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I've never seen a circumsized penis, over here inthe UK it's for religious or medical reasons only. You're born with it so it must be useful otherwise evolution would have done away with it.
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Just about finished "A Spot of Bother" by Mark Haddon, I loved his first book "A Curios Incident of the Dog in the Night-time" Its very different from a curious incident as it takes on the perspectives of four people throughout, it's an ok read.
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I have seen these little metal ring thingies in music shops, they are a bit like fake nails u can wear for picking with ur fingers instead of using your nails. They just slip on around the end of ur fingers and look like u have little claws...pretty kool
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i'm making an appointment tomorow to check for STD's as soon as possible.
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I've been on the pill just over 2 years. My bf and i were using both condoms and the pill at first, but then we seemed to forget about putting on a condom and relied only on the pill. I've been a bit stressed with the uni workload, but its never affected my cycle i think only illnesses have. tis strange...
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Hi there everyone. Im a little bit worried about this bleeding i had yesterday. It was like the brown sort just as your period starts but it wasnt as dark. It only lasted for a day but my period isnt due for another week. could it be implantation bleeding?? Its a scary thought, i dont think i am pregnant as i take my pills when im supposed to. Its not a breakthrough bleed as i dont skip the 7 pill-free days. I was really ill with the flu a couple of weeks ago but didnt take any antibiotics, just paracetamol and cough medecine. My bf and i have been having regular sex and we just rely on the pill for protection...im worried. oh dear....
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If i go back to uni, he will be there. His friends are my friends, and vice versa. I still love him and miss him so much but i have no idea how to be when im going to be around him. We've broken up for 2 months-ish now, and i didnt stick with the NC, he's been calling so often it feels like we're still together, so obviously i havent had a chance to heal (my bad!) We've arranged to be gym buddies, he's wanted to do that for a while before we broke up as something we could do to spend time together. He even has a little present for me, some decorational chop sticks at a chinese function/dinner held at Glasgow. Its like everything is back to normal between us, so could he want us to be back to the way we were before?
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Welcome hunny! To me, judging a person based on their sexuality is just as bad as judging someone based on their race, religion, background etc...its just completely unfair. I dont think you have anything to worry about or be ashamed about. You're parents will love you no matter what sexuality you are or what you make of your life. True friends would feel the same way. As for coming out? I would wait until you are comfortable with yourself and who you are, there's no need to rush things. Only when you feel the time is right
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Freaking out about 3rd year at uni
highonyou replied to highonyou's topic in Career, Money and Education
Im doing a biology course which is a mix of microbiology/parisitology/virology and i dont know what the questions are beforehand at exam time. oh my. -
Hey everyone, in a couple of weeks i'll be heading back to uni for the new term and i am completely terrified of failing. I did well in my last set of exams, but because of a fail in philosophy i didnt resit my grade point average was lowered by just enough for me to miss out on the honours course i really want to do. So im stuck with the designated degree and this is also potentially my last year at uni. I did get a little bit of hope from my advisor, apparently if i can get a B or even a really high C i could move onto 4th year as an honours student. woo! What im scared of is the workload. theres a lot more involved but it only adds up to 33% of the total course and the rest is essay based exams. I am terrible at essays! i do an essay and think i've done badly but i get a C. Or i think i've done really well and put a lot of effort into an essay but i still get a C!! It drives me mad to think im only capable of a C when i want this honours degree more than anything. Can anyone give some hints?? Thanks
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I mentioned in a previous post that my bf and i were going "on a break" til the start of the new term in september... well he called about 2 weeks ago at midnight, it was a great conversation like the ones we used to have and i was really happy to hear from him. But towards the end he said that he didnt want to get back together after the hols and likes being single, it hurt but wasnt shocked - he's said that before. So ive initiated NC, a first for me, and he has been calling a quite a lot since friday night and i've managed to avoid picking up the phone. Im not mad at him anymore, just really disappointed that he would rather break up with me everytime we come accross a problem and make up later once he's forgotten about it. I would do anything for him and would love to be with him again but i dont want to be made to walk on eggshells just waiting for him end it all again over something that could be sorted by talking. Should i keep up the NC til i see him again? thanks everyone
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sweet jebas! my bf does that! but then i know what he's like and it doesnt bother me now. have you ever stopped to think that by freaking out that you may have acted too clingy, u may be doing the exact opposite, and making the person you like feel rejected? its not that great a feeling only getting a short call once a week or less!
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AZT is i think the first AIDs treatment, the cost of it should plummet soon because of something about how long its been in use since its patent. My friend Scott (almost a Dr!) mentioned the price of crugs are very expensive when first brought out, after 30 years or so in use they become dirt cheap, probably because of competition from newer drugs.
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that is so true! I bet she wouldnt leave her mum abandoned for a few hours! if you can, record the next hissy fit she has and play it back to her. she'll probably hear how ridiculous she is being.
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The thing about AIDs/HIV that really sucks is that it doesnt matter what expensive treatments a person get, it can only be contained to that person, it can NEVER be cured. The damn retrovirus has worked its way into your DNA and essentially every cell in your body. For that reason, i would not risk exposing that to anyone.
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It sounds like she is overreacting, maybe because of the upcoming wedding? has she put alot of time into getting things sorted for the big day? it might be her way of asking for help with it all! Why do you need to see a pastor about a compatability test? if you werent compatible you wouldnt be getting married, right?
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i think there is a fear about being commited to someone but i wouldnt say it was a genuine phobia either. it could just be a fear that you could lose your individuality or are afraid to let that force field around you're heart down due to a previous relationship, but if they truly love you, those fears would dissolve.
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i still dont buy it, a little fantasy would be around 5 minutes, then 10 secs and another 5 mins of fantasising?? i dont think it adds up, or else nothing would ever get done!
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i think its terrible drilling it into girls heads that they will suffer for losing their virginity before marriage. anyone else outraged by the 16 year old executed for "crimes against chastity" the world is messed up!!!
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where "they" get the numbers for this, i dont know, but every 10seconds does seem farfetched. i have a healthy sexuall appetite but every 6.5-7 seconds? yeah right...
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lol. i feel like i already have a mother in law, my bf's mum scare the bujeezus out of me. just because as we get older we may find less time for sex, doesnt mean a man's thoughts dont wander onto that subject as well
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i caved at 16, and i regretted it so much. peer pressure and alcohol are not a good mix. i do think sumtimes that maybe if i didnt lose my virginity that night, i wouldnt have been so easily persuaded to sleep with the next 2 guys i went out with and would have been a virgin when i met my snugglebunny. but "what if"s and "maybe"s are wasted thoughts and dont change anything.
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it definitly depends on the indivdual, sex drive is based on how much testosterone you have floating around which i guess is why its assumed guys think about woohoo more. i tend to think about sex loads the week before my period...bf loves it! and a mans testosterone levels are at a peak about 9am and starts to decline during the rest of the day. set your alarm clocks ladies when your in the mood
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Sex with best friend's brother...hmmm
highonyou replied to SwtMary's topic in Friendship and Friends
does your friend have her on bf? maybe its the green eyed monster than the green go ahead light. i would be a bit jealous if my mate, comes over to my place/party to hang out with me is with my sister instead. maybe thats how your friend saw it, you were dumping her for her brother. -
i admit it!! i've become a hermit!!! my bad, but i just dont have the energy or motivation to go out much... whenever i go out its with my bf and he normally gets bored by about midnight so we both leave...man, im a sheep too