Amannamederic

i dont know the best time but im going to assume your in the clear, good job, be safe next time

thats a really nice story, i agree though, just say hi in the hallway and if you like each other chances are (knowing what i know about you) you both will sit there dead silent like "omg what do i say next" but it isn't bad in your case since you both are saying the same thing, then over time talking will come more easily and then poof, a fun relationship might happen.

yep melrich is right, i used to have them when iwas 13, freaked me the hell out until they disappeared.

wow i hadn't thought of that, she is very very very against relationships at the moment because she just got out of a 1.3 year one and the guy is having love-sickness to the point where it is seriously scary (showing up at her house at 545 to wake her up and make sure she gets off to school ok...when he doesn't go to our school) good plan, ill lay off of her

hey guys...once again same girl, I'm tired of her crap, one day she says she likes me, then no contact outside of school or whatever, touches me while laughing at my jokes...laughs at all of them, then acts like she wants to get away from me at the end of the day...parents love me to death, cousins, aunts, uncles, you name it they've met and like me, friends all want us together but i just cant get her to like me. She stuttered when someone told her they had heard we went on a "date" (she wouldnt come out and say that it was a date...so pissed...so pissed) Having said this, i quit, but i think she pretty much secretly wants me to even though she told me she doesn't. So do i just quit talking to her? I admit thats what i feel like doing...just keep it clean and back away, is that a worthwhile thing? Itll be tough since we have 2 periods together and usually shes sitting next to me but i bet i can just be the bare minimum friendly to keep her around as a friend but once that bell rings do i just walk out without a word? -Eric

an ex of mine used to get so violently sick during the first 3 days of her period that she puked non stop...had to get birth control so that she didnt miss 3 days a month it helped alot.

nevermind the fact that he has secrets, the religious goals he has can deeply effect your relationship forreal life goals pretty much determine if you two will even have a future together. and how are you supposed to have fun if you don't enjoy doing the same things? sounds like your answer lies with another man

rofl no that girl was cool, she just laughed, i asked her out like, " heeeeeey, i see you lookin at me and i know you like what you see so lets get together sometime and see whats uuuppp" just joking around...i got her to laugh so hard she snorted and the rest is history rofl.

well, its a bit of a read but here goes: She was not careful at all when it came to B.C. She did it unprotected with him all the time, he was obsessed with her...i mean OBSESSED. He was planning their wedding at the 2 month anniversary. Anyway, he came inside of her and she shrugged it off like, no big deal (yeah right) then she started to get sick...very sick, so sick she couldn't move alot of the time. She threw up easily and then her period was 2 weeks late. She also started to retain weight easier and got bigger in a short period of time. She told the boyfriend, he was so excited, he wanted the child so badly...but she didn't. She went behind his back, made her friend pay for the abortion, and told him she mis-carried. They are still together but ill never forgive her for saying that abortion is no big deal...even more so when she told me once that she had a free pass to have all of the sex she wanted until tuesday (the day she got it aborted).

some guy is so right here... my dad is giving me this lecture like everyday since college is approaching... "eric, when you get to school girls are going to want to do things with you, my advice would be to stay away but since i know thats impossible, make sure others know its happening and only do it with girls you know very well...the jury always believes the woman

first time i tried to have sex with a recent girlfriend, she went dry, tightened up, and i went down...most embarrassing experience of my life, im here for ya man, just relax, the both of you if you had problems too. its tough...but do-able i know

whoa your not pregnant yet you dont know for sure, he does sound a bit selfish but its not your fault you got this way, it takes 2 people not 1 to have sex...except in choice situations. relax a bit, just wait it out, your family probably won't kick you out, they might be mad, but they love you and will do their best to help you, by no means however, mention this to them unless you are pregnant. I would like a PM when you get your results, like i said i know someone who aborted a baby not long ago, and i know a girl who told her family she was pregnant, they made her keep it, but she has a daughter now whom she loves more than words could describe. there are upsides to both decisions...and downsides to both...keep me updated

i agree a doctor is the right road, this is sad...but perhaps think of yourself as in the same situation of women in abusive relationships with their husbands? what happened to those that didn't leave...it only got worse and some died the knife scares me...

i've just handled the situation as though her and i were friends. Seriously trying to get away from this mess even though i still like her alot. I never told her i liked her until friday, and its always her who is sitting next to me in class, since im always verging on late due to conversations with people. Her friends and cousin keep asking if anything has happened yet, i say nothing because she is still involved with her ex. (they all get really mad when i say that, its funny) i know they went on a date but i haven't asked her a thing about it, except for what movie they saw, i thought it was emily rose but turns out she hates scary movies and so do i (god we have 100% of everythin in common here) i didn't ask because i don't see it as any of my business how her thing with him is going, i hope she recognizes the message im trying to give her, that im not jealous and that she can relax with me. i think your right, ill just go back to my non-aggressive stance on things, let her sit by me, let her come up and talk to me, and see how that works out.

ask her if she feels sick all day or not

some guys can really suck...ruins the good name for all of us forreal

well by the sounds of things you arent at home, bawling your eyes out and scared (or are you? after thinking for a bit i think i would be...) at least your trying to do the right thing and not let it creep up on you.

