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Ya, my girlfriend is going to the movies with her ex boyfriend shes like "he doesnt like me blah blah blah"... I think i pissed her off so shes going cause she knows itll piss me off but thats just to much for me, if she goes should I break up with her? What should I do ? I don't know..

I haven't kissed my girlfriend, its not that I don't want to or are to shy or anything I just haven't I dunno just haven't I don't think its that big a deal.. However, I think she is getting like frustrated because im not very aggressive.. I think she thinks I am like shy and innocent which isn't the case im just I don't know I just don't care about kissing her or anything.. She is really physically attracted to me, but I think my personality doesn't exactly meet her standards.. Do some women take physical contact seriously? I think I will be more aggresive around her now, I have no problem with it I just didn't care.. I just don't want her to be like anxious or like I don't know angry with me for going slow..

Okay, my girlfriend well, I know she likes me.. I love her I don't know if she loves me she tells me she does.. But today I think something changed..I went to her house last night and today shes like "Im angry and dissappointed in myself" but she won't tell me why she is. She says she doesn't know why.. I am so like scared she is going to break up with me. When I wake up in the morning thats the first thing I think "is today going to be the day?".. I haven't been going out with her for that long but I have liked her for a really long time.. I am so depressed when shes not around or when I am not talking to her.. I wish I didn't like her she is the most confusing and complicated girl I have ever met.. She doesn't tell me her problems she thinks it will mess things up.. I don't know what to do, what to feel or anything.. Maybe im being a bitch..? Maybe I should stop being this scared little kid and grow up. Take the lead because right now she could run my life even though she doesnt she could have me doing whatever she wants.. I don't like that I wanna be a friggin man.. I don't know if this even makes sense to you guys and I don't know what I am even asking for but if you can help me thatd be awesome..

Maybe the decrease in cutting is due to the increase in fighting? Hrmmm, probably shouldn't point that out but ya...

Alright, i got braces and if I went down on a girl how unpleasent would that be? Any girls know from experience?

My girlfriend just had to sell her horse, she was EXTREMLY attached to him.. She is going to be sad for the next week or so and I want to be able to comfort her.. but I don't really know what to say.. This is very serious though and it would greatly improve our relationship if I could make her feel better about her horse leaving.. So, if anyone knows anything that I can say it would be awesome..

LOL i dont know if that was supposed to be funny but i was cracking up for 20 minutes "Which is a shame"..

guitar*girl I have to dissagree with you about her being underweight.. 110 at 5'4? That is Ideal weight for that height.. Thats the same as my girlfriend she is not skinny nor fat, just perfect.. It also isn't neccasary to eat "large" amounts.. Slightly more then usual just your regular 3 meals a day with some healthy snacks.. Its a common misconception that when a women is pregnent that shes "eating for two" its just not true..

nvm were going out

OKAY i talked to her today and she says that when she said that she doesnt go out with friends wasnt really true.. she is scared to go out with me because she is afraid we will break up and stuff.. I told her i would never hurt her and she said "ya on purpose" so I dont know how to talk to her and convince her to go out with me anyone want to try and help me?

Okay, this girl that I am in love with well.. I asked her out a few days ago and she turned me down and said "I dont go out with friends".. I don't really believe this. Anyway, I talk to her every day for long periods of time and she always tells me she loves me before she goes to bed.. I don't tell her I love her only if she tells me first but anyway, I know she likes me Ive known her for about 4 months or so.. I want to be with her so badly I just don't know what else to do can someone help?

ya its a maturity thing same thing with me nothing to worry about...

Maybe she just wants to be friends... and enjoys talking to you like any friend would..

Okay, the girl I like is going out with this kid she hardly knows. I like her so much and she tells me she loves me and that she doesn't even like her boyfriend. I think she went out with him because I never asked her out when I should have.. I regret not doing it now. We are good friends and I want to be more then just friends with her but me getting upset last night told her that I was done with her and the shes to stubborn and complicated for me.. Even though it was a lie, because I love this girl so much.. I tell her to breakup with her boyfriend she always tells me she has no reason to..I want to go out with her, any suggestion on what I can do..Firstly, I have to get her to stop being angry at me for what I said last night but I dunno what to do after that.. How can I convince her I want to be with her? Do I just come out and say it? I am lost, I don't know what to do..

okay you dont want to get skinnier. Rather make your abs larger and stronger. Don't just do situps. Do crunches, reverse crunches, and knee up twist thingys i cant think of the name.. Don't work your abs everyday 3 times a week is good. You have to give them time to recover just like any other muscle. Also, try doing so HIIT (High intesity interval training).. If you have any questions PM me I know my stuff when it comes to muscles and health.

