MyBoyfriendThinksImCute

the shorter the better!.......but there are a few guys that can pull the long hair look off (as in ear length) anything longer than that is for gypsies! theres nothing like a man who shaves his head....i find it very masculine....but haircuts also depend on the guys style too.

ive been with my guy for a year now.i was away on vaca and hung out with another guy, nothing too bad happened though.I was honest about it with my man. We're back together and i think it sparked our love and the meaning of it even more. but since the incident my man is not as trusting, which i understand. Im hoping this doesnt last forever, what kind of 'tests' do u think he'll put me through to see if im commited to him and am i lookin at more than a few months worth of a guilt trip?

maybe you should both take a break when he feels like he's going to have his orgasm and go back at it later....or have him prepare beforehand so he can last longer....hasn't he ever seen 'theres something about mary'?

well ive been dating my boyfriend for 5 months...my parents dont like him. I've known this other guy for a year through long distance and we've kept in touch. I went down to NYC (where the other guy is from) this weekend with my family and I finally got to see him in person...we both really clicked and my parents like him as well....I kind of also kissed him and im still dating my boyfriend. The other guy told me he would do anything to have me and he wants to drive up here (5 hrs) just to see me...he's also only an hour away from me where i vacation and has told me that he would love for me to be his girlfriend...i have a couple of problems though....i love my boyfriend yet im also attracted to this other guy(that my parents actually approve of for once since he's greek and my boyfriend isnt)...i might even be considering going to school down in ny to be near this guy (the guy insists on it b/c long distance relationships are really hard (which is true)....so right now im totally confused and upset....do i break up with my boyfriend and try to pursue the other guy? or do I just sort of go with how things are now and not pursue and break up anything? .....and if i do end up breaking up with him whats the least painful way of upsetting him? I've already talked with my boyfriend since ive come back from the trip and i havent mentioned anything about the other guy...i really dont want to bounce between two guys especially if the one is traveling all the way up here just to see me. But thinking about the relationship i have between my boyfriend and i is really nice and i get upset thinking about it being over between the two of us....yet i also think this other guy and i have alot in common and he knows about my boyfriend and i but he told me he'd be upset knowing ide go back to my boyfriend b/c he really likes me.... please help me I'd really appreciate as many opinions on this that i can get....thanks ....

food is a must....but here's a new one....howabout an arcade...everyone LOVES airhockey and if you're a lil romantic by heart after a few times of hanging out, gazing at stars would be SUPER cute

definitely persue talking with her...i used to be shy way back in the day....and where'd it get me? NOWHERE....so pursue her...im not sayin you should stare at her when shes doing the 'peripheral vision' lol but if you think its an apropriate time when the teacher is being whack just glance over and smile...it'll make her head spin because she would have never expected you to do that....if ur too shy to do that just imagine that you've known her forever like she's some good friend of yours....it helps trust me....make sure you walk out of class the same time she does so that way you can talk to her in the hallway....say somethin typical to open up a topic like 'hey i like/dislike that class, what do u think u got on that test we took...etc' itll open up to talkin about other simple things like music, cool movies and perhaps askin her out to one at some point. good luck

She either is unsure of what she thinks of you (since she contacts you via aim and such and her friends talk well about you yet ignores you....what a weirdo....but in all honesty....if a girl is interested they'll try and make some contact with you either by flirting or talking...whatever......sounds like she's playin you man.....move on

Thats been the biggest question in my mind lately. I know exactly how you feel....i have never really previously been in a long term relationship...but i always find myself looking at things negatively lately ( i used to be so positive) like my guy might be playing his dumb computer game and ill be like 'hey are u listening'....maybe its just a petpeeve or something but i like it when i get as much attention as i give....and i always seem to be afraid that things wont work out lately....IT FEELS LIKE BEING STUCK IN A RUT...i guarantee this new guy you just met will mean what he says....when you first meet someone theres no way you're bored....but i dont think ill ever understand WHY people do get bored.....

I have been dating my boyfriend for four months now...sometimes I feel like he's bored with me....I dont know why he would (cuz i always like to keep things interesting in general) but its the little things that make me notice this....For example, i dont think i get enough attention ...we might be watching tv and he wont have his arms around me (like he always does)....i really like affection but maybe im just asking for too much you think?....i have confronted him about not giving me as much attention as he did before....yet theres this void that i cant really explain lately...one day ill be perfectly content and the next i might be thinking "hey i really miss him shouldnt we be talking on the phone right about now?" So then I might get upset and have thoughts of breaking up with him but thinking like that upsets me, and then i go back to happy thoughts of being content...does this happen to everyone or am i just crazy? -Thanks

haha yeah...last year when I was single...i was so into this guy I had met at the gym....we would talk and ide always go out of my just to catch a glimpe of him.....then one day he finally confessed to me that he had a girlfriend....what a chump!!!

if a girl is in love she won't cheat......if she isn't she most likely will.....but i guarantee there are alot of exceptions out there....as crazy as it might sound....i think that the persons self-esteem, boredom have alot to do with it....and on an even crazier note...i think their zodiac sign may be a small factor in there somewhere as well ...it is true though: there are signs that are more faithful than others....

