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What should a girl do when the guy she likes is sending her mixed messages? My ex and I have been playing the stupid "i like u, i don't like u" game for the past month. I'd act like I hated him and then he would seem upset and sad, then when he found out I liked him, he'd act like he could give a care less. Part of the reason I think he is doing that is because his friends don't think I'm good enough or something. I don't really want to talk about his friends to him though because he'd probably get mad and deny it. Anyways, I just want to know if there is anything I should say or do to show him that I don't wanna play games anymore. I want to know if he's going to ask me out again or not so that I can move on with my life, but from what he's said to me, he wants to stay single for a while. I don't know what to do or say anymore. Please help!
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My ex and I have been talking lately. I want to get back together with him, but I'm not 100% sure he likes me again. Anyways, me and him always talk about everyday stuff, not too much with stuff about being a couple. The thing that is bothering me though is that whenever his friend comes along he acts like a complete jerk to me. I know that his friend doesn't like me and I'm not exactly sure why so how should I go about this? Should I tell my ex that I see whats going on and that I don't really appreciate it? Should I just ignore it and hope for the best? His friend has pretty much total control over him so I'm kinda worried.
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My ex and I are starting to work on our relationship again. I'm pretty sure he has something for me still and I still like him a lot. Anyways, now we are talking more because we both broke off our other relationships (on the same day..how ironic). The reason we broke up in the first place was because we didn't talk to eachother. I need some advice and tips on how to carry on conversations with him. If we could talk to eachother I'm almost positive he'd ask me out again.
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Alrighty, I like this guy, and I'm not exactly sure how to try and flirt with him. We aren't in any of the same classes so its not like I can just walk from class to class and talk to him about it. I need some conversational tips. He has teased me a few times in the past few weeks, but it was like good intentions. A few people have told me that they think he likes me also, so how do I drop hints to him that I like him back?
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Hun, I know what you are going through. The next few weeks are gonna be really rough, but hang in there. This will only make you stronger. Try to keep busy, it helps to make yourself not think about him. It's not going to be easy for you, and I know that from expierence. I went through a period of depression when I broke up with my boyfriend. It's ok to cry. I started to keep a journal and it helped me to express my emotions, so maybe it will help you too. Try talking to close friends and family members, they can help by simply listening. Its going to be alright. Just don't give up on life so soon. You have so much more to live for, and you'll see that life will be more fullfilling after all this passes. Hope you feel better soon.
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My ex boyfriend and I have had a few encounters over the past few months since our breakup. He told me he would probably ask me out again, but then things started to get crazy so I figured that I was just being cheated anyways and moved on. I am now with my ex's friend. My ex keeps telling my boyfriend that I am a sl*t and stuff like that and its really making my boyfriend mad. My ex was the only person I ever did anything with, so I don't know where he's getting all this from. Anyways, my ex did this to another boyfriend of mine, and they got into a fight. Now my ex is going out with a girl that I really really despise. A couple people have told me they think my ex is jealous, and I have thought about that too, but I'm not so sure. One time I gave him a really dirty look when he was talking to my boyfriend and he looked kind of hurt. What are the signals that a guy is jealous? Does he try and cause trouble for your relationships and say nasty things about you? I'm just so stuck between thinking that he just really hates me or if he's trying to get my attention. And if he is jealous...how do I go about treating him cuz I still kinda have feelings for him.
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Ok, my ex and I broke up about 6 months ago. We did mess around a little bit about 3 months ago, but I figured that he was never going to get back with me so I moved on. I still have feelings for him, but I am with another guy. Now, he keeps telling my new boyfriend that I am a slut (my new boyfriend is his friend) Another guy I was with for a short while told me the same thing, and he even said that he thought my ex was jealous. Now, my ex is going out with another ex of his who i totally hate. What are the signs that a guy is jealous and wants to get your attention?
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My boyfriend is really sweet, but I just don't love him like he loves me. We haven't been talking as much either. I don't wanna hurt him, but I just don't know how to tell him that I'd rather us be really good friends. I don't want to be in a relationship with him anymore because I am starting to like someone else. My boyfriend is always telling me he loves me and stuff, but I just say it back so that it doesn't feel awkward. I just don't know what to do. If anybody has any advice, i'll really appreciate it.
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Ok, I have an older boyfriend (we are both teenagers) and we've been together for over a week now. He wants to do some intimate stuff with me but I already told him that I'm not ready for sex just yet and he said he understands and that it isn't a must for him. He told me that it was up to me if we do it or not. Anyways, I have never really gotten that intimate with anybody and I was just wondering how exactly you do stuff to a guy and what you do if he's doing stuff to you. I've never done anything more than kiss so I'm kinda new at all this.
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Ok, I have been told by like 5 different people that its illegal for a girl underage to go out with a guy that is 18 and older. I thought it was just if they have sex or if the parents don't approve of it and want the guy to stay away. Isn't it ok if your parents know, are fine with it, and you are just bf/gf and not doing anything as far as sexual intercourse goes? Can somebody help me figure this out?
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If she has been touching you and showing you more attention than normal that most likely means she likes you. Ask her out, what do you have to lose? The worst she can say is no, and by asking her you can get some closure to this thing. If she says no then you can move on, if she says yes then you can begin to work on resetting the foundation for your new relationship with her.
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What are the signs an ex boyfriend will show that he is going to ask me out again? I wrote him a note about 3 days ago that said I wanted to fix our relationship and now he has started talking to me a lot more. What should I do to keep building our relationship so that if we do get back together it will last a long time?
