Kevin T
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Whoops, forgot that part. lol Okay, so you were right about that part. lol (Can't argue with you, there...) It doesn't sound like you're "love shy" at all, then. I'd say more like suffering from being overly nice with women. You're "too nice" for them, in many respects.
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I don't see where you're getting that from. Most guys who are love shy are no different than yourself. "Nice" but they don't ever get anywhere with women. Usually paralyzed by their own fear. If you can't even talk to a woman you are romantically interested in, I'd say that is pretty extreme. And it won't get any better by itself either.
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Not only is it a word, it is a condition. Not a very good one, either: link removed See that for more information. Might want to try taking the test on the site, too, to see where you fit in. I highly recommend downloading the PDF of Gilmartin's book. Definitely worth a read, if you are shy with women.
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If you are happy being alone, then don't let anyone - society, friends, family or whomever - take that away from you. Don't think you have to live up to the world's expectations in order to be happy. Live the way you want to.
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Do alot of guys here get approached by girls?
Kevin T replied to iwishiknew's topic in Dating Advice
Hmm, I think I'm beginning to see what my problem was. lol My typical scenario: Girl flirts with Kevin through body language. Kevin ignores her. Girl gets annoyed and gives up, not getting approached by said Kevin. Kevin comes on ENA and whines about how "no one likes him." Lame. thereforeeee, Kevin is controlled by fear. Lame. [edit] Did I mention Kevin is an idiot? lol [/edit] -
What cologone do you guys use that women like?
Kevin T replied to iwishiknew's topic in Dating Advice
I can't believe people are recommending Old Spice. lol I think it makes a guy smell like an old man. (Heh, what irony... I dress like an old man, while you guys smell like one! ) Anyhow, I used to wear some fairly cheap junk, and oddly, I got compliments on it. Yet a couple years ago, I chucked the crap out and opted for some nice, fragrant Versace. Women seem to really like the smell of it. I've had women go weak in the knees from its smell (literally). It works nicely, for what it is. Kind of expensive, but all the good colognes usually are. And I only use a little dab on my wrists and neck. Don't need a lot; less is more, so they say. -
I somehow don't think the parka look is for me. I'm getting sick anyway. I can feel a sore throat coming on (always the first thing to hit me when I get sick.) I was fine until a few hours ago. I probably picked it up from someone at school today. Damned slobs... can't they cover their mouths when they cough/sneeze and keep their germs to themselves? Ugh. Really now. (Sorry, I just can't stand getting someone else's bad germs, usually due to their carelessness.)
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Again, I don't know any 18 year olds well enough to ask to come shopping with me. If I did, I'd be making a move on her. lol I'm not down with turtlenecks. I am not a turtle.
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That being the case, why not just take turns instead?
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Cravat? My necks get bloody cold in the winter, so it stays either way. *rolls eyes*
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Well, you're obviously doing something right!
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That I wouldn't know. I can only speak from my experience, about myself.
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Am I allowed to wear a scarf?
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I think just getting some advice is sufficient.
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In contrast to the above poster, it's something I have little control over. Sneezing, however, that I can stop, no problem.
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Yes, definitely normal. I'd say if he stopped breathing, you may have a problem.
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I don't have any close, platonic female friends. This is the one time when having a girlfriend might actually be of use to me. Hmm.
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I just am amazed that so many women would boldy ask a guy out. It seems so surreal, though I don't doubt you, Ward. Maybe you're REALLY good looking and they can't get enough of you?
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Maybe "chance" is the word you're looking for. Yes, rightly so, the universe is ruled by chaos, so chance runs high. But things also happen for a reason, so I've got that to fall back on. You're right though, many a times have I passed by GOLDEN opportunities with great girls, all due to shyness, a bad mood, etc. Foolish, foolish me... Ah well, what is done is done. Preparation is key, but I find the chances come when I least expect it! Oh cruel irony... Cowell is my only motivation to watch it. Most of those people can't sing worth a damn, so it's fun watching them get chewed up right, left and centre. Yeah, I'm mean. Whatever. Anyway, since the evil coat is out for now, what SHOULD I be sporting? Ladies?
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Simon Cowell is my idol. He does a great justice to us Brits (my ancestry is British, so I consider myself as such.)
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Did they just flirt with you, or actually ask you out/give you their number first?
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I thought so too, but I am much the same as them, so what's the difference, really? I try to limit my hypocrisy to a bare minimum, these days. Plus, I need to be mindful of the image I am displaying to others. No one wants to be with an angry, miserable downer. Well, I don't, anyway.
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Can tell by her face. Plus, if she were as I am, it would be undone, showing her body. I can do that. lol It's not that hard to put on a little make up, dress nice (I do that, remember?) and do your hair. I don't want a woman to be all muscular and gross. Yech. A girl can be slim without being athletic. I am not an athlete, so I do not expect her to be. I believe girls are picky. Quite. But it's their right to be. I never said it was horrible (I did say "sad", though... I think.)
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There's no such thing as "luck." That's an excuse people use to mask their failures. I don't believe in it. Part of it is inactivity on my part, but I can't ignore the response here either, so there must be something to this. (Still never heard of the mods though...) Oh well.