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Okay, this what you do. Give her a nice lick first so that she is all wet, or wet her which ever way u can. Don't surprize her. Let her expect it - prepare her. get her to be on her back, legs bent at the knees and spread. Insert your middle finger and explore her insides - slowly and deliberately. Find her sensitive spots. Ask her to tell you what feels good. Use your other hand to manipulate her clit, nipples and kep it busy. Soon she wil start moving herhips. As you reach her cervix, you will find a swollen big pea shaped object - massage it. Then bend your finger upwards and hit and rub the top - if you search long enuf you will find the G-spot. Talk and explore and do what feels good to her. She will buckle under you , cry out and have orgasms galore, she may even squirt some ejaculation, if you do it right. If you still can't do it, let me know. Idea is to share her feelings and talk about it and do it together. She must guide you to it an dyou must put your best efforts. just before she comes yo can take her clit in your mouth and keep your fingers busy. Objective - to please her to the maximum.
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I'm addicted to sex! What should i do?
artoferos replied to pyrochick52789's topic in Sex and Romance
You are overeracting. It is a rare person that is addicted to sex. I think you just love sex and not getting enough satisfaction. get your mate to slow down and enjoy it together. learn new tricks everytime you have sex and teach him too. -
We do 108 positions, but there are 5 basics. We am Indian - so we know all about Kamasutra. It is depicted in our temples.
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It took me fifteen years to persuade my wife to have anal sex. Now we enjoy it so much, we have it weekly. Don't force her. Try this small trick. Try to touch her anus asoften as possible. Just a bit of pressure - may be enter a centimeter with your little finger. It took me five years of that touching for her to feel good about it. Let me know, if you need to know more.
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Without fingering you cannot have great g-spot stimulation. While guys feel good giving the girl the finger - the enjoyment is entirely the girls. I love doing it, bacuase I think it is an unselfish act. If I did to my wife with my penis, what I do with the finger - she will have very little of me. If you need support or advice write to email removed
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You are stuck on size. If you want to have orgasms, get rid of it. Or go to a sex shop and get a penis extension and ask your b/f to fit it to his penis. Try hand, finger, oral, sex toys. Penis is not the only tool to give you orgasm. In avery long term relationship, its ole is insignificant - as far as orgasm goes.
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If ou are already into oral sex, you don't need lotion. Okay, get naked - both of you. You on your back, she sit between your legs. Do alot of kissing and foreplay before. You should be wet with pre-cum, otherwise ask her to wet you with your mouth or lotion. Ask her to make her hand like afist and encircle your penis. Move up and down - if you get dry, she may wet you. Another technique is she takes both hands and rubs on your penis, like rubbing cold hands to warm them. Once you master this I have many more for experts. Enjoy.
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Here is my list Art of Seduction Art of Self-pleasuring Art of Foreplay Art of Fantasy Art of Erotic Sex ARt of Anal Sex Art of Orgasm Read about them you will find your choices in all or any of them.
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I'm addicted to sex! What should i do?
artoferos replied to pyrochick52789's topic in Sex and Romance
Say YES to SEX - as much as you can. But please protect yourself. -
She needs to learn. She needs some sex education. Like a 'frog in the well' she has not been exposed to the thrills of sex. Your training is likely to prolonged. Like don't have sex with her. Ask her to masturbate you. Something out of the ordinary I think. Hey, PM me and we will try different ideas. I will write up something for you.
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Good sex is good, but a good bang - I don't know. Have sex with him, if you feel that you are in a relationship. A good sex, is when you desire to have sex again and again in the same relationship.
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One of the greatest secrets of our great sex life is, like eveything else we follow the maxim - ladies first. It is very important in sex. Physiologivally women take 30-45 or more minutes to come. Men take 2-10 or less minutes to come. So, you are on the right track. I am sure you will have a great sex life and relationship. Regarding how to do it= I have set up a free course. Let me know if you need it.
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I was 24, she was 22, we were married and both were virgins. We did not know where to do what. I came all ver her, before I enetered and we thought that was sex. Thena kind friend told her, we had not done it. She gave her an 'all purose cream'. We did it - it was nothing great, and we didn't like the sight of her blood. Later, 25 years later we are having great sex and experimenting everything about sex. Sex has become the foundation of our great relationship. We want to share our secrets - anyone can PM me.
