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Kevin T

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  1. Surefire way to NOT get hit on, except by the most lecherous of fiends. And it's true, you don't have to wear a band if you're married. My dad NEVER wears his wedding ring. Ever. I even asked him why, and he just kind of avoided the question. lol He's such a pimp. lmao
  2. Specifically, a first date, but dates in general can count, too. I need some ideas.
  3. Hmm, maybe I should wait a bit longer. I have a lot of stuff to do anyway, so...
  4. That's true. Asians ARE very reserved, aren't they? B~ut... you live in North America, so you can be a little more open without raising an eyebrow.
  5. Kissing between men is not uncommon in some european societies, and they are perfectly straight men doing so. So a little hug here and there shouldn't be seen as "gay." I'm totally straight. I say if you're an affectionate person; which you sound like it, (I know I am - I express myself better with actions than words, even though I am an articulate speaker) go for it!
  6. I have a question: Why did you get kicked out? What did you do?
  7. I've hugged men without feeling gay. I see nothing wrong with it.
  8. Speaks their mind without hesitation.
  9. If you're a christian, don't let fear overcome you. You said you sometimes fear you will wind up alone. Well, don't let the enemy lie to you and start doubting yourself. Fear is its greatest tool. Wake up each day, expecting God to deliver on His promise, and you won't be disappointed. Rather than thinking, "I'll never find anybody," start thinking, "Today is the day I will meet someone great!" And even if you don't meet her today, be thankful that with each passing day, you are getting closer and closer to the day you DO meet!
  10. If you're a christian, go to church. Particularly, one with people of your own age. If you're not... never mind. lol
  11. Fear keeps you from robbing banks? Not me, but I'm just asking.
  12. I don't think shyness is what hinders desperation. Some people would date anything just because they can. I know people like that. As long as it's female, this one guy I know would go after anything that moves. And he's not shy at all. All he cares about is sex. I really don't see how shyness can be a good thing, in ANY situation. It's rooted in fear, and fear is never good. Having inhibitions can be detrimental, especially in the case of wanting to pursue romantic relationships, but being too afraid to do so. That is never a good thing.
  13. I think if you'd stop beating yourself up over this, you'd start to feel better about yourself, and be in a better position to attract the girls you want. I know, easier said than done, but I firmly believe it can happen, if you work at it.
  14. Well, for a female 5'2" is not big deal, so I couldn't understand why you'd be posting this, so I had to ask.
  15. I'm thinking 2-4 days, as Beec said. I know four days might seem like a while, but I do have other things to do, plus, I got more than one number. lol So I have to decide which girl to call first.
  16. Well, until YOU can see a bright future for yourself, it will never happen. But if you can grab hold on that, and cling to it tightly, things will change.
  17. All right, I got some numbers. Now, let's say I want to call one of these girls. But...! The question is: When do I call? Do I call the next day, wait a few days or what? I don't want to be needy or clingy, so I'd think calling in a few days wouldn't be a bad idea. What do you say? I need input lest I remain confused and bewildered. lol
  18. Clearly some people have no read my recent replies here. This is a non-issue for me now.
  19. That is correct. Unless they've changed their tradition (which they basically never do), that is the Church's official position on the matter.
  20. People that are excessively busy tend to have frequent nightmares. Have you been overexerting yourself lately?
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