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  1. Allie.
    hang in there love.
  2. Allie.
    haha. hmm. i think a lot of guys do the same thing... either way, i don't think its a gender-based thing...i just think deep down inside we're all confused messes trying to discover who we are and our "niche" in the world...and in the process we end up loving some and hurting some. yup bro...ya lose some and ya gain some. =/ Allie.
  3. Allie.
    aww i'm sorry. i've never experimented with my hair. the furthest i've gone is...a hair cut.
  4. Allie.
    wow...we really didn't belong with those people [= i think thats why they're called ex's.
  5. Allie.
    ^^ wow. i wish i had a story like that to tell to my...pup.
  6. Allie.
    Hahahahahahahahahahahaa!
  7. Allie.
    i think thats closure for you. i think you need to start NC and stick with it for the time being.
  8. Allie.
    i think this activity is very healthy for you. its good you listed the pros and cons from both point of views. it shows you are a considerate, level-headed person. [= good for you. keep up the healing chica.
  9. Allie.
    i think you said it just fine [=
  10. Allie.
    that's a very good way to look at it crvers...we should definitely try to look at it from our ex's point of views as well. =]
  11. Allie.
    hahaha. well. i think you attained some "closure". now its time to move on and STICK to NC red. i'm holding your word for this one... allie.
  12. Allie.
    hmm. i think you jumped into a rebound relationship. I think evaluating your intentions needs to be done. like, are you in this because you're afraid to be alone? single? you have to give yourself some time to heal. jumping into a rebound relationship will only hurt you. think about it as this analogy... would you try to arm-wrestle if your arm is broken? Of course not. Don't set yoruself up for further pain in the future. and i don't think you've hit the worst part of healing because...you're not allowing yourself to heal. HEALING helps you REALIZE that its okay to be ALONE. and you're not physically or emotionally alone. So...if i were you, i would break it off with this guy and be fair to him and yourself. YOU come first. right after a break-up, its supposed to be about YOU, not about your ex. ..Always, Allie.
  13. Allie.
    OHHH. adlkfjalkdjfklajdfugh i can totally relate to the last one. my ex's brother talked him into it too. roar. but then again...i need someone who can make their own decisions and stick by them. unfortunately my ex has a lot of growing to do...i mean, he is a boy stuck in a man's body.
  14. Allie.
    To look at this a bit more postively, I think we should all list at least three reasons our relationships ended for the best..this doesn't necessarily include bashing your ex's...but its permitted [= For me: - we were both on different maturity levels. - he was unsure of what he wanted out of the relationship. - we were too different.
  15. Allie.
    no its not considered stalking... but if you have a psycho ex-girlfriend...it may be [= haha. consider yourself GONE! be glad you're far away from her. run fast. allie.
  16. Allie.
    hmm. i went thru all the stages in waves for about more than one month and now, i think i'm constantly changing between depression and acceptance...but these days....the depression and acceptance ratio is like, 1:10. I feel depression once in every so 10 days of acceptance [= life is goood. Allie.
  17. Allie.
    red. i'm soo sorry. hang in there bud. please please please dont break NC! she doesn't want you around. hang in there. you can make it on your own. you were just fine before her and you'll be just fine after her. hang on!
  18. Allie.
    no prob. ur exactly right. we WILL get through this red. [= "just because we don't feel like we're going to heal doesn't mean we never will." ..Allie.
  19. Allie.
    ^ hey red, i know the feeling. this is gonna sound super weird but it helps so to heck with that. anyway, it is possible to have physical pains when being emotionally attached....to ease those pains, you have to breathe deeply and slowly a couple of times. [we only take up 50% percent of lung space when we normally breathe] Make sure you get a 100% in there so that your heart can slow down because there is more AIR to deal with. And also, place your hand where it hurts on your body...its said "touch" can do "wonders". It's true in my case. My hand seems to give off heat that warms the hurting parts of me and it really helps in the end [= always, Allie.
  20. Allie.
    exactly redmage [= you're gonna be just fine. and I can tell miss chloe here is missing out because you're such a nice, caring, sweet guy. you wouldn't be posting here if you weren't and from getting to know you thru your posts...you've got a heart of gold. I don't even know why chloe broke it off w/ you. I mean...i've never been in a relationship with you so i wouldn't know...maybe you're a complete different person in a relationship...BUT I DOUBT IT WITH ALL OF MY HEART. hahaha. You don't seem bipolar or suffering from mulitple personality disorder [= So ITS HER loss cuz YOU, mister, are a great, loving, friendly guy [= always. Allie
  21. Allie.
    Mkay. Redmage, she was probably a GREAT person. I don't doubt it one bit...but...its over. I know you miss your friendship with Chloe. Of course, I understand because I was/am in the SAME damn position. Here is some advice about becoming "friends" after the break-up. This article helped me alot when i was having doubts... I hope it'll help pal. and don't forget the advice you gave me....
  22. Allie.
    shucks! I was supposed to post that on the "Question about everyone doing NC?" post so missme could read it. rawr. either way... aww no problem & yes. I understand [= just hang in there bud. we're all here for you. but please don't break NC again...i know it may be specially tempting right now cuz you prolly wanna know as much as you can about her and this other guy but just remember 2 things...wanting and needing are different things and of course...if you broke your arm...you wouldn't try to arm-wrestle... always, Allie'zter.
  23. Allie.
    Hey...didyoumissme? and redmage22 i have some thing that will hopefully help you... Always, Allie.
  24. Allie.
    Mkay...didyoumissme? and redmage22 I have some advice for you both that I found around a thread. Mkay? always, Allie.
  25. Allie.
    hey wait a minute bud. Why are you giving her the upper hand here? Isn't "how much time are we gonna need" up to you though? She's the one that broke it off. it seems in a normal break-up, the dumpees are usually the ones that need time to heal and recover and its usually up to THEM to go back and become friends with the dumpers. hmm?
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