JonnyG

BBW?

Its a girl

I don't think there's a problem if your bf views porn as long as it isn't at a ridiculous level. Guys view porn! Its that simple. It doesn't mean he loves u any less. U could say "well he must find me unsatisfying if he watches porn", but I think surveys show that 70% or so of over 30 year old women have dildos/vibrators. Does that mean 70% of women are un happy with their partners performance/size? Many girls (especially older) view porn as well, but women are less visual than men, hence why not so many view it. Many women get off on romantic novels, its probably more of their equivalent of porn, but men don't complain. He may well have some fetishes and is afraid to ask u to take part in them, or perhaps they are just fetishes he wshes to masturbate about but does not want to carry them out in reality? Like i stated at the start, it really depends how much. And if its really bothering u, then yes, u need to talk about it as its affecting your relationship. Is it affecting your sex life? My personal opinion would be that I wouldn't mind my girl reading romantic novels or viewing porn as long as it doesn't negatively affect our sexual relationship. In fact it will probably help it as it will give her more ideas in the bedroom.

Its funny how some1 who supposidly cares for u so much won't kiss or hug u in public. I don't really understand this though because u also mention when u first were seeing each other that he broke up with u because u wouldn't show affection at school Its made all the more weird that at school people know your ages and might frown on the fact he's 18 and your only 15.

I don't think u can blame just girls magazines. Mens mags a full of gorgeous women like girls mags are full of good looking guys. Its trying to tell everyone who is gorgeous and who is ugly. The fact is, its up to us who we find attractive, be them small or tall, thin or fat, brunette or blonde (or redhead) etc etc.

I think its rubbish, a myth. I get more turned on by watching england score in football. Eating a pizza when im starving. Playing some counter-strike. blah blah blah.

In my 1st year I was good with assignments. Got them done a week before hand. 2nd year I got them done with a day or 2 to go. 3rd year I often did them on the day before it had to be handed in (stupid really) Final dissertation, I ended up failing due to leaving it so late and having to hand it in early as io had to go with my parents on holiday. So i passed all my exams and assignments for 3 years then had to let myself down at the last hurdle. I've now got a bog standard degree with no (Hons) as of yet and have been given the cahcne to resubmit a project again in April. So don't do what i did, get your head down. Theres plenty of time for work and fun at uni if u plan your time right.

These topics aren't good for the nice guys out there. All they do is leave u feeling more frustrated I don't think that we can put all girls into the same basket. There are nice girls out there, they just need finding. U only have to look on these forums to see that there are some geniune nice girls around. I do believe that a lot of younger girls though do like the challenge of these bad boys. But when they get older and more mature 30+ they tend to get fed up with them. I mean seriously these idiots aren't best role model as a father or husband. Problem is that that is a long wait for us guys in our early 20's to find some1. There are a large amount of girls out there who still like the jerks though unfortunately. Its hard to comprehend why. Of my friends, it was the bad boy ones that were the most successful while my good guy mates suffered. For examples: 1) A friend of mine called Chris at school was the most popular guy with the ladies of our year. All of them had a habit of slagging him off behind his back and all agreed he was "an arogant ******". Yet he could go out with any of them when he felt like it. WHY? 2) A friend out of school (but he use to go to the same school) was also very popular. He would go out with Sarah one week, Jenny the next week, Chloe the week after etc. He didn't even tell them when he had finished with them. Worse still, these girls actually knew each other. All of them must of been saying "What a jerk. He went out with me, treated me like a piece of meat, and then dumped me without saying anything". Once again the girls always backstabbed him. Yet even though all the girls knew what he was like, they still all seemed to go out with him whenever he asked them out. Was it to win the challenge of actually being able to keep him?WHY? 3) Another friend at school wasen't the best of lookers yet he had 2 girls fighting over him. He also treated them badly. He didn't care about either of them much. 1 day he was out with Claire, then Jessica, then Claire, then Jessica, then Claire, then Jessica. This went on for several months. He went out with them 3 times each. God knows why those 2 girls who were friends were happy about the situation of them going for the same man. Maybe they enjoyed the fight for him? He gave up with the pair of them after 3 times each. I don't honestly know what they saw in him. He wasen't great looking, he treated them poorly, he didn't seem to care about them. WHY? 4) My older brother told me a story about how he had a friend like chris from my first example. All the girls slagged him off behind his back, really hated him, yet all of them went out with him if he asked. WHY? So, maybe its just my life, but from the majority of situations I have been in life where there is a group of people involved, the jerk does better with the ladies, and the majority like this "jerk". I have to admit though, that these friends of mine who are bad boys are confident, I guess the women see this and look past how badly they are treated. The nice thing about bad boys apart from the challenge is their ssssooooo easy to dump if things do go wrong. All they have to say is "he treated me badly", ironic really Anyways, there might be a lot of women out there that like these jerks, but there are still a lot who prefer the proper gentleman. So don't give up.

Well for me personally, I prefer shorter girls than myself. Im 5'10, and prefer a girl to be at most the same height as me, but preferably smaller in the 5'-5'5 range. My ex was like just under 5' (cute).

