. Thanks again.
  9. Thank you for the advice. I do enjoy going out with friends, but I have this burden over me that if I go out, I am abandoning my school grades (even though I study alot and seem to do well). I do drink socally (I don't drink to get drunk), and I always have a problem letting lose and enjoying myself because I seem to be a worry wart. I am going out tonight with friends and already feel better. Even those in difficult degrees have to go out some and be socal. I think why the single fear is setting in is that all of my friends are getting married or in serious relationship, so I feel leftout or like a third leg alot. Thanks for the advice and keep it coming.
  10. My name is Scott and I am a 21 year old college student. I am a Jr. in Nursing school and quite excited to graduate. To get to the point though, I have been single all of my life, I've only had one decent relationship, and that lasted about 1 1/2 weeks. I am a happy person, except when alone. Since I'm in nursing school I have to study ALOT and feel like I miss out on alot (Like I may be missing meeting that special someone. I am a Christian and do not believe in having sex with someone you don't love, so when I'm out I am not looking for a "booty call". I am a shy person around girls, I don't seem to be too articulate and am always afraid of saying the wrong thing. I must study alot, and I feel like I should be fine with that, but I sometimes get this feeling in the pit of my stomach, a fear of being alone, to the point I can't hardly stand it sometimes. If anyone has gone through this or a similar situation, any words of advice or encouragement would be appreciated.
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