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  1. TiredMan
    Men are people not sex animals. We aren't allowed to not be in the mood? Saying "what man turns down a good bj?" is stereotyping men. This is all without getting into what is "good" and what women think is "good". The second part about shaving and all that is nice and all but again, it's as if you expect men to be like sex craved animals. Just my two cents on this.
  2. TiredMan
    Because there aren't as many and/or these men give in to the women. I said (in this thread or another one) that according to society's beliefs, men are supposed to be out for sex and up for it all the time. I said in that one thread. When woman are not in the mood, men are expected to deal with it and try another time. When men are not in the mood, most times the woman thinks there "is a problem" of some sort. Unreal!
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    This is kinda a preconceived notion that the man has to be ready at all times for sex. Just because a woman gets in bed and masterbates naked, does NOT mean the guy has to be in the mood. I know many guys (usually the ones not getting enough) say they would always be ready but to expect that is just sillyness, IMO. If a guy got into bed naked and just started masterbating, how many woman would be offended or not into that? MANY OF THEM. Not all, but many. Has there ever been time in your whole relationship where he wanted sex and you weren't in the mood? My guess would be yes. Also relationship sex DOES die down. This just happens. "average joe" or "hottie" has nothing to do with it. You can have the most attractive person on the planet but things happen and/or die down.
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    So many females do just this (lay there and close their eyes) and I can honestly say that they are the worst sex partners though many guys won't complain because bad sex is better than none at all. Not a good suggestion EVER.
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    I wouldn't necessarily say that just because he finishes quick through oral.
  6. TiredMan
    I find no problem masterbating as much as you want. Use porn or whatever. Don't let anyone make you feel like it's wrong. At the same time, spend quality time with the woman you love as well. There is room in your life for both. Did my theory describe how you feel though? Do you feel like you didn't have sex partners before meeting your wife? Do you wish you could go back and have had more? This might be what fuels your teen porn watching. Just a guess. Could be wrong.
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    I wonderhow many men have made their women wait? Probably not as much as the other way around.
  8. TiredMan
    I don't get that vibe. She said herself she is expecting him to jump on her like other guys have. Some people are just like this. Many women out there just lay there and expect the guy to do it and it's considered "normal" rather than "not attracted to me or lazy".
  9. TiredMan
    What do you mean "put myself out there for him?"
  10. TiredMan
    Which is why I put "forcing" in quotes. At the same time, I feel like she is still wrong. Wrong in the same way that I would be wrong if I got together with someone who is 2 times my age and lonely, getting her to spend tons of money on me while not doing a thing in return. I am not FORCING her but I am more taking advantage of someone who had low esteem.
  11. TiredMan
    But the fact that she is expecting HIM to jump on her, isn't she being lazy herself?
  12. TiredMan
    Well lol. It's usually the other way around. He might just be laid back. Not all guys are how you described.
  13. TiredMan
    By mood, I mean you talked about losing the mood before with her even though you are past it now. The doctors and the pills you were taking. Here's a theory. It's possible you like two different kinds of women. One like you wife and one like you see in the vids. I don't agree with those people who talking cutting down or "addiction". Im also getting the vibe that you feel that you didn't "get enough" during the teen years before being with your wife and you are kind of living it through the films. As if you want to go back through those years and have a ton of hot sex with teens your age. Does this sound right to you?
  14. TiredMan
    Megno, How about forcing the passion from your end rather than waiting on the guy to do it?
  15. TiredMan
    She wants to wait for marriage (not just commitment) after already having sex before herself. 88cookie is a virgin and obviously is intrigued by having sex. I say she is wrong in that if she wants to wait until marriage, she should be looking for someone who shares that same want, rather than being with someone else and "forcing" them to the same thing. I say force in quotes because she doesn't have a gun to his head but he hasn't had sex so I'm assuming that being a romantic relationship is not a common thing so he may be giving things up just to be with someone in that way.
  16. TiredMan
    Honestly? Not really. I'm a boob man by A LOT more. The vagina itself I don't find as appealing. But it also depends, some are better than others. The ones that get TOO aroused and/or have strong odor are not appealing at all. While the ones that get normally moist and don't have that strong odor are nice.
  17. TiredMan
    I disagree with the people here. You can use porn and masterbate as much as you want and STILL have time for the woman. But this could be a few things. And if you answer me honestly, then it should be pretty easy to find out. 1) How attractive to you is your wife? 2) Are you happy with your own body and genitals? 3) Is your wife hard to please? 4) What sort of porn do you watch? 5) Is your wife a "good girl" while you sometimes enjoy getting off to "bad girls"? 6) Have you ever tried imitating "porn sex" (dirty talk, ejaculations on body parts and/or face?, high speed and force etc) on your wife? If not why? If yes, how did she react to it? 7) Did the whole "mood" thing you described makes you scared that it will happen to you with her again?
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    I still don't get why the guy is "supposed to" slow down his time rather than the woman speeding up hers... There are many women out there who can't finish through intercourse (no matter how long it goes). Are they made to feel bad about it??
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    Or he will rightfully get up and show her the door for doing something like that.
  20. TiredMan
    Don't listen to the crap you mom spouts off. Is she usually that way with you? My guess is yes. BTW, how old are you and how old is he? There is no "time" that is too short or too long. It's what is right for the specific relationship.
  21. TiredMan
    Might not be you but didn't you write something about being persian lol? I would think you would like the big bushy beards then. j/k
  22. TiredMan
    Shaving "down there" is scary I have to admit. I don't look forward to it but I love the result. In the beginning, I used to cut myself and man does that hurt. Haven't cut in a while though. Whew!
  23. TiredMan
    Might be. But again, have you ever not be in the mood when he was? I mean ever. it goes both ways. And again, over time, almost all relationships die down sexually because it's the same person. Some people roleplay or do other things but not everyone. There is no way to recreate the initial "buzz" from the beginning. Take your favorite food. Have it every single day for 2 years. I guarantee you you won't think as much about it after that time as you did before that time.
  24. TiredMan
    I like my women with no hair lol. I personally rotate between a a light all around beard (a bit more than 5 o clock shadow but not an actualy beard), a regular goatee, a goatee with the beard part just five o clock and then shaved. It all goes with mood. My g/f loves me with stubble so I keep some there right now. In terms of my body I have no back hair (thank god), I have some on chest (not a ton) but I shave it every 2 weeks and I shave down there too as I think it looks better than an amazon bush.
  25. TiredMan
    Maybe he just isn't "in the mood" as much anymore. It does happen and nothing wrong it it. I'm sure there have been plenty of times he wanted sex and you weren't in the mood either. Also, the longer you are with someone, it is only natural that it die down. Especially once you move in. People who are best friends have many arguments when moving in together because you see each other so much. Things get on each other's nerves.
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