hey that was my info! it ruined the night for sure... 8)

rofl im actually laughing! i have totally said that before, whats odd is that 1/10000 times it actually works...im 1/2 with it though XD

sorry if i flamed her i was just a bit shocked and really sad at the initial post. at least she has a head on her shoulders for a 14 y/o lol /commend you for not freaking out melissa

what type of guy is he...from what shes told me (i asked to know) here is him in a nutshell rofl. When they went to school together he was cool, he got jealous extremely easily, pissed off, that sort of thing. She would always be the one consoling him and begging not to leave her, her friends tell me hes a B**ch who can't stand up and be a man. Looks wise...um...i guess hes a decent lookin guy, not one of those guys thatll make you feel safe because hes so small but hey who needs that in high school. He likes to get drunk and high...she doesn't...i don't understand why that isn't a problem in their relationship but it hasn't been so far. He used to be ok on the social side of things. Word is though, they became an "at-home" couple as their relationship went on. I realize this might be a term that means something only to me so ill explain. They sat at home watched tv and fooled around are my best guesses as to what their dates entailed. Now he is in college and she is a senior with me. This is where he lost it, and i mean he sounds like a total wreck, he could not handle her going to school with all of these boys without him there to keep an eye on her and make s ure she still likes him. He chose to live at home so that he would always be close to her (they live down the street from each other) he refuses to go out with any friends from college or meet any new girls because he "just wants her" She says this makes her feel bad and thats the reason she can't break it off completely, she doesn't like the idea of leaving him with nothing. He calls her all the time and asks her if shes met new boys and if she likes them. He has asked her if she would consider hooking up with me because they arent "together". Now for her...she likes to have fun, she is very down to earth and realizes that shes 17 going on 18...not ready for marriage. She wants him to have fun in college and have fun herself. She doesn't want to go to school with him but he keeps pressuring her to apply to his school. She wants to cheer for the school that is showing me the most interest in me to play football...University of Cincinnati. When we mention him she seems flustered, like she doesn't know what to do but when she was around him on friday she was acting normal...not a red flag because i was talking to her at school this one day and this boy she professes to absolutely HATE started talking to her and she was deeply friendly with him. Before turning to me and saying omg what a f*g. Thats all i can say i think...i hope it helps you assess whats going on with this boy.

lol yeah it is bad! but thats the old world, arranged marriages at age 3...sleeping with your cousins to keep the family blood-line "pure"...it was weird man. They shouldn't effect how you live though, good luck with the test.

hey, i know i've been asking about this girl ALOT and she might be the most confusing female on earth but whatever yet another question regarding her. On friday i actually got her to admit that she has a thing for me too, i told her i know i said i wouldn't start to like you but it just sort of happened, and then told her i promised i wouldn't make it weird and would work to get over her if it meant losing her as a friend. She said no dont do that. but yet again she says its bad because of certain circumstances. She was going on a date that saturday with the ex boyfriend she had broken up with because he got really paranoid. This shocked the hell out of me. Yet, she didn't seem to like him, she says that the situation has changed and that they are completely broken up. Anyway, on Friday night, we had our usual football game, i did amazing for a Tight End i caught 5/5 passes for 115 yards and it turns out some coaches were in the stands to see me. So im really high and everybody is following me as i walk back to the bus, asking questions, congratulating me, the whole 9 yards. Her dad comes up to me and is talking to me enthusiastically, her mom is talking to me like im her son, her aunt is all over me showering me with praise. The ex was right there watching all of this ( ) to say he looked intimidated would be an understatement (he is all of 5'6-5'7 maybe 150 and im 6'7 235) she comes up, gives me a hug and says good job! then goes over to him, hugs him and starts walking with him for awhile before heading to her bus i guess. Her parents ignored him. Back at school she was there with him yet again, and she "formally introduced us" as im walking away i turn around and they are talking with solemn looks on their faces, but he still had his hand on her back as she walked away from him. That wednesday i had run into her dad at an open house and we sat and talked for 45 minutes afterwards, at the JV game that saturday where her cousin plays, her aunt came up to my mom and was talking about how sweet and nice i am. This is where i run into my question...am i doing the wrong thing by talking to her parents when they come up to me? Like...pressuring her to like me just because they do? Seriously i have just about had it with this girl, i don't even know why i still like her and keep giving her chances. I don't want to lay it on the line with her though because she might think im freaking out or wahtever...Just dont know what to do. -Eric

mitchell, isn't it ironic that some couples try for years to get pregnant yet for some unlucky teenagers the first time yields pregnancy when they don't want it?

in my opinion, its better to consider the worst and be prepared for it then hope for the best and be hung out to dry when the worst comes true having said that i quit with all the preparation stuff. Old-world italian grandparents huh...tough...dated 3-4 girls with people like that who didn't like that i wasn't italian (but i am white...i know white people live in italy so i duno what gave there) anyway, i don't know any way to tell unless waiting for a missed period...feeling sick all of the time is probably a good way to judge, a friend of mine did this same thing. she was puking all of the time, 2 weeks late, sick to her stomach 9/10 of the day, tired, and getting steadily bigger. I am about to text her and ask when it all started for you. I'll post the answer she gave, even though im sure 1 or 2 people on this forum have been pregnant before and could help you lol.