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SwtMary

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  • Birthday 01/07/1977

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  1. When I was younger I went to Florida and didn't know any better and used sun enhancer!! I had blisters the next day!! It was horrible....
  2. I have definitely had my share of sunburns!! Sorry hun.
  3. I know this will sound gross and it stinks but vinegar works wonders! It takes the pain away immediately. Now it doesn't last long but it does GREAT!!
  4. I think she saw you. Maybe not when she was standing right in front of you, but she did see you. Oh and she did have your friend checking things out. I have done that before for a friend of mine...LOL I think it is great that you were ok with it...shows that you are healing very well.
  5. Honey, I hate to state the obvious but this guy is no good for you. You are so young, why would you want to put up with this? In what ways did you help him with his addiction?
  6. I just wanted to let ya'll know that she has forgiven me. She did say that it would be a long time until we could hang out together. That is perfectly understandable. I feel much better and hope that one day she will trust me again.
  7. Of course I am sorry and I will probably pay for this for the rest of my life. I would never do anything purposely to hurt her or our relationship.
  8. OH I dont know. I can blame him, her, me, alcohol, sex, whatever...it doesn't change the fact that I obviously did something wrong. I guess I will have to be miserable until she forgives me, which I don't think is going to happen. I know what I did was wrong in her eyes. I now know that it is wrong to sleep with your best friend's relatives. I personally wouldn't have a problem with it. As a matter of fact, I had a really close friend that did sleep with my brother and I didn't have a problem with it. Anyway, thanks for listening. I can't undo what was done. I can't appologize any more. I have asked for forgiveness and I hope she will someday forgive me...
  9. I am not reading everyone's post...I am lazy today...hehe I do feel the exact same way you do. I have recently taken a vow of celibacy due to the times I have been hurt by men. I know its not their fault. Sex is a very controlling factor for me, so a vow like this will help me overall. I am sorry that you are feeling this and I really do hope things change for both of us
  10. It's actually not the alcohol that is the problem, it's the sex. I am so "shocked" when a man wants to have sex with me, that I don't think about who it will hurt or who it will effect.
  11. Honestly, no I didn't think things would become awkward. I guess I am stupid or something. I saw it as strictly sex. He needed it, and I was available. I was obvously WAY wrong.
  12. I really think our friendship is over. I am going to just post her reply to an email I sent her. See mary the thing about it is.. I feel like you disrespected our friendship... it must not have meant very much for you to have done that... that is just a line that you don't cross. I would never get with your brother. I mean if you and shaun had been dating it would be different.. It pisses me off. Now it will always be awkward between us.. and of course you and shaun. Shaun already asked that I not invite you over if he is home.. I mean.. not to hurt your feelings or anything.. but do you see what it has caused? Now I mean you can't come to the house without one of yall feeling awkward.. or even me. I don't know. Lets give it some time. That really hurt me Mary, I would have expected something like that out of Holli... but not you, and not to keep on saying this.. but holli wouldn't have ever slept with shaun, I don't care what anyone says.. she wouldn't have done that.. because there is a line that friends have.. you don't sleep with their men, present or X and you don't mess with their families.
  13. Yes, I am positive that she is upset about what happened between us and not about something else. I have contacted her telling her I was sorry and that I didn't want to lose her over this. I haven't heard anything yet, and it's driving me crazy. I don't see what I did was wrong, but she does, and right now that is all that matters.
  14. No I wouldn't want a relationship with him. Yes he was probably more drunk than I was.
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