birdie0013

Well I just figured I'd put my 2 cents in. I absolutely LOVE to swallow. I make my guy tell me everytime he's about to cum just so I can go down there and swallow. He likes that I like to. But not everyone is my guy and I. I think if you really loved the woman (as a man) then you wouldn't care if she swallowed or not. She's giving you head right? So what's the big hang up on one little thing? And girls, if you don't like to swallow, and you really love the guy, find other inventive ways to "deal with the mess". But to the main post, I love the taste and the feel of my guys contractions in my mouth. It's a big turn on for me...physically and emotionally. I know he's feeling intense pleasure and is vulnerable, and is letting me share in his feelings. To be in control of that really makes me feel great. But, cbfan, keep in mind that no two women are exactly the same. "If love was present, nothing else would have to exist"

It all goes to the same place....VAGINA. Remember this term. Everything that you put "into" a girl, for the most part anyway, will go here. There are other parts of a woman's anatomy (clit, breasts, neck, etc.) which need attention also, but the main "everything" is the vagina. If you're unsure of where to put it, just move your hand around and suave-ly ask "Here baby? Like this?". You'll know if it's the right spot.....

Hey, look, I was told before that we're not here to criticize each other. This is a place to voice your anxieties and know that you are not alone in your questions/problems. My man's (he's 20) lays almost on his belly (pointing to his face). This is perfectly normal because it does move and change angles. Just don't move it to a position which is painful for you. Experiment, try new things.....find things that please her, that please you, that please the both of you....then do them. Do the two of you love to kiss? Find a position where you can kiss each other while you're going at it. Does she like to be dominant or you love a chest view? Let her, or ask her, to be on top. Find ya'll's groove and when you do....get your groove on!!! P.S. Protection should always be first priority...better safe than sorry....or in this case....better plastic than pregnant.

I agree with the above post. When YOU are comfortable, then make the step. Not ready for oral? Tell him. If he doesn't respect you're decision, get another man. Any man who doesn't respect a woman's wishes deserves to be alone.

I enjoy being on the top also. I enjoy giving oral, and love love love getting oral. I like anything where my man and I are in close contact and can kiss/cuddle/see each other's faces.

Hey man, don't beat yourself up over it. Your reaction is normal. It shows you that you did feel deeply for this woman. Don't rush yourself to move on...it'll only wind up hurting an innocent woman when she falls for you but you're unsure/not ready for commitment. Just basically give yourself time to hurt. You need to mourn...accept the fact that you love/loved her....and accept that it's not going to work....then when you understand all of that, you'll be able to pick up the pieces and move on. And I will admit, from personal experience, that "no contact" is a b****, but sometimes it's a sure fire way to get over a person. It's hard, if not impossible, to move on from a relationship with a person if you're still talking to them and physically in contact with them. The fact is, if your heart senses any possibility that it may work ("they're still around? that's a good sign....maybe...maybe....") it's going to hold out some sort of hope, and at the same time, prevent you from moving on. But, listen, I've got way more advice and time to talk if you want to. Just PM me and I'll see what I can do.

I agree with the women who have replied to this post. I would rather have a guy (and I do) who cares about my needs, and my wants, and doesn't always put himself first. I enjoy a man who appreciates cuddling, and talking, and making out, etc. Sex is great, but it's everything that leads up to it, and follows it, that makes it memorable. Just like too small can pose an issue with orgasm time, too big can make sex awkward and just plain painful. So the average size is average for a reason, and to me it's not really that big of a deal. Plus, just like men say for women, I agree that a man with confidence is the sexiest thing out there. It doesn't matter the car that you drive, just be happy and proud that it runs!!!!

