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yeah thats whats weird... i talked to her about my sexual fustration... and the big problem is our work... dont get it wrong, if anything i take care of our child the most, i clean, i do more then my share of the work around the house.... tonight i found a cure.....i found a cure to being sexualy fustrated... alcohol i started drinking a bit when my girlfriend went to sleep cause once again she was "tired" and i cant really blaim her....if shes tired i dont want to have sex with her, that just makes it worse....although she kept on trying to wake up and started saying things like she was trying to stay up to have sex with me... i make sure i make a good effort to let my gf now i love her... i tell her shes looks good everyday... i get her things when shes watching tv... i incourages dates all the time, go to movies, to a restaurant... i sang her a song and played guitar for her... i mean im not a ugly guy....alot of my women friends tell me im very attactive....i hate saying that kind of stuff, but it decribes the situation better... basically i try hard to make things the way they were when we first were going out... i told her to not worry, cause aint nothing worse then having sex with someone who doesnt feel like having sex... so anyways i started having a couple of drinks and decided to go to a strip club to releave some tention...after a few drinks, i realized that i never found any of the strippers attractive....i realized how much i loved my girlfriend...and found that drinking is a easy way to surpress sexual urges... my problem was the urges...i wanted sex at the most unreasonable times...although she has admitted, that her desire to have sex has decreases largly... and that made me fustrated... so after a few drinks i found that my thoughts were clear...i came home thinking i would have to masterbate to get this tension off ...but no.... i surpress the uges...and now i feel better.... i hate all these doctors when you ask them how to decrease your sex drive tell you that its wrong to...if its so wrong how come it feels right???? you can get alot acomplished when you dont have sex on your mind...

do we not men? if we had sex at least 2 times a week none of us would have this problem with stress and suffering... me and my girlfriend been together 2 years we have a child together, and we used to have sex everyday...sometimes 2 or more times a day when we first started going out... but now, its always the same thing.... "im tired" then she falls asleep...im here feeling like a pervert because i feel like i always want sex, thus making me so god damm depressed... when i have sex i dont need sex for a good 3 days... i bet alot of you feel the same way... i have a extreem high sex drive too... i hate masterbating, it just makes me feel more depressed, but i have to, otherwise i get mad, and i take it out on my girlfriend, ...i just want to bash in my friends brains when they talk about all the sex they get from there girlfriends... ive never cheated on my girlfriend...NEVER...she cheated on me though... not too long ago either.... i know she regrets it...honestly... heres my plan... i love my girlfriend so much.... what i have with her is like getting the car of your dreams, knowing you will never get another chance at ever getting a car like this again.... then being told you cant drive it... i dont want to ever leave her....but i might have to it sounds soo selfish, and i feel like a total jerk, but this stress and pain i cant deal with, I HAVE NEEDS TOO!!! i only say this cause, what kind of relationship is this? were 21 years old and our sex lives are like 40 years olds ive talked to her about our sex life and my problem and i thought she understood how we need to fix it, but nothing has changed.... she talks to people on MSN for so long then she gets tired and goes to sleep... then say "im sorry for being so tired and not wanting to have sex" WELL!!! if you wernt on MSN talking to people for those momments when we could have had sex we wouldnt have this problem would we? no...youd rather watch tv, go on the internet, anything else but to have sex with me... i dont want to look back when im old and my you know what is all limp and i cant get it up anymore IM SO FUSTRATED ITS NOT FUNNY....reading this post i might come off as a phyco and scary person, when actualy i consider myself a nice person who just wants to be happy....i never get into fights, but now with all this sexual fustrations all i want to do is hurt people,,, i hate the person ive become...all this because i have sex 1-2 month... _________________