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Ok so my previous short thread here link removed (we are both 15) and so I've checked her livejournal thing but she updated it late so we both knew that her grandma passed away earlier before her update. So I sent her an email saying: _________________________________________________________ Hey.. tough times, hang in there - you'll pull through Anyways; I would come if I could - unfortunately I have to finish schoolwork and have open house tmrw around 3ish, and so family is going out and have to spend family time and such, probably won't be back until around 8ish... and so sorry to hear about your grandma passing away; just letting you know, me and the whole gang (we have our little 6~10 good friends group) are here for you *heart sign* try to cheer up though ya know? not to be offensive but you know, remember; she doesn't have to suffer anymore to the extreme pain she was having... and you should also try to do something to get your mind off things for a while. On the other hand c U on Tuesday love you much *heart sign* _________________________________________________________ - and also more sad news that she had; her older brother moved out (university) to his own place and is left with her mom and another older brother (her parents are divorced). I wish I could be there for her but since I explained it in my email - I was wondering if what I emailed to her was a right communication/email. She has to goto the funeral tmrw (sunday) and monday missing the whole day of school and I won't be able to see her until the day after. I was thinking of giving her a hug and a kiss when I get the first chance to see her. Do you think I'm doing the best I can to support considering the situation? or can I do more for her...?

why not?

Just be cool and calm down - greet her with somethin like "hey sup?" I'm guessing you two know that both of you are going to the same movie, so when you two get in the theatre, just joke around or something and say something like "save me a seat will ya? thanks" *wink* Now since you've initiated conversations sort of... jokingly aggressively, time to back off a little - be more assertive, you two won't have time to talk because of the movie, but after, when your both are coming out; ask her - "hey, next time - wanna go see (movie title)?"

Actually... don't bring her that rose, you wanted to play it cool? 8) At your age, (and mine I think thats a little overdoing it Just pay for her ticket like you said, calm yourself but be yourself. Just joke around BUT NOT TOO MUCH. You won't get to talk to her much because of the movie going on... try to get some physical contact (arms, hands) it doesn't matter, any physical contact is good.

Just sounds like going in for a single/one little kiss... =\

I don't think it really matters - If your comfortable with them wear it, who cares; sometimes it makes them look cuter/hotter... I first wore my glasses not too long ago - girls starts hittin on me.. i donno how that works but ok lol

Just wondering - How would you initiate to make out? like for example what would you do? I pondered this up a moment ago and it's been keepin me

That'd be a really bad reason to dump him - just for 'biting'? Fix it - thats how long relationships last. *sigh* I see too many people dumping their relationships for really bad/pointless reasons nowadays.. TT

Dump him - he could be just manipulating you, or even lying/acting to love you just to get sex. Your 14 - what's this world coming to... sex @ 14?

Just play along for now - get to know her more, since you dont' really do. Just have a little patience and ask her out when you KNOW she is interested in you, read her body language and how she says certain things etc. Sorry I can't give more descriptive advice but I don't really feel like typing alot right at the moment... sorry

This is what I meant in my earlier post "You want THIS, but then at the same time - want THAT" Sorry but thats the truth... like Amethyst said... You came here to get advice, not to hear what you want to hear. Take a course of action and just DO IT... no disrespect but by now I was sure you've done something about it, unfortunately - you haven't.

Crazy world we live in ain't it...? Good luck with the rest of your relationship!

Yes, that is one key factor - be nice to EVERYONE, even the nerdy and unpopular kids. I've always been nice to everyone and so now, practically the whole school knows me. Just play it cool, don't hesitate about anything; be yourself - be cheerful and positive, good sense of humour and be active.

I've been going out with my girl for around 4 months now and yes we've gotten to know each other alot more (more into very detail lives) and kissed etc blah blah blah. The thing is, I'm kinda CRAZY about her right now. I don't know, I guess I just want to hold her in my arms for a minute or two and just share a passionate kiss or something. But since we see each other at school most of the time - hanging out with friends and we all just play soccer in a circle or something to pass the time; So you get my drift. I've helped some people on here with some great advice so I know pretty much alot of stuff about relationships, but when it comes to my own - it gets kinda caught up in some sort of.... thing. I know you guys will probably say something like "Go out somewhere, just the two of you" or something like that - but I've been very busy with school/work and all... hell, I'd do anything just to be closer to her everyday. I've thought about just randomly coming behind her and holding her around the waist but I don't really know if she'd stay with me or just stay for like 5 seconds and leave off (she and I are pretty active/fun/cheerful people, but pretty mature at times)... I'm starting to have a little doubt in myself. We both don't talk about relationship ALOT but we do sometimes and how it's going. I don't really know what to do.. I'm kind of confused It might seem like that I'm about to be too clingy to her, but I'm not - because the push/pull attraction. Many suggestions would be appreciated, especially Ticklebug; because I know she has lots of great-lifesaving advice everytime, but anyone else who could help would be great. Thanks in advance

Yeah, bring it up if he doesn't call you as your girlfriend

Ask her anytime, looks like shes on to you and YES

Lol comon man, it's so obvious that she likes you - go for it 8)

Of course, I'm sure we'll all be dead by then ^^ Unless we're reincarnated

Ok firstly to clear things up - Please spell/grammer correctly, it's easier to read like that. I mistook "dk" for don't care so it was kind of confusing. What does he mean he doesn't care how far you two go? Your only 13, theres a boundary to all this, unless your careless and go have sex or something. How long have you two been going out for? Have you two talked about your relationship once in a while? Sorry but need more info.

I think the replies are a little bit off... (sry no offense... but) At your age (14) it's kind of corny telling them when 2 people are alone, "I like you" .. ya know? It just doesn't fit - Now times HAVE changed we know that. But I think it'd be kinda freaky if you just went up to her and told her about everything you felt about her. Are you good friends with her? I know your shy to tell her that you like her and want to ask her out and all, but you have to gather up the courage to just blurt it out. "Hey you wanna goto a movie this weekend?" or whatever you plan to do. Don't pour your heart out to her, you have to DEVELOP the friendship/relationship between you and her and progress with that. Just play it cool - don't overreact; and think stuff like "AHH, I shouldn't have said that - I must have sounded so stupid..." etc. Just go for it, but if you dont know her very well- get to know her a little bit first. Hope I helped Good Luck 8)

Bust his @$$ LOL no I'm kidding. Yes - Find yourself a new job before quitting your current one, that way you won't be stuck without a job after quitting. Best of luck to you.

The disease death toll is going to be horrifying.. Hope they get it all fixed up quick

Happy new years and best of luck to everyone here!

Back away if your guy doesn't care about you emotionally and is only trying to get to you just physically. Your better off without him then.

I can't give you advice 'cause I'm not specialty in this area but wow, 6~7 times a week at that age? thats like everyday