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  1. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Gees I hear that. Not a lot of quality out there. Not a lot of even bottom line acceptable, sadly. So yes quantity does not equal quality. I'd not profess to 'Judge' someoneone in their entirety after 15 minutes, but anyone who claims they can say they've never met someone and known within 15 minutes that there was absolutely no chance of a relationship with that person, is either a liar, or has very little going for them. It must be, as I've also had many, many similar experiences. But you know I have to say, One doesn't need any formal education at all to simply be polite, have a little common courtesy and decency, and understand basic human etiquette. Well its probably just because it's hard to read a person from just typing, and really I don't recommend it anyway. Truly I think a lot of guys go on there and kid themselves into thinking "Gee, look at all these girls, and they're even talking to me! I can say or act anyway I want!". But maybe that's a good thing, if they show undesireable side early on we need to know about it!
  2. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    I'm not sure how your proclaiming that being a stay at home mother is the most important job in the world is not automatically belittling everyone who is not a parent, not to mention those millions of single mothers who have to parent, and work 9 to 5. I'd personally be embarrased to proclaim that my position was the world's most important.
  3. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    I agree with this one. I wouldn't bother with giving him a chance or asking him, or anything, it's not ok to stand someone up, period. NEXT!
  4. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    She already said he logged on.
  5. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Yeah, but actually I think more of the problem lies in that a lot of the guys there are not actually looking for a relationship, whereas I'd say most of the women are. You know how guys used to pay .99 a minute to talk to a woman while they jerked off? Same thing, only now its FREE!... just push the Instant Message button.
  6. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    But it was just a joooke! Really!!
  7. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Yes, obviously. And it seems its ok for you to brag about your life and your choices, but not for the OP....hmmm...... Thats neat but it wasn't directed at you..........
  8. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Oops! Good call, that 'if' was a little uncalled for lets just say 'when'!
  9. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Well, I don't think your choices are more important than the OP's but obviously you do (and don't mind bragging about it). You might not be able to cuddle a phd but I'd not feel too cuddly about a mom who played favorites.
  10. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Ok, I see what you mean.
  11. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    eh, girls nowadays start puberty at 11 and younger I believe sometimes. So no I don't think the onset of puberty is the proper age of consent. Not like oh, she's had her first period so it's fair game.
  12. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Yeah, she's probably just trying to maintain friendship as usual. And you're right you probably just need to get more centered within yourself, so that you can remain friends with her, and you can persue relationships with other women if and when the opportunity presents itself. At this point I'd take her at her word, that she's just not interested. Don't trick yourself into thinking that if she continues to remain platonic friends with you she's leading you on. That's a no-win for her. Think about this: I give my platonic friends a call all the time, ask them to hang out with me, compliment them and so forth, doesn't in any way indicate I'm interested in them romantically.
  13. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Well it's your expensive jewelry, if I were you I would get it back from him, whether it's convenient time for him or not. You should be able to get an officer to accompany you there if he does not cooperate. Maybe ask him to mail it to you by a certain date, and if you haven't received it by then you will be seeking a police escort to his house to retrieve your stuff. That should get his attention.
  14. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    I believe that these statements from her are simply to buffer your feelings and to diffuse the situation by telling you, essentially, 'it's not you, it's me'. I've told platonic female friends of mine that I trust them more than some others. I've told my brother that I trust him. So how could that translate to "I didn't really mean it when I said I don't want to be romantically involved with you."?
  15. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    I know, and yes I agree she should not feel guilty about it, but I think it's perfectly normal to use stategies to increase her comort level. She doesn't want to be objectified while at work, I can't blame her for that.
  16. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Well maybe he's just too immature to know or appreciate a good thing, so you're better off without him. But for at least a good little while try to avoid him. Are you going to be running into him at that bar? Did you get your stuff back?
  17. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Some girls (actually a lot of girls) simply don't enjoy numerous unwanted advances, especially at work, and it makes them feel uncomfortable. I don't think that she be unvalidated feeling, or anything she should be made to feel wrong for. If she doesn't take it as a compliment, then she doens't take it as a compliment. Personally I don't blame her. If they do have a ring, maybe ask, "So does your wife bank (or shop) here, too?"
  18. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    He sounds immature, but on a broader note, it sounds like you need to get out of your neighborhood more and stay away from the beer and the guys at the local bar. I don't think that scene is good for you. Just an impression I get.
  19. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    She could be a bank teller or run a cash register at a grocery store. But actually it is pretty easy to tell when someone's zeroing in on you. I doubt its just her imagination. When they ask certain questions or what you're doing this weekend, are you going to the movie with a boyfriend stuff like that, plus if they're staring at you or leering at you while they're standing in line, it's pretty obvious....
  20. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    That's quite true. And he said something to OP about, a woman wearing boots and lingere 'at the right moment'. Well I wonder when exactly that is? 8:32:48 Pacific Time, or...exactly when. Or is OP supposed to just innately know that too? Dude sounds off his rocker.
  21. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Gosh I don't think his behavior would be appropriate or acceptable no matter what age!
  22. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Seriously, this guy sounds beyond shallow and superficial, but actually a bit ill. Please lose him and don't spare him a second thought. He is actually being emotionally abusive towards you, and I don't see him being able to make you happy (or anyone either).
  23. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    I think that you are right, in that you should not persue this. You have already asked and she has basically let you down easy. Now you don't want to be her friend anymore. Maybe your ego is just bruised from this rejection, but it doesn't sound like you're being a good friend to me: You have ulterior motives, and if she doesn't reciprocate then you're out. Well maybe it's for the best then if you don't think you can handle just being friends that you stay away from her, but please don't blame this on her. It's just one of those things, if the sparks not there for her, it's just not there. And no I really don't think you should make any unwanted sexual advances on her. She's already made it clear to you (told you outright) she is not interested in you romantically, now if you were to kiss her in spite of this, I think it would smack of assault.
  24. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Your ex implied that if you can't read his mind or if you're 'innate' tendencies towards how to dress don't meet his specific fetish-oh-oops-I-meant-fantasy, then you are not sexually self-aware. How much more self-centric can he possibly be? I'd say he's not a Keeper, but a Loser.
  25. iamteddybearfeelmecuddle
    Seven years? Yeah, good point esp if OP is waiting for a real rock. Sometimes method 2) I think is a cop out for the BF. Because if he doesn't want to lay claim to you, then maybe he shouldn't have you make things so easy for him. Well, but then a girl has to weigh out her own comfort. Even when I'm not with a BF I sometimes employ these methods, simply for my own comfort level, as I don't enjoy unwanted attention from certain undesireable males...
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