Calvin Ong

What do you mean by a hidden agenda?? Pardon me if I sound stupid.

A good friend of mine is getting on my nerves. What happened was this. There was one day i noticed something was amiss with this friend of mine, so I went up to ask him what was wrong. His reply was that he was ignoring me because he thought that I was angry with him. But I was not angry with him, nor did he offended me. He told me since I was not angry, than it is ok. So I wanted to know what did I do to let him feel that I was angry with him with him but he did not want to tell me why. I pestered him for the reason but he did not want to tell me. But the problem was that his attitude towards me did not change. This is very frustrating to me. I tried to reconcile with him telling him that if there was anything that I have done that haveoffended him, I was sorry. I just felt that if there was a problem, it is better to talk face to face and thrash it out. What is the use of him running away from the problem and ignoring me? I tried talking to him or asking him out, he just waved away my good intentions. I just felt very hurt by his actions, and he does not even bother about how I feel. I just feel very frustrated. I do not know what to do now!!!!

Recently she told me that I would never stand a chance with her... She would only consider good looking guys... Looks are important to her... I am just only average looking... My friends all tell me that they think that she is average looking... I actually decided to break off all contact with her... However recently she started smsing me to ask for help in her studies and to chat with me... Do not know what she is doing??? The exams are coming and I decided to go after her after the exams... Am I stupid to still go after her??? I really like her, thats all!

anyone got any more suggestions??

The situaton between me and her is very confusing... If you don mind to listen to it... I can type it out for u and you can tell me your opinions.

Are you all sure it would work... Me do not want to mess things up.. Haha.

How do you go after a shy girl?? She is around her group of girl friends all the time... Are there ways to impress her??

Anyone else got some opinions about my problems! Haha.

I think I can understand how you feel. Do not think too much of the guy. It is no use spending time and effort thinking someone else who does not even return your calls or messages. A relationship is two way not one way. Yup!

Thanks for those taking time to read this post. I think I should just type out my whole situation now instead of posting it parts by parts last time. Hope u all reading this do not mind k. I am currently 17 and this girl that I like is 17 too. We study in the same school but in different classes. I got to know this girl from my friend who is an ex-classmate of her. I got her handphone no. and I sms her admiting I like her. So she knows I like her. After which we started to sms each other frequently. Most of the time would be me starting the conversation first. She would sms me sometimes too. She would sms me msgs like telling me to think of her, if I miss her I can call her. We would smile to each other and say hi when we see eachother in school. We would meet each other during her break on wednesday. I too talk to her on the phone, the longest for 2 hours. I thought I stood a chance with her. But such things are hard to say. I tried to ask her out but she said she wanted her friend to come along. She would ask me questions like why I liked her, whether I would go chase after another girl who looks like her and agrees to go out with me, unlike her. I took up courage to ask her to be with me but she rejected me. She wanted me to stay in contact with her. I do not mind so I still kept in contact with her as I still liked her. I do not call her or sms her as frequently now. But we still keep in touch. She would always ask me for help in her school work although we are not in the same class. She would still sms me sometimes. She is a very nice and hardworking girl and I seemed to notice that her friends are mostly girls. She is always afraid that people will talk about us. the exams are coming and i know she will be busy preparing for her exams so i intend to ask her out after the exams or shouldn't I?? What do u guys think?? Still got chance for me?? Or should I give her up totally??

Why is it that she is so afraid that people will talk about us?? I do not mind but she seems very unhappy when people talk about us. She do not like it. Why???

Sometimes I feel that I think too much. I have never gone after girls u see. I just worried she would get angry with me for popping up. Anyway thxs a lot.

What do u mean, bri?? Tell her friend about me? Haha. Really hard to understand u girls.

Something happened just moments ago. I am now confused and sort of angry and also dissappointed. I saw her and her friend who is a girl doing homework at the library and I went to speak to her. I passed her the cd I burned for her too. She thanked me and I sat opposite to her. Later she started hinting me that I should go. She told me it was kind of awkard as I did not know her friend. I reluctantly left the table and went home. She messaged me saying, "Think u should understand... Really apologise... Later my friend ask about us." I just replied telling her to study well and hope she liked the cd I burned. She replied saying she appreciated it and have a fruitful day. Do I still stand a chance?? Is she hinting to me I should stay away from her??

I am not very sure how she thinks. However she does know that I like her. I think her dad is quite strict with her. Maybe that is a problem.