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Ok, my ex bf and I have recently started talking a lot more and flirting a little bit here and there. I told him in a note that I still had feelings for him and thats what got him to start talking to me more. I don't know how exactly to tell if he is flirting with me and sending me hints that he likes me. He has complimented me a few times on my appearance and has said hey to me in the hallway at school a lot. What are the main signs he likes me?
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I want to try and heal my ex boyfriend and I's relationship through communicating. I can talk to all my guy friends with no problem, but when it comes to him I seem to just stutter and get really shy. What can I do to help myself talk to him? No communication was the reason we broke up in the first place.
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My ex and I had a very loving relationship before we broke up do to him cheating on me and me being overprotective. We have gotten back together a couple times, but we always ended up breaking up due to no communication and not seeing each other often. During this new school year he has been acting like he likes me and I do the same to him. I was almost positive he was gonna ask me out again, but he goes and hooks up with another girl and just tears my heart into pieces (again). I have completely stopped all communication between him and me and I no longer look at him in the halls. I can always feel him staring at me though. I just don't know how he could do that to me. I love him so much and I think about him all the time.If anyone has any idea as to what the heck might be going through his head, please tell me!
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Ok, there is a new guy in my homeroom class and I wanted to get to know him better. I'm not exactly sure how to start a conversation with him. How do I drop hints that I want him to ask me out once I get the conversations going?
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You are right..that is a load of B.S. I personally think that you shouldn't limit yourself to just certain people because of their relationship history. If she is always laughing, then she probably likes you. Give it a go...what do you have to lose?
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Hey everybody! Ok, there is this new guy in my homeroom class. He is actually really cute and kinda shy, and he doesn't really have that many friends yet. I just got out of a really bad relationship and I have had my eye on this new guy for a while now. I've seen him looking at me a few times and I sometimes look back at him. I don't know how exactly to start conversation with him. I want to go out with him because he seems really nice. I want to get to know him first, but after I do that, how do I hint that I want him to ask me out?
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my boyfriend's ex
X ShadowDreamz X replied to girl_friday's topic in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships
If I was you, I'd tell him that having her call him often and leave him messages like that is really starting to bother you. Be completely honest with him, don't make it seem like you are accusing him of cheating on you, just make it clear that her hanging around a lot is starting to really get to you. If he truly loves you then I am sure he'd understand and try and tone down his relationship with his ex. You shouldn't have to put up with this kind of stuff if you don't have to. -
My ex and I have started to like each other again. Lately he has been hanging around my EX best friend because she now likes him, and is still with his gf. He and I walked home from school together 1 day and a whole lot of stuff happened between us. We talked about how we felt about what was going on with our personal lives, and we apologized to each other for the stuff we did during our break up. We sort of got back together, but it's in secret because he has to set things straight with my ex best friend and needs to break up with his current gf. The 1 thing that keeps bothering me though is that whenever he is around my ex best friend, he acts like he hates me. I want to make sure that when we officially get back together our relationship can be solid and not prone to other people's opinions about the both of us. I really want or relationship to last a long time because I really care about him. How can I make sure that he and I can get a strong relationship this time around? What are some things I should do?
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My boyfriend and I were talking about having sex 2 days ago. At the time, I was thinking that I was ready to do it, but now I am having second thoughts. How do you know you are ready to have sex? Is there a way I can get birth control without my parents knowing?
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My ex and I were flirting a lot about 2 weeks ago, and I asked him if we would ever get back together. He said "yeah" and it wasn't like a "let me just say this to make her happy" kind of answer. Then about 3 days after that, my EX best friend starts to like him and they hook up. I was crushed by this. She tells him stuff about me that isn't true and makes him think I am nasty. Now him and I are just friends. I want to really get back with him. My ex best friend told me that she doesn't even like him that much and that she is just using him to have fun. She said that since everybody likes him so much, she wants to have her turn with him. But when him and I were together we had a serious relationship. She told me not to tell him what she said, and I haven't but I am thinking about it. But the thing is that I don't want him to think I am lying. I am going to be totally honest, my ex isn't the smartest person in the world. How the heck do I tell him that she is just using him?
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People handle being depressed differently. Some want to have many friends and family members around while others just want to be left alone to think to themselves. Obviously he is going through a sad time and wishes to be alone, so don't force him to be sociable when he isn't in the mood for it. When he is ready to talk about his feelings, he will. Don't force him to. I was depressed for a period of time, and I just wanted to be left alone. Having people constantly wanting me to let them talk to me made me even more upset. Just give him time and he will open up, but until then, let him be alone to sort out his emotions.
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My ex boyfriend and I broke up about 3 months ago. Now he and my EX best friend are together. About 2 weeks ago he told me that we would probably get back together sometime, and I am happy for that. Now that he is with my ex best friend, it hurts me to see them do stuff together. I get depressed and cry a lot. He said that he wants to be friends, and I agreed with him. I just want him back so bad, and everytime I try to tell him he says that I am saying that to break him and my ex best friend up. I just want to tell him that I don't want to break him and whoever he is going out with at the moment up, but I don't know how to say it. Can anybody help me here? I have tried talking to a counsulor about my depression and she has helped a little, but I need more reassurance. Thanks
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second opinion, anyone?
X ShadowDreamz X replied to walkinginmemphis's topic in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships
Just talk to her. Tell her how you feel. It's best if she knows what is going on. Otherwise, you will be trying to play a guessing game with yourself. I'm sure she will appreciate hearing about your true feelings for her. Make sure that you mention that you are telling her this so that maybe in the future you two can posssibly get back together, not to attempt to break her and her new boyfriend up. good luck