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    Good to hear xblondyx that you're doing better!
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    jchan, It seem like you got the right idea. Keep with it and know the people here on this forum are here for your support. I'm on day #3 of NC myself after the ex broke the NC last weekend by calling me with an different number. I was on day # 19 when she broke it. Hang in there and know eventually things will look up for all of us.
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    Wildchild, It seems like you want to give him another chance. You said that you love enough to work things with him. I hope that you take things slowly and with precaution. I'm not saying that your ex is not going to change for the better. For me personally, "Talk is cheap and actions speak volume". I hope everythinng works out the way you want them to be. Keep us updated alright?
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    Okane, My advice is not to responded. Continue on with the NC!!! If she really wants to have relationship with you again, she really needs to show you some progress. "Actions speaks louder thans words" Just continue to work on yourself and find what truly makes you happy whether or not if not means being back with your ex or not. Know that things will eventually look up for all of us.
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    Thanks Scout, Is been real struggle today and just can't stop thinking about her. I miss her alot. I hope I get out of this mood soon.
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    Congrats cawls, I'm very happy for you and it's great to hear another successful stories. Thanks for the advice and NC is the way to go. Keep us updated about your situation.
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    Well, I want to give everyone the update! Last night, I got back from visiting my family overseas. It was great and I realize that nothing helps you get back up on your feet than being with family. However, I had major set-back. Last night, I get call on my cell phone and an number that I didn't recognize. What I do? I picked up and it was my ex. Part of me felt happy to hear her voice, however another part of me was mad at myself because I knew this phone conversation would set my healing process back. Our phone conversation was about thirty minutes. I tried to keep it causal and ask her how she and Addie(her daughter) was doing. Bottomline, nothing has changed and that she still needs more time to figure things. I knew that nothing has changed, but talking to her just made reignite my old feelings about her. I'm not going to beat up myself for picking up the phone. Yes, I will be depressed for couple days and think about her than usual. But I'm not going to let this get to me. I will remain strong and restart my NC again. If she ever want to have an relationship with me. I need to see some major progress on her part, "Actions speaks louder than words". I will keep you all updated, if there are anymore news. DAY #1 of NC!!! again
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    Just in hang in there alright, Slivercloud. I know that you will be thinking about him alot today and probably a billions scenarios will be played out through out your mind about the ex. Be strong and know that people here on this forum are always here for you. Don't let one little bump on the road stop you from healing from this. I had my ex broke the NC and I was on day 19 of NC. I pick up the number that I didn't recognize and guess what it was her. We end up talking for about thirty minutes. Nothing has changed and that she still needs to figure things out. I felt bad for the rest of the night, however when I woke up the next morning. I told myself that I wasn't going to let her get to me. Easier said than done, but I will be strong and restart my NC. Day 2 of NC!!!! Just hang in there everyone, things will look up for all of us soon or later!!!
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    I think your family is right and that you need to walk away from this one. There is just too much drama for you to deal with. I'm not as forgiving as others on the forum, but for her to get new bf after you guys break for a week and then get pregant by him. It just speaks volumes in my head. "Action speaks louder than words" Good luck with all this, I know it will be very difficult to deal with.
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    Hey Mark, Hang in there, I bet today being her birthday is kind rough for you. Things will get better. Like Mp Meridien said; don't let her use you as her backup. You deserve so much better, we all deserve to be love/care equally by our loved one. Keep up the NC!!!
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    I'm going to remain strong and continue with my NC. I will keep everyone updated and thanks for all the comments/encouragement!
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    Hey, There is nothing wrong with a little venting now and then. We all have those days feeling down about ourselves. Like Kellbell says; just give yourself sometime to heal from this all pain/ anguish. Continue with the NC and hang in there buddy. Know that we're here for you and feel free to vent whenever you want. jl
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    Hello everyone, Well she just text me last night saying: "I Miss you so much". It was hard not to text her back. I'm going to remain strong, day 16 of NC. She needs to show me more effort than an text although it did make me smile for a little bit and knowing that she still thinks about me. Should I text her back? What should I say then?
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    Hey Slivercloud, You should be proud of yourself. Wow, 3 months of NC. I'm on day 15 of NC and is been struggle. I miss her and her daughter dearly. I wonder, if she ever going to call me or did she forget me already? Just so much thoughts run through our heads.
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    Hey Mark, Good to hear that you're being strong against her.
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    Good terminalogy frisco!
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    Hey slivercloud, Sorry to hear that you're having rough day. You should be proud of yourself having completed 3 months of NC. I know half of us won't be able to reach that number. We all miss our ex and somehow we only remembered the good times and not the bad. It just takes time to heal and things we will look up for all of us. I'm only day#11 of NC and it's so difficult because I just miss dearly. I ask myself all these question and run all these scenarios in my head. Why do we torture ourselves and knowing that it change anything. I hope that I can be as strong as you (Slivercloud) and that I hope that I will be able to make it to 3 months and beyond of NC. Whatever it takes because I refuse let someone making me feel unwanted and pathetic. Just in hang there, we're all in it together. jl301
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    Frisco, Your comment was a little bit harsh, but it just might do trick some people. I just don't want to think about anything right now. I'm just going to let nature take its course. I'm going to do my best to work on myself and grow from this experience. I don't know what will transpire in the future. One thing, I do know is that I will be myself again. However, now I'm get ready to go out with my friends have some green beer and then tomorrow get on plane for 13.5 hrs to see my family. Life is good, if you make it that way. I feel better now, thanks everyone!!!
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    Good luck Sukerbut, do come back and update us how you are doing from time to time.
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    Thanks Scout, I just print that off and put it on my inspiration board. You're truly wise and valueable member to this site.
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    Thanks Scout / iwantherback for the encouragement. I realize that I will probably go through few more situations similar to last night before I complete heal from this. I will take everything day by day and hope that I will have the courage / strength to deal with whatever comes my way.
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    Thanks for the encouragement everyone. I'm not going to lie, but I almost called her last night after having few drinks with my classmates to celebrate that midterms are over and spring break is upon us. I guess, I was getting angry in my mind and wanted to ask her why does she feel that she need to disconnect herself from me. What the hell did I do to deserve all this. I was just really unstable last night and so I went for a walk to calm myself down. I knew deep down that calling her wouldn't matter at all. Like solo34 says : "It's the fact that is she even thinks about me, etc. like I do about her" I miss her alot and that she is constantly on my mind. But I promise myself that I will not look weak and be strong for myself/ maintained what ever dignity that I still have left. Hang in there everyone, eventually things will look up for all of us. jl301
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    Hang in there everyone!!! I'm on day10 of NC. Good for you Cherry83 and not picking his phone. I know it probably took alot of inner strength to not pick up his phone. How are you doing Nathalie?
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    Thanks for the encouragement and it gives me strength to continue my NC. Yes, I'm hurting deeply inside, but things will look up evenutally for me and everyone that suffering heartache from love.
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    Thanks friscodj, Goodfun88, and iwantherback for listening! iwantherback : Sorry to hear that things didn't go the way you wanted. Hang in there buddy!!!
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