....Thats weird I don't think it matters... both ways gets the job done.. its not about looks anyway..

Well okay, 30 situps a day thats good..What you should do is 3 sets of 25 situps..So 25 situps wait 2 minutes (or whatever you like but no more then 5) then do 25 more rest and do 25 more.. Monday wednsday and friday.. Also, you'll notice that your abs will stregthen but for you to be able to see your abs you have to have a very good diet and do about 20 mins of cardio or more a day.. Maybe a bike ride or jump rope something to that nature.. Also, I don't know what kind of physical shape your in so you should consult a doctor make sure you are healthy. No heart problems or obesity. Don't start doing the sets until you can do about 75 situps in a row.. Also, you will notice its gonna get easier and easier.. So you should do all type of abdominal workouts but situps are good for now.. Anyway, you will notice results within the next couple of weeks.. PM me if you have any questions about this and I will go into more depth..

sounds just like her

what are some signs that show if a girl is playing "hard to get" or not..

No we told each other we loved each other more then once acctually for like 3 weeks or so, I think I am taking things to slow for her..

Okay, I like this girl and she says she likes me I don't know whether to believe her. I may have waited to long to make a move. I don't know I am stupid. She doesn't want to talk to me, well not that she don't wanna talk to me she talks but like not really talking not much care into what she is saying. I don't know whether to give up on her or keep trying, I like her so much I want to ask her out but I don't know. I try telling her I love her she shrugs it off, I don't know what to do.. She said like 3 days ago she loved me. Now, something happened something changed.. I don't know what it was. Please help me I am so lost...

Okay, this girl I really really like is very strange.. She likes me alot. Okay, I am a very open person I tell her everything, even the things she could careless about knowing. Anyway, she tells me absolutly nothing about herself the reasons why she does the things she does, why she has a bad day and what not. She is opening up a little bit now today on the phone she told me "I don't like telling the person I like about me it messes things up".. I think she might be scared that I won't like her if she tells me things. This girl is EXTREMLY stubborn I could sit there and tell her that it's okay to tell me something for hours but she would never give in. She has fun watching me beg too lol..She gets mad when I tell her I could care less about what she is saying. For example "Hey do you know what soandso said about you on the phone last night??" Me: "no" her"you wanna know" me"sure" her "to bad".. Then I will tell her I really had no interest anyway and she will be like Oh thats cool.. but I think she just likes playing little games thats okay I don't mind but its like the important things she hides from me. Like today her away message said something about she can feel her heart breaking.. I dunno what this means and she wouldn't tell me. I just don't want her to lose interest I want to ask her out I want to spend so much time with her. I love her. I talk to her every night while she is in bed right before she goes to bed and she tells me she loves me it means alot to me.. Sorry for this being so long I just have alot on my mind tell me what you think of her and what I can do to get her to open up a bit more if you could please. Thanks in advance.

your right! i am having same trouble the girl i like i want to talk to her during the mornings before school but i am intimidated by her friends, so ya any help with this would be awesome

Well, I am getting so depressed and so upset because my what I like to think of a life is going to hell. First off my school grades are horrible I am failing 5 out of 8 classes, only because I lack the motivation or ambition to acctually do any work. Now, I am moving to a new town and my parents want to take me away from all my friends, My brother just moved out and is gone for good, the girl I like is with my head. I don't know might seem pathetic but I dunno. I have no goals I got nothing. I am just a lonely loser looking for some kind of happiness and when I almost reach that happiness something ridiculously stupid gets in my way.. Some inspiration or some kind of guidance would be great.

I kinda agree with the post above however, it could just be his little way of making you feel bad so tthat you will try harder to make him happy. Why don't you try hounding him if he loves you...