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My wife and I were both vigrins when we maried - that was 25 years back. Our first sex act was nothing to write home about - except the sheer thrill of having sex. First advice - don't look for a virgin - you are limiting yourself and how would you know when looking? Are you going to ask every girl you meet about her virginity, before you even talk? Second advice is - go lose your virginity. From your talk it seems that later in a relationship when you find out that she was not a virgin - it may become an issue and obsession with you. Enjoy
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No Way. I may have been misunderstood here a bit. What I was saying is that we have consciously made sex the foundation of our relationship - not that if something went wrong it will collapse - and as a result of it we have a great relationship. In most forums I have read, everyone is grumpy about their sex life, so I thought I will share my bit and may be they will try and do their own.
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There is no limit to sex drive. The more you have the more you want - it better be good though. We are 25 years monogamous married and have sex almost everyday and prolonged sex. I recently retired and the first thing I told friends is I retired so that we can have more sex. Just enjoy, there are no limits.
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Please read my post hot and lusty marriage.
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I am surprised with all this school boyish talk of low sex drive at such and such age and circumstances. Those are just stereotype prejudices and has nothing to do with facts. Consider the difference betwen a new car and an old car. You got to keep the old car more lubricated and better maintained - right. So all we need to do is understand the physiology of men and women and the impact it has on their mind. Women take longer to respond, longer to reach orgasm and have disimilar responses to similar stimuli. Man has similar responses to similar stimuli and ejaculates in far less time. In a relationship as time goes by - the woman has had liitle response to sex because the man has already done his job, before she is ready. All she is left to do is get up and wash. No guys this won't do. Don't blame her for what you are primarily responsible for. Take responsibility and let her come first. There is more, but this is getting too long.
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My marriage could use some help.......
artoferos replied to Lost with love's topic in Sex and Romance
Try to read my post of today. It may help you to find some answers. Let me know if you need more. -
I asked my wife and this is her reply. The more you have sex the more you feel like having sex - but the sex better be good. The man is mostly responsible for good sex - the woman's role is to be responsive. So don't blame your wife. You may have a lot to learn yet. The woman takes, 45 minutes to come - so make her come before you, with oral or any other method. Most women stop having sex, because the man is over with it, before she is even physically ready to respond. With women similar stimuli gives dissimilar response. Most men seem to think that if she was responding last year to the same stimulation - what happened now and naturally presume a dead libido. Wake up and have fun. Let me know.
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What would you do to keep your marriage hot and lusty for all times? List the ten most important things that you would do. After we get ten replies, we will compile the common ones and distribute them. Hopefully it will help a lot others. Here are ours: Stay healthy, desirable and fit. Do not take each other's love and libido for granted - work for it. Be ready to experiment with and explore your limitations - mental and physical. Do to the other what you would expect to be done to you and do more. Be ready to please before asking to be pleased. Express expectations and make agreements. Schedule one hour everyday for each other - even if you jut hold hands. Praise a lot, criticize little. Be physical at all times and not just limited to bed time. Get crazy and mad once in a while and then make up with lot of expression of love. Let her have an orgasm before you - it takes her 45 minutes and you only two minutes.
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Sex is not an one time act - it is an entire process. This discussion seems tosay - have a busy day, come into bed, have sex and go to sleep. Well it doesn't work that way. You can't tune on and off at will. You need to keep it lubricated and tuned all th etime. Actually requires very little effort. There is need to talk and all that, but you got to use your imagination a lot. Throughout the day whenever you get a chance try erotic communication hugging kissing touching laughing And then ask for sex , you will always have a great time. One small example how you can turn an irritant into a great sex session. When she is on the MSN. Play with her breasts, kiss her and get passionate. Go down and have oral sex, let her continue doing what she wants - don't ask her to stop - she will stop on her own. Come back to me if this one does not work.
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I am not much aware of medication effects. To me it feels like you two love each other and are sensitive that a lower drive in one may hurt the other. So each one is trying to lower the drive just for the benefit of the other. If you understand that she has a lower drive, you don't have to lower yours. Get her to do it to you in other ways. The genital is not the only erogenous zone. You can find hundreds of them if you explore them. Don't worry, don't hurry, have patience and find ew ways to satisfy each other. In time you will both regain your sex-drive and have usual sex. Let me know.
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You are not getting sex in your marriage? Ask yourself-will you get it without your marriage? When it comes to sex, one in the hand is better than two in the bush. Take what you have in your hand. Have you heard of 'Pygmallion' - transform her, and fall in love all over again. I know it is a long process. If you need any help PM me - I can start you from the beginning. Art of Eros
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Yeah, try woman on top - never fails. Also the doggy style for G-spot stimulation. It takes about 45 minutes so teach him to last longer than you. Need a few tricks - I do have some.