Go every 3 days or so for like 5 times to build up a base tan, than go once a week to keep it topped up. Then after a month or so make it everyother week. Experts i think say its not good to use tanning beds more than 30 times a year. So when it comes to the summer, drop the sunbeds and get outside. When it comes to where u go to tan, its a bit difficult. I prefer the sunbeds back in my hometown. They really do cook you though, theres no fans in the bed and it really heats up and physically can start burning my back from the plastic heating up so much. The beds I go to in Manchester (where i live and looking for work) are all super high tech, but to be honest i think their concerned for safety as I haven't burned at all on them and barely seem to get any results off them, and their more expensive than the ones at home. Think i'll go somewhere else in Manchester because the prices are too expensive and the results are poor.

lol your sick of it! If u were a guy u would be expected to ask everyone out/make first move, all the time for the rest of your life. The fact is your going to ask out less people than 90% of us guys will in our life, so count yourself lucky in that respect. U question why he wont ask u out. In the year 2004, perhaps u can ask him out? Your sick of it though right? Perhaps he's sick of asking girls out and is hoping u will ask him? From what u said though, Im not sure why he hasen't asked u out yet. Perhaps he's worried that u only see him as a friend and not more than that? Maybe he just needs more time. Or perhaps he isn't interested in more than being flirty friends?

I think its best to not ask but realise when the time is right. Often the time when your both at some1s front door looking at each others eyes and the conversation has stopped. Lets face it, if she likes you (which im sure she does, thats why she's with u), then she's going to want to kiss u.

Yeah oops , my definition was just a strip club type of lapdance. In regards to this thread read Switch187's response.

I was on minocin mr and a cream to help my spots. But after 2 years, and the spots getting worse i was given acutane. Works a treat but does have side effects. In terms of food/drink giving problems. I found that if i drank a lot of milk it seemed to increase spots. General uncleaness won't help either. Stress probably has its effects Pro hormones make a mess aslo, well at least the PCT (post cycle therapy) does. My back is still recovering from using some Drink lots of water, its great for the skin. Calcium pills for teeth/bone. Cod liver oil for the joints.

As a regular at the gym, I have them under my armpits and they stretch a little to the upper back and pecs. There very common on guys who go to the gym either from muscle gaining, or from sudden weight loss. I don't know why people would be looking at u funny in the gym, because like i said, its very common there.

I think u just know. U feel it. I've only really had feelings for 2 people. 1 I didnt even had chance to go out with as she already had a bf. We met on holiday and spent the whole week together just enjoying ourselves. Really had a great time with her, just wished for more. Second was my ex. Unfortunately she was a fair bit older than me and had a child. Not the best of circumstances and in all honesty, if we were still together today I would be concerned about her age. She was 8 1/2 years older than me. We were only together for like 7 weeks. And I didn't se her all that much as she was working and having to look after her daughter. We kept in touch by phone. Only went out with her like 5 times but we hgad a great time together. I think the age problem got to her as well, and she got back with her ex who was desperate for her . I still miss her 8 months later.

As maggie18 said, its difficult to have an O thru just penetration. Its a difficult 1 this. On the 1 hand he might be up for it and think its exciting, on the other, he may feel its becaise he's inadequate. I think your just going to have to sit down and talk to him about it and see how he feels

Can I ask what is wrong with your life?

Exactly what she said . U do want help, thats why your here. U do want people to notice, thats why your here. So give life a chance, because u are not fully sure u want to end it yet. And at only 17....u have no idea what the future holds for u. It could be better than u ever dreamed it could be. Im 22, and think life sucks a lot of the time, but i have hope. I truly believe that 1 day i'll be satisfied with life.

lol, those hot or not sites are funny. Don't know how but on some of them the guys always rate highly, yet these same people still find it hard to ever get women to notice them Must be the guys voting themselves up But I to, want to know what shinobie looks like after all these negative comments he makes of himself.

1 year??? . 1 of my ex's was 8 and a half years older than me. And a sex-only type of relationship I had with a girl over the summer was 4 years older than me. I must admit, the 8 1/2 was a lot. But i love older women, and luckily for me, im more successful with them. But preferably a max of 5 years older.

Its true. Its a pity, but when we like the look of some1, we treat them better/let them get away with more.

Looks matter for 95% or people. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder though. So no matter what we look like, their's some1 out there for us.

Basically a woman starts off in some lingerie and just starts dancing sexily for the guy. She can remove the lingerie during the dance (usually takes bra off), and basically gets real close to him with her face, breasts, legs. She often will rub her groin and backside against his crotch. Once the song ends, so does the dance.

If a girl is clean theres no reasons why guys can't go down on them, and vice versa. Its a pity how many people don't like oral, or at least giving. Lots of girls (looked 50/50ish) didn't seem to enjoy it on the other thread about "if girls like giving their bf oral?" Its stupid and selfish that basically every1 likes oral, but many just like to receive. But I can understand why more men would prefer not to than women, because a woman is internal (harder to clean) and *ahem* monthly...well u know. But this thread seems to indicate that more men seem fine with the idea of oral than women.