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  1. mdandrea
    Okay, first of all, you don't really want a girl your age to give you advice because they are not mature yet and don't know anything about what they want or need in a man. Girls want a guy who is mature and that meaning that you respect them, act like an adult, always try to see the big picture and focus on the future because living for today is not a wise thing to do because you have a huge life in front of you and you don't want it to be a waste. Don't hang around people who are immature because acting immature will be the only thing you will know how to do. You said that the only thing you've done with a girl is french kissed, well for now, mattafact for a long time, keep it that way, I tell you this for your own good and you'll appreciate that you did that when you're older. When you get in a serious relationship witha female, never get too attached unless she is 1,000,000% attached because you'll hurt yourself, NEVER say "I love you" until you know she will say it back immediately or has already said it to you because she'll have more control over you and if you are a good man, you should have the control over the relationship, I just learned this today Keep working out, you should at least be able to bench yourself. Keep reading books and gettin them good grades.
  2. mdandrea
    Well, obviously girls like you so I don't think you should even bother about this junk. Just make sure that in that "cute" self of yours or whatever there is someone who treats all the females with respect and doesn't take advantage of them. One thing though, treat them with respect (don't touch their booties, don't always stare at their breasts, etc, etc) but BE PLAYFUL! Today, girls wont think you like them unless you flirt or whatever, it is sort of stupid because that is a mistake I made with my girlfriend so we had a boring relationship and later split. Not saying that we split because I wasn't playful, it just added to a list of things that didn't meet her standards or needs at the time.
  3. mdandrea
    If it is more like "Gay Shame" you might in your heart feel that it is not right for you. Usually when a lady feels something like a shame or discomfort or anything in their feelings, it should carefully be thought through. If you don't want to have an open relationship with another person of your sex then don't, your friends can understand, if they don't who's to say that they are true?
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    To tell you the truth, most relationships that start off where the couple lives together always have problems in the future. There has been studies to prove this. If you do believe in what the Bible says, you might want to know that if you aren't in the path that God want's you to be in then things aren't going to go how you plan, that's according to the Bible, God gives you choices and there are consequences and rewards for whatever choices you choose to make. Oh yeah and that crap about living with them to know if you can tolerate them is not good advice. (NO OFFENCE TO YOU GUYS) There are people that have lived happy marriages for years without having lived with eachother before. You have to find compatability then get married and work through your problems, every marriage goes through problems but they can always be solved. Hope it works for you
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    Will do my friend. I have another thing to tell you, people all over school tell me that she still had feelings for someone that she used to be with. This guy played her though from what I've heard from everybody and when her and I first got together me and that guy had a problem because he came up to her playing with her and pushing her and I was playing back tellin him to stop but not very seriously cause I didn't know him and he obviously was a friend of hers. Well she talked to him and told him that I didn't want to fight and that I only wanted to be a friend and she was right, I seen this guy before and he looked like a good guy so I really thought that because she did that for me, she cared about me. I can't wait till I can make her smile again because that was my favorite thing to do because she has a pretty smile and if I could get her to smile, I would know that I was treating her right. I heard a story by Dr. Vines my preacher at church and it was about a man who married a girl that was not considered pretty or beautful at all and he payed huge payment to her father for her or whatever and after that continued to treat her like a queen and one day people saw this unbelievably beautiful woman walk down the steps of their house and nobody knew but that was the girl that the man married. The moral of the story is If you treat your woman like a queen, she'll look like a queen, it goes both ways though because if you treat her like something that no woman should be called, she'll look and act like that. By the way, I'm not saying that my friend is not already beautiful because she is so very beautiful, just telling you, I'm sure you feel the same about your girl. Talk to ya later
  6. mdandrea
    I can go through the day now without being totally sad. I can sleep better now too. And if I have any other questions I'll ask you because you are good with this stuff, you probably should do this professionally, you could help alot of people live happy while going through their struggles. Thanks Friend.
  7. mdandrea
    I am going through the same thing right now. It hurts man, try reading the Bible, think happy thoughts and watch comedy central. Darn, I wish I had cable right now.
  8. mdandrea
    You two need to find a way to be together more, you two sound like a good couple. Long Distance relationships can cause problems. Sometimes you feel like the only one trying probably because you are the only one trying in the relationship, it's sad but true. If he said that he "doesn't get too close to you because it will only make him miss you more when you're not there" that might be a bad sign or just him being shy which I can relate too and you said you're the same way.
  9. mdandrea
    You really give me alot of hope and you made my day telling me that. But I don't understand how you think that I got her back in the end, we aren't together you know, do you mean that I'll be able to get her back in the end? Well I'll continue to be a friend to her, I'll sit with her at lunch I guess. Oh yeah, one more thing, could you give me like a guideline of what to do? I'm just a little nervous and can't do this alone without some kind of idea what to do. My boxing instructor said to not right notes because you have to be "stright up" with women and be in control. Thanks my friend, you got any problems just tell me and I'll help you back.
  10. mdandrea
    This is the worst feeling though, I feel like I can't breathe, my shirt is too tight, like my neighborhood is a jail that I can only go so far in and that I don't have any control over anything in my life.
