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  1. TiredMan
    Could be some resentment. I remember the 1st g/f I ever had. She was afraid of getting pregnant too even though I was wearing condoms. Eventually she stopped doing that (after a month or so) but I was like almost out the door. My thinking was "don't get in a relationship and u won't have to worry about that stuff". And keep in mind for you guys it was YEARS, not a month. And he stuck around through all that. I don't know if he's holding a grudge. Maybe he isn't, maybe he is. Have you asked to know for sure? People are giving advice based on the theory that he might be selfish. But he went through years of pretty much no sex. If anything, that tells me is very unselfish. There is usually something else there, IMO.
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    here's the thing though. You mentioned earlier that you guys barely had sex because you were so afraid of getting pregnant. Now you say that you told him to start using condoms. I'm getting the "do what I say" vibe from those statements.
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    I don't know the fact that you guys almost never had sex because you were afraid of getting pregnant could just be too much to handle. It would for me. I mean there are pills, there are condoms, there are female contracentives, there are all of them. If that isn't enough, I don't know. Just seems like that does take a toll.
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    You certainly have a right to ask. They have a right to say no or to laugh hysterically as well.
  5. TiredMan
    I'd like to walk in on an orgy or something one time in my life and join in. Never had that happen before unfortunately. In terms of a place I never had? I don't think there is one. I'm not too turned on by that sort of thing I don't think. How about "while posting on enotalone and giving play by play"?
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    Not me. Mouthwash gotta be used. Im not into tasting myself or vice versa lol.
  7. TiredMan
    Beach is fun tho I didn't like the sand when I was on bottom lol. Worse was the lifeguard stand thing. It wass creaky. I thought I would die haha.
  8. TiredMan
    I did that once. I met this girl stopped at a traffic light one night and the next night we got busy in my car. Then later that night, it led to sex in her backyard. I was only 19/20 ish but she was older (I think 27?). But she lived with her teenage brother. While we had sex, I could see him watching TV in clear view. Was kind of funny lol.
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    PHD needed to be a psychologist. Masters to be a LCSW (social worker) which is the same thing, you just don't have the PHD which some people might look for.
  10. TiredMan
    If I want to just "get some", then she needs to be as forward and freaky as possible. But I would rather be dead than be with someone like that. For that, she has to be laid back, fair and sweet.
  11. TiredMan
    If they are the type to sleep with people because they think it'll get them filmed, honestly they DESERVE to be lied to. So go for yours. In terms of 3 ways with 2 females, I have only done that once when I was 19. It's fun (wow is this happening?) kind of way but at the same time, regular sex afterwards is a bit weird for a while lol.
  12. TiredMan
    I won't kiss a woman after she does oral and I don't expect to kiss her after I do it. In fact, when I do oral, once she orgasms, I go into the bathroom and rinse with mouthwash and even brush, then kissing is ok.
  13. TiredMan
    Why base stuff on what you "heard" rather than what is there with you?
  14. TiredMan
    Yet you chose to have sex with him? You are giving mixed messages yourself, I hate to tell you.
  15. TiredMan
    Wait, she gave you an ultimatum (which is wrong to begin with) after only 3 months? Run man run!!!
  16. TiredMan
    This is so entirely NOT true. Someone who isn't very sexual doesn't turn into a nympho. All relationships are different. In the beginning, sex is more of a key thing but then other things become more involved. In my relationship now, I do'nt have as much sex as I have in other relationships. I COULD but I don't. But there is not 10 minutes that go by where we are not either kissing each other, hugging each other or holding hands or whatever.
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    tell him i bothers you and tell him thst unless he starts doing it too, u don't want to do it for him anymore eithre.
  18. TiredMan
    He does have a point tho obviously not in every case. Other tha sex stuff, I think something more common is the woman being more openly moody later in a relationship than in the beginning, which drives me nuts. But if any woman is fantasizing about gifts, IMO, she is being shallow. I agree about the "bad boys". Give that advice to Pamela Anderson. She keeps falling for the same rocker bad boy type.
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    Goes both ways though. As Chris Rock always jokes about, the woman you meet (in terms of sex stuff) is not the same one once you commit lol. Is it fair to get excited about what he may offer in terms of Valentine's Day gifts? Does that not come off as super shallow?
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    I don't know. The fact that you mentioned your sister was involved and the apparently very strong feelings you have about that, you can't be objective when it comes to this topic. Why do older woman like young virile guys in their prime? I guess that is ok? Heck, look at that show Desperate Housewives?
  21. TiredMan
    It actually isn't ridiculous. What I do know is that teenage girls NOW don't look the same as teenage girls when I was that age. Wayyyyyy more developed.
  22. TiredMan
    The guys that do go for younger could be for various reasons. 1) They want a girl who hasn't had many sex partners. 2) They like the innocence that comes from a girl who is younger. 3) Maybe when they were that age, they were very shy or something physical (weight) and they didn't get the chance then. 4) Older females usually want more than to just have "fun". Like a relationship and/or marriage etc... Many reasons.
  23. TiredMan
    Exactly! Have you ASKED him for oral? If you are just expecting it without communicating straight out that you want it, then no he isn't really wrong. He has to ASK you for BJ's. Not like you are offering it. If you ask and he says no a bunch of times, then yes he is being selfish.
  24. TiredMan
    Still sounds to me that he was very hurt by how he did things. I tried to put myself in his shoes and thought if I hadn't commit to many people and I did to one person, we made plans for me to stay with her (which is a huge step in the beginning) and then her mom/dad decided no and she went along with their decision without fighting for me, I would be very hurt too. Years ago, I probably wouldn't have acted as he did. Now I would at least try to communicate what bothers me first lol.
  25. TiredMan
    That depends on his size, how much lube is used and most importantly, how gently he was going in.
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