I own My Big Fat Greek Wedding...watching it did make me feel better like I have hope....but she was in a totally different situation....she was 30 years old and her parents were begging her to get married....im 18 and in the eyes of my parents im still considered their baby....deep down i know that they want the best for me because greek culture goes hand-in-hand with the religion....although my boyfriend told me he wouldnt mind when we had kids to have them go orthodox...and let alone he likes learning greek words from me all the time.

I love diversity...I love the city and seeing all the different cultures...who needs a tanning booth when you've got mezno skin...thats an advantage right there...I think that in todays society, latinos and blacks are accepted more than ever...latinos have been making a good comeback though lately....off the top of my head i know of jlo,daddy yankee, fat joe, pitbull.....etc...because of them i think latinos are cool (i live in the middle of maine a totally white state and i dont know much about latinos) so if the music and media can establish that....just imagine how many more positive messages they can send out to people watching

definitely not wrong...just like it would seem okay for a 16 year old girl to like a 18/19 year old guy....love has no number but the guy would have to be careful since the girl isn't legal and all...

I have been dating my boyfriend for four months now. I love him sooo much, i'de give the world for him. He's my best friend. The only thing that doesn't seem to be in my favor is the support of my parents. My parents are off the boat Greeks...my parents want me to marry a Greek boy or (they like to threat that) they will want to have nothing to do with me. It breaks my heart that I have to go through this, and my boyfriend (who is part asian) has been very supportive through this. I suggested for my dad to meet him, but he doesn't want too because he thinks that if he were to meet him, he would come to approving him. I see my future involving my boyfriend....and we dream of our future and talk about it all the time...my parents always get on my case and ask if its a 'serious' relationship and i have to fib and say 'no' because im afraid ill get kicked out of the house or something....its comforting that they care but its also really aggrivating that my parents are so overprotective of me. Once my dad even threatened to call my boyfriend up and tell him to never call me back and never see me again. Please give me your opinion and tell me what I should do to win my parent's ignorance and get them to finally accept the love of my life...thanks

hmmm....sounds to me like he's not sure what he wants....def take your time with it.....im wondering if you should do the same with him or act natural.....whichever you choose though if he still continues his weird ways....I think it would be right to say something either about how you feel about his mixed signals and/or what you both want out of the relationship....it'll help to clarify any confusion between the both of you.....who knows, maybe he might be confused by your signals as well?...guys can be confusing Good luck with everything

Think of it this way...your girlfriend hasn't judged against you because of your height, she was attracted to you regardless...think of all the advantages of being short...never think of the negatives....you may be 5'6" but the average height of girls is between 5'3" and 5'6".....its hard to look very tall guys in the eyes at the same level if you're a 5'3" girl....so you win in that situation...and I agree with Caldus...if you're short make sure you work out and keep up with your form (you'll look leaner and taller that way) and I hear having nice hair for guys boosts self confidence too

I agree with OceanEyes...saying hi to a girl that doesn't like you is prettymuch borderline harrasment in the girl's point of view eventhough you might not see it that way. She definitely isn't interested in you, and since you keep talking to her she thinks (and knows you like her) and it annoys her even more that you won't stop. You should just stop talking to her altogether....why waste your time on someone that finds you annoying?....there are always better people out there that will appreciate you.....you're twenty-two years old.....go out to a club there are always tons of girls there...good luck

you should definitely test her to see what kind of body language shes giving before you start to talk to her.....whenever your eyes meet dont smile this time...just look her in the eyes and if she looks away and then looks back at you....she definitely thinks you're cute....and always remember that body language says alot.....although you both smile at eachother maybe she's just being friendly....thats why the 'eye test' will help....and always remember that when one person admires another person, they tend to mirror the persons moves....so if you tilt your head and she tilts her head (sort of like shes mirroring you) then that's when you start sweet talking her....Good Luck!!

If a girl likes you, she'll make it noticeable. It might not be obvious...but she'll do it in her own way (just like a guy would)...body language is a def one....if the girl makes eye contact....says your name in a sentence when she talks to you....acts flirtacious....you'll be able to know....it all depends on the situation and whether or not she's a shy girl or an outgoing one.... ~cutie~

sounds like this guy is still deciding whether he likes you or not or really means what he says by just wanting to be 'friends'....in either case theres no worries in the great wonder of being single......what's the point of admiring someone that doesn't admire you just the same?....theres nothing wrong with being friends but there are always better......fly free and keep searching! ~Cutie~

I would def say that this is her way of showing she likes you in her own female devious type of way. Face it, females test guys all the time...after a certain amount of time we stop....but when we're just starting to know the guy, we want to know what interests him, what he would do in our situation...and in your case....how jealous he might get in general....which leads her to figuring out if you like her as much as she thinks......like I said...us women can be horrible....I wouldn't worry about it.....if anything just laugh it off and tell her what actress you think is cute. ~Cutie~