  11. mdandrea
    I wrote her a letter the weekend we started "going together" or whatever and later she said it was a love letter and I didn't know it was so I was like "cool, I wrote her a love letter" well anyways, at the end of the letter it said "I hope that we have a long and happy relationship" and she wrote on the letter "We will." with a smily face and then another day I wrote her a small note with some candy and it said something and my friend told me it was a good note so he wrote it to his girlfriend of eight months, so I gave it to her at the end of the day and she was like "I don't deserve this." so I was thinking "why is she saying that? she's my girl, she deserves the best." well she wrote me back the next day and said "hey I feel like i'm not a good girlfriend, because sometimes I be mean to you & I feel so bad because you are so sweet. I hope you continue to put up with me. Sincerely" Okay now I know she wanted me to put up with her so now tell me what specifically should I do???
  12. mdandrea
    You are good help, thanks man. I guess that I can do one of those things, It's hard to think about anything else. I hated to wake up this morning because I knew that she would be the first thing on my mind. I don't really cry but I was sort of doing something like that last night cause I lost a sweet friend over a week and six days of nothing.
  13. mdandrea
    I sort of have the same problem except I wasn't with her for six and a half years. Gosh that is a long time. I am really sad too. I waisted a friendship for only two weeks of trying to get together. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP US.
  14. mdandrea
    I feel so bad because I ruined a friendship by getting into a relationship. I want her to think of me as her friend again. HELP HELP HELP
  15. mdandrea
    that's stupid, if she said that I would probably just let her go. man you know how I'm feeling though right now, I feel the worst because I ruined a friendship between me and my friend by rushing into a relationship.
  16. mdandrea
    See I felt the exact same way when I was with my girl, I still do but you have to give it some time. That girl is someone you love but it is possible(I'm not saying give up) that at the same time there is someone out there who really needs that love and in return can give you as much love as you need. Think of positive things always.
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    Always have upmost reaspect, read the book "Every Young Man's Battle." I read that before I went out with my first girlfriend and that was good timing because if she was ready for a relationship, we would have had a really happy and long relationship. IMPORTANT, no matter what, after every relationship with any girl even if she was a word that I don't like to use, always be respectful because girls will like that and see that you are a good guy at heart.
  18. mdandrea
    I feel for you man and I hope that you feel better, first off, suicide is never something to think about, I just split with my girl and even though it was a short relationship I felt the same things because I've always wanted to be with her since freshman year. Three and a half years is a long time that you think might've been wasted but in one way or another it wasn't a waste either on your part or hers, if all else fail, the one thing that is always there is the Bible, there is something in there for every situation imaginable: relationships, suicide, lust, you just have to find it. Comedy Central always helps too, laughing always helps.
  19. mdandrea
    A good book that I read is "Every Young Man's Battle" I finished it the a few weeks ago, it really helped my mind and helped me appreciate my friends that are girls and my at the time girlfriend more.
  20. mdandrea
    Okay, look, if she whispered something and I heard her best friend say "whenever you are around marcus, just use a secret name like blablabla" ok! But thanks though for the advice, I guess I'd probably still be with her if I would have chilled out a bit but I wanted her to be mine and I wanted her to want me to be hers. Oh yeah and you better watch out because if your girl goes to a guys house, that can be a problem, I'm just telling you that things happen ok, especially if your girl has very little morals or values, I'm just telling you that because that is how todays world is. thanks, any more advice?
  21. mdandrea
    Okay, I think that the way you ask a girl out is sort of important so you got to do something that she will remember and always talk about. When I asked my girlfriend out that i'm trying to get back with, I did something sort of funny, I got down on my knees and looked retarded like I was proposing and then asked her out or something and she said yes, I was happy. Make sure you aren't making yourself look unsure of the relationship becase that is what I did. Make sure that this girl has some kind of feelings for you before you ask so that you wont feel stupid if she says "no." Hurry up though boy cause someone else will ask her out.
  22. mdandrea
    I put her first and she always was whispering, showed very little (if any) affection and told me that she could because she was whispering to her best friend but that was not all, this kid at school showed a part of his body to her and I think that I should have been the first person to know about that so I could confront him and knock his lights out but she said it was too nasty or embarrassing or something. Should I have been feeing the way I was feeling??? Please help me someone!
  23. mdandrea
    One week and six days ago I was the happiest guy on earth, I have been friends with this girl since freshmen year and always liked her and finally asked her out. She is on punishment and we never had a chance to talk on the phone so I thought that at least we would have time at school. The last two weeks I didn't even feel like I was with her, I gave her a love letter with some candy and I think she liked it then I did something else similar monday and she gave me a note saying "I feel like I'm mean to you and you are so sweet to me." She finished by saying "I hope that you will continue to put up with me." I really wish I could because I love her so much, more than I have loved anyone. Her and her bestfriend told me that she is just not good with boyfriends and likes to play or flirt but I see a bigger picture because when you're older, you are going to want to have a relationship with someone not play. I don't want to call her immature or stupid but she is young and ignorant or something because I think she likes me alot but can't be with me because of reasons that have no importance in life.I'm so sad right now and if someone can help me and my sweet friend get together I would be eternally grateful.
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