First off, every guy tastes different. Just like every guy has a different smell, or a different way of walking, every guy has a different smell/taste down there and a different tasting cum. Food also plays a part in it. The underlying taste within it comes from the food he has just ate. Alcohol makes it bitter, fresh fruits make it sweet. I would have to say it is about the consistancy of beaten eggs, with a salty/sweet taste. I love the taste of it, but that doesn't mean you will. It's all a personal preference sort of thing. I mean, if you want to try it, try it once, and if it totally grosses you out, then just tell your guy about it. After all, honesty is the best policy. Being able to talk about it, and not just do it, makes a relationship that much better. Good luck, and like an above post said, he better be going down on you to make it up all you do for him!!!

I agree with JonnyG. Some tips are generic and are good for all men...some things may not do anything for your guy. My best tip is to simply listen....if you're doing something right, you'll hear it. Whether it's by his moaning, or him talking, or simply his breathing getting faster and harder, you'll hear what works and what doesn't. Plus, some of the tips are simply your preference. I like guys to have their hands in my hair, and even pull my hair, but I don't like them to shove my head on their ****, because it messes up my rhythm. Lots of times it'll make me gag, and generally I never gag. Oh, a tease if you're up to it.....if you can, suck on and deep throat his finger. But do this before you ever unzip his jeans. It'll let his mind make up fantasies about what you could be doing. Something else, use both your hands on his ****, but use your mouth to tease his finger. That way he's being pleasured in 2 ways. What feels good, and what he know's is soon to come. Don't be afraid to touch different areas. My guys nipples are extremely sensitive, but some guys' aren't. Just kiss, suck, lightly bite, on different areas and gauge his reactions. Get a good reaction? Remember it for next time!!!! Anyway, if you want more tips, post or message me.

I'm an 18 year old woman who is going to college soon (UCF). I'm smart (graduated with a 4.0 GPA as valedictorian) and I love to laugh. My question is: is there really anything wrong with a girl that has a great personality but isn't 6'0" tall with blonde hair and long legs? Do guys go for personality or looks?

It's possible she's met someone who she thinks is (sorry) better. I'm not saying that because you seem like a nice guy. But maybe she's immature enough to always believe the grass is greener on the other side. So, she's unsure of how it'll go with this guy, so she wants to keep you there just in case it doesn't work out. Typical girl strategy. I've even used it acoupla' times. Don't get to stressed. You're young, love does happen more than once. Smile, be optomistic, and don't lose hope.

I agree with raiders. It kinda weirded me out that a 13 year old was reaching a "sexual platform" that I had just reached. And I'm 18. Piece of advice....wait, it makes it much more special.

Very good.....tell us how it goes!

"you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink" "you can show a heart how to love but in the end you can't make it love" Simple enough, if she doesn't love you after a year, then it wasn't meant to be. I've always tried to look at everything that's happened to me (good and bad) with the idea that everything happens for a reason. Maybe you were at a point that you had given up on love and she came into your life to show you that it was possible. But just because she may not love you doesn't give you a reason to keep from trying. If you ask her out and she says no, then you're alone...but if you don't ask, you're definitely alone. See the picture? Pain is only what you make it. Next thing....you should never change who you are for someone. If she has shown you how to be a better person, that's one thing. But if you completely stopped doing all the things you loved just because she didn't like them, then that's not love....that's you trying to impress her. If she really loved you she would love all of you and all of your ways. Try not to be so down about all of this. If it doesn't work out, you're young. You sound like a really nice guy, and plenty of girls would love to get to know you. The world does keep spinning. If it doesn't work out, just be glad for all the things you've got from her. Take your memories, mourn if you must, then file them away to look at when the wound is healed. You'll make it through this, no matter what the outcome. Good Luck and I'm here for you waiting the results.

Well, I've always looked at potential boyfriends with one question in mind "Could I see myself spending the rest of my life with this guy?". If he passes that question, then I'm game for a relationship. But like you said, all girls are different. Some girls go strictly for looks, some for valuables, some for music; you name it, there's a girl out there who bases her opinion on a guy on that. Just realize that not all girls are going to like your personality, just like some girls you "just don't like". But the key is to find a girl who loves everything about you, or is willing to overlook the little things that she doesn't like. "Find the one who makes your heart smile"