vivianmoon Posted March 26, 2017 Share Posted March 26, 2017 Hi, I am actually a little shy about asking this question because I´m scared I´m going to come across as too vain but I really need some advice. After not having a boyfriend or even a love interest for some years I met this guy at work, who is well....not cute at all. Somehow we ended up becoming good friends because we have various things in common. I heard rumours going around saying that he liked me but thats because according to people in my office, I am a very "pretty" girl. Well one day, this guy and I were alone at the office and we ended up kissing. By this point, my feelings for him are very confused. I am very attracted to his mind but not how he looks. There also a few more problems about him. I am what some people in the office consider "rich girl." And he is well, lets say he has a very limited amount of money. Not only that but he has bad manners and makes jokes that sometimes make other people uncomfortable. My parents have met him, and of course he did not make the right impression with them. However, he is regarded in the office as a sweet and sentimental guy. The point is I don´t know what to do. I feel he is very sweet and comprehensive with me, but I fear he only behaves that way because I´m the "pretty rich girl." and he´d be stupid to pass an opportunity like that. We do share many things in common and I feel we genuinely are friends as thats how we started getting along in the first place. But...I don't know if I want to take another step since well...the fact he is a ugly does stop me from making this decision. I feel very vain by saying this, but it is actually a real fact that goes through my mind and I can´t ignore it. Everyday I get more invested in this relationship but I worry that years later when the "honeymoon stage" is over, the fact he is ugly with come back to haunt me and I´ll want to leave him because of it. At the same time, I´ve been looking for a guy as sweet and patient and comprehensive as he is but I don´t know if he is being genuine. I don´t know what to do. Please any advice